"Also, why is the Site sooo user unfriendly"
I beg to disagree. I was posting something just now and when I went to leave it warned me that the changes would not be saved. That's not user unfriendly. I was a bit puzzled when I first joined but eventually with the help of other members I got most things figured out, but still learning of course. Your Opa (is that grandfather in German or Dutch?) can't be any worse than me so don't blame the site.