Would you give money to an online friend?

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mcpon14

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Would you ever give money to an online friend?

I've known this person online for around 6 months and she is going homeless and needs money. Should I give this person some money?

Would you if an online friend asked for some?
 

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I've known this person online for around 6 months and she is going homeless and needs money. Should I give this person some money?

There's a lot to think about here. Six months can be a long time, but it would depend upon how you define the word "know." I would also consider the circumstances of how a person got into whatever situation they were in. You don't want to be enabling people with addictions or layabouts. It also depends upon whether or not you, yourself, can afford it and what you would be doing with the money if you didn't give it away.

I am generally suspicious of internet sob stories, but I am also a cantankerous old bastard (ask anyone). Most people are nicer than me, so my advice may not be helpful, but I suspect your heart will tell you what to do. Hearts are not always correct in their judgment, but neither are heads, and following your heart will make you feel like you did the right thing no matter what actually happens.
 

blunthead

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Would you ever give money to an online friend?

I've known this person online for around 6 months and she is going homeless and needs money. Should I give this person some money?

Would you if an online friend asked for some?
How much money do you have, how much can you afford to lose? Unless there's no way you can ever conceivably discover the truth about this individual's actual needs I would wait to discover it. Perfect strangers can be impressively manipulative.

A Fool and His Money Are Soon Parted - Phrase Meaning, Idiom Origins
 
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CrimsonKingAH

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I have gave once to someone online that I don't really know... not much, but a lot of people here gave a little so it added up. But no, normally I don't give to people I don't know online. I find other ways to help people I see every day. Too many scammers online. Trust your heart.. and it doesn't hurt to investigate a little.
 

mjs9153

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and be very careful..there are professional thieves that prey on goodhearted people on the net,and are tough to find out..so only if I really knew who the person was..