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Sigmund

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From today. I can post the stuff in between sometime, but I think this one stands on its own.

Boarding the plane tomorrow evening.

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Cultural Differences in Nigeria.

(Probably should be subtitled, "Did You Have To Go There"?)

I'm mostly kind of oblivious to racial differences. I don't know if that's because I'm just oblivious in general or because of a concerted attitudinal effort on my part in the '60s and '70s to remove visual factors from character evaluation. Probably just oblivious in general.

Example: It doesn't stop me from asking my dear friend [name] advice on taking the gang to a Korean barbecue, but it does stop me from considering her my ethnic Korean friend. She's simply a friend, and an excellent and hilarious one.

And here I am in Nigeria. I haven't really noticed me being in a marked minority here, any more than I thought of myself as minority in Japan or Korea or Mexico (or, for that matter, Bethel). You go to another culture, and you expect to be outnumbered by the people of that culture, right? Which is half the fun of going - it's a different experience.

But every now and then there are reminders.

Walking through a seaside restaurant, out on a jetty, back, along a beach, and then seeing a white girl and thinking, "Oh, she stands out," and your self-awareness kicks in and says, "So do YOU, you moron."

Or you're talking with your new Nigerian friend about food differences, and he says, "You whites," etc., and you know that what he really means (maybe) is "you Westerners," but still, it's jarring.

Or a little more sobering, as you see villagers coming in from their Real Thing Third World lives, after being taken from their unpowered, unplumbed town by speedboat, ferried over rough roads by local bus or taxi, and having their first airplane ride to the Big City, and you think how unsettling it must be for them now with bright lights around, a camera shoved in their face, and white people sitting all around and asking them questions.

Or kind of depressing, when a lady from one of those villages passes you in the kitchen, does a little curtsy, and her eyes are on you, cautious and wary. She's not that way with the other folks in the room. That was painful, especially when considering the historical foundation that's brought about that little legacy behavior.

It's a good lesson in the realities of egalitariansm. So sorry, Tommy, not everyone is created equal - BUT they have a right to BE equal in our human consideration of one another. You believe that, you practice it, and in your own subtle way (like with this post), you preach it, and over a lifetime, you hope it becomes second nature to you.

And then despite all that, there's the backdrop of human nature that every now and then puts a spitball on your temple. As a (mostly) white American male, descended from (mostly) white Western Europeans, who has the luxury of determinedly not considering race and ethnicity, it's a good peek at the perspectives of others, right down to people in my own Pleasantville-ish home town. I don't know that it's an enjoyable lesson, but it's a valuable one that, I hope, gets more rare and less relevant as the years, decades, and centuries march on for our species.

It's been a good experience here. I'm glad I came.


Thank you very much, Sir.

Get home safe and sound.
 

Grandpa

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I'm back home now but thought I'd catch up with the Nigeria travelogue. If it seems disjointed, it's because I'm doing some copying and pasting of Facebook entries.



Interesting cultural differences, although it's all by hearsay, which we'll talk about in the next paragraph. We're quite cloistered here in the compound. It's tile and adobe and nice hardwood floors. Well, and the high walls, barbed wired rolls at the top, the guard towers, and the security briefing that told us what to do in case of gunfire. (Don't check it out, and try to keep at least two walls between yourself and the gunfire.)

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The people being interviewed are from fishing villages. Now, that different culture. One is married, but not really, because he hasn't paid the "bride price." Another has kids of four boys and one girl. He named the girl "Pissant," and he didn't know how old she was. (Well, I found out later that the girl's name is actually "Pacent," but were all convinced it was "Pissant.") The towns' heads are called "king" and referred to as "Highness." And one village went to "war" against another, complete with gunfire and invasion and refugees. Makes the town-expansion rivalries in the U.S. quite tame by comparison. Toilets are perched over the river, which carries away the, um, waste (to another village downriver, presumably - well, that WOULD be a reason to go to war). Do you swim/bathe right around the same area? Yup.

A couple of the guys on the project here are Brits, and one of them described me as "unfussed." That sounded nice. I think. He's just the quintessential, well-mannered, earnest young Cambridge gentleman. Quite charming, actually. "Unfussed." I'll take it.

Going on this trip was accompanied with the sneaking suspicion that I'd be coming back wondering what in the world we complain about as we sit in front of our televisions, eat whatever we want, go unhindered wherever we want to go while nestled in comfort in our traveling accommodations, live in close to antiseptic conditions by comparison to other cultures, sit in cushioned chairs in heated or cooled homes, and just seem to get by day by day facing things that we call "problems" that generally don't threaten our life, health, or safety.

My suspicion has not lessened.

Away from the work, life on the compound is really pretty cushy here, which is to say it's pretty isolated from Nigeria proper. I got a chance or two to head out to Nigeria semi-proper, and that outing will be in another post.

I'm in a house with some people on the project. From my bedroom upstairs to the dining room downstairs, which serves as the meeting room. Shortest commute ever!

The house attendant, whom in going back to Marine days I refer to as the "house mouse" (not a derogatory term, I swear), a well-dressed nice man, does laundry and makes the bed every day, or at least every day that I leave the bedroom door unlocked, which is pretty near every day, because who doesn't like fresh laundry?

The compound reminds me of places in Southern California, except with lusher vegetation. It's a feel of adobe and light colors.

We walk about a third of a mile to the guest building for breakfast, supper, and sometimes lunch, which are all included in the gig here. I haven't spent a dime on food yet in this country. The food is pretty standard American fare, with lots of chicken, lots of fish, and the taste is - wow! - no, I mean okay. The taste is okay. Nothing especially tasty, nothing to spit out.

