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Oh my God - this is shocking - I met him in person in 2014 and he was the nicest, sweetest, gentlest guyIt is with extreme sadness that I am reporting that we have lost our fellow ka tet member, Nate Watkins, who was killed in a motorcycle accident on August 24, 2016. We will miss you, Nate, and I raise a glass of beer in your honor.
Neither can I - I feel so bad for his family and all of his friends hereThat is a great picture of him, Debbie. Thank you for posting it.
I just can't stop the tears today.
This article debunks the 'chase' angle. That really didn't sound right. Speeding, yeah--did it many times as my youthful self. Dumb, but...youth.I've been following the obit information on his local newspaper. Might be too soon for publication, but that should have info for contact or donations.
So many tears for his family and this Ka-Tet.
This is a beautiful post - thank you CesarMy condolences to all of you who knew him.
From what I read here, he must have been a great guy and it is sad that I'll no longer have a chance to meet him.
I hope he lived a fulfilling life and that his family and friends get the strength to go on.
It's hard to believe - only 29 years old. The only comfort his family may glean from all this is that he died quickly without any pain. No disrespect intended but it somehow reminds me of James Dean - life fast, die youngI can't read all of these posts yet, and the thread itself just makes me bawl in a way that's so hard to stop.
I've been talking with Nate's girlfriend and soon will be able to pass on (privately) an address to send correspondence to.
As for the article, I haven't asked her what they think happened, but I do think he would have been travelling at speed, it's just what he did on his bike... also, he would have been wanting to avoid being caught, because driving was his job and losing his licence would be a big problem. I think he probably had a knee-jerk reaction to seeing a trooper do a U-turn behind him... and it just went wrong. (I might be wrong about that, but it feels like what Nate would have been thinking.)
Right now I am so mad at him for doing something so silly... but this comes from the devastating pain of losing somebody I cared for very much.
I do want you to rest in peace my dear friend, but I wish even more that we still had you here. You are so loved, Naters. ♥
This is a touching tribute, Srbo. Thanks for sharing it with us. May he be remembered the way you so eloquently described.Like SK somewhere said, it might be 11/22/63, but I`m not sure...
" Life is hard. But why does it have to be cruel, too?"
I`m looking through my balcony window and it`s raining, hard. After weeks and weeks of scorching hot weather, the sky has finally opened up and the rain is coming down with all its might.
But there are not only raindrops slowly sliding down the window.
A dear friend died last night.
Like many of us here, it was good, ole Uncle Steve who has brought us together, his words, his stories and our never-ending curiosity to read about what the man has written.
Our friend was a kind guy, not very vocal, but when he did have something to say, it was either the best sarcasm I have encountered in my life ( and I mean that in a good way ) or something really smart and witty.
Yeah, Nate could make you smile and holler with laughter.
But he could also listen and be a true friend, one of those people who would give you the shirt off his back and much more, to make you feel good.
He was young, engaged to be married, he loved rock`n` roll, motorcycles and people, he loved anyone, there weren`t good or bad people for him, there were only people with their good sides as well as mistakes.
His love for motorcycles and speed proved also to be the cause of his riding not into the sunset, but into The Clearing at the End of the Path.
At the moment, I`m re-reading Joyland, it`s a great little summer novel, read it many times since it was published.
And there is this one sentence, when kids are climbing onto Jonesy, who is in his fur suit and making them laugh, they are hugging and kissing him and he says he has to somehow wriggle himself out from under them, cause they were crushing him with their love.
But in that moment he loved them right back.
That`s how I always feel with people I have met at the SKMB, or in Stephen King Central on FB...even though I have not met you, sometimes, many times, you are crushing me with your love.
I`m not complaining, those are great moments and I always love you back.
Just like I loved Nate.
I hope, my dear friend, that you got to meet John Dalglish and Deanna Rhodes Wooten out there, in those other worlds than this one.
Maybe by the Tower. I sure hope so and I hope that your journey will not be lonely, that you indeed find them, maybe laugh with them again...
Yeah...it`s not only raindrops sliding down the window.
Good-bye, my friend, it was an honor knowing you.
~ In loving memory of our dear friend, Nathaniel Watkins, 1987 - 2016