Lunch is catered on working days. That means we get foil boxes of food, generally either chicken or fish. After a slightly unpleasant experience with the fish one day - and I like fish - I've stuck to the chicken.

At the guest building, we also check out drinks that we want. Unfortunately, there's not much that I want except for bottled water. They do have some whiskey, vodka, and gin to splash into a glass, all complimentary. You also get four beers (alternating, Becks and Heineken) a day. Wine, you buy by the bottle.

And that's it. Pretty boring and sterile, sorry. But you gotta love the commute.

Out in the economy of Nigeria it's not quite so sterile. But like I said, that's for another post.
 

Dana Jean

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I'm back home now but thought I'd catch up with the Nigeria travelogue. If it seems disjointed, it's because I'm doing some copying and pasting of Facebook entries.



Interesting cultural differences, although it's all by hearsay, which we'll talk about in the next paragraph. We're quite cloistered here in the compound. It's tile and adobe and nice hardwood floors. Well, and the high walls, barbed wired rolls at the top, the guard towers, and the security briefing that told us what to do in case of gunfire. (Don't check it out, and try to keep at least two walls between yourself and the gunfire.)

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The people being interviewed are from fishing villages. Now, that different culture. One is married, but not really, because he hasn't paid the "bride price." Another has kids of four boys and one girl. He named the girl "Pissant," and he didn't know how old she was. (Well, I found out later that the girl's name is actually "Pacent," but were all convinced it was "Pissant.") The towns' heads are called "king" and referred to as "Highness." And one village went to "war" against another, complete with gunfire and invasion and refugees. Makes the town-expansion rivalries in the U.S. quite tame by comparison. Toilets are perched over the river, which carries away the, um, waste (to another village downriver, presumably - well, that WOULD be a reason to go to war). Do you swim/bathe right around the same area? Yup.

A couple of the guys on the project here are Brits, and one of them described me as "unfussed." That sounded nice. I think. He's just the quintessential, well-mannered, earnest young Cambridge gentleman. Quite charming, actually. "Unfussed." I'll take it.

Going on this trip was accompanied with the sneaking suspicion that I'd be coming back wondering what in the world we complain about as we sit in front of our televisions, eat whatever we want, go unhindered wherever we want to go while nestled in comfort in our traveling accommodations, live in close to antiseptic conditions by comparison to other cultures, sit in cushioned chairs in heated or cooled homes, and just seem to get by day by day facing things that we call "problems" that generally don't threaten our life, health, or safety.

My suspicion has not lessened.

Away from the work, life on the compound is really pretty cushy here, which is to say it's pretty isolated from Nigeria proper. I got a chance or two to head out to Nigeria semi-proper, and that outing will be in another post.

I'm in a house with some people on the project. From my bedroom upstairs to the dining room downstairs, which serves as the meeting room. Shortest commute ever!

The house attendant, whom in going back to Marine days I refer to as the "house mouse" (not a derogatory term, I swear), a well-dressed nice man, does laundry and makes the bed every day, or at least every day that I leave the bedroom door unlocked, which is pretty near every day, because who doesn't like fresh laundry?

The compound reminds me of places in Southern California, except with lusher vegetation. It's a feel of adobe and light colors.

We walk about a third of a mile to the guest building for breakfast, supper, and sometimes lunch, which are all included in the gig here. I haven't spent a dime on food yet in this country. The food is pretty standard American fare, with lots of chicken, lots of fish, and the taste is - wow! - no, I mean okay. The taste is okay. Nothing especially tasty, nothing to spit out.

Lunch is catered on working days. That means we get foil boxes of food, generally either chicken or fish. After a slightly unpleasant experience with the fish one day - and I like fish - I've stuck to the chicken.

At the guest building, we also check out drinks that we want. Unfortunately, there's not much that I want except for bottled water. They do have some whiskey, vodka, and gin to splash into a glass, all complimentary. You also get four beers (alternating, Becks and Heineken) a day. Wine, you buy by the bottle.

And that's it. Pretty boring and sterile, sorry. But you gotta love the commute.

Out in the economy of Nigeria it's not quite so sterile. But like I said, that's for another post.
This is all so amazing, but I sit here just thinking FEAR!!!!! That's just me. Scaredy cat.
 

Grandpa

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Always enjoy your writings.

You are always generous with your praise. Thank you, Spidey.

....sooooo, when should I expect my package of nifty keeno souvenirs?....

Oh, man, we ran out after the grandkids!

But since I'm not seeing your "Photo Shop" thread with the greatest of ease, here's some momentos.


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Denali, at the roof of North America.

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In Glacier Bay. These aren't the big glaciers, but I like the shot.
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Fantastical shapes adorn the top of one of the big ones.

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This was my favorite shot from the whole vacation. Got the sunburst, got the reflection.
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From the rail car, on the way to Denali.

Don't think that's all Alaska has to offer. I got tons more.
 

Dana Jean

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Apr 11, 2006
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You are always generous with your praise. Thank you, Spidey.



Oh, man, we ran out after the grandkids!

But since I'm not seeing your "Photo Shop" thread with the greatest of ease, here's some momentos.


View attachment 17779

Denali, at the roof of North America.

View attachment 17780

In Glacier Bay. These aren't the big glaciers, but I like the shot.
View attachment 17781

Fantastical shapes adorn the top of one of the big ones.

View attachment 17782

This was my favorite shot from the whole vacation. Got the sunburst, got the reflection.
View attachment 17783

From the rail car, on the way to Denali.

Don't think that's all Alaska has to offer. I got tons more.
You didn't see any of those skinny starving polar bears I see on my MSN homepage, did you?
 

GNTLGNT

The idiot is IN
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You are always generous with your praise. Thank you, Spidey.



Oh, man, we ran out after the grandkids!

But since I'm not seeing your "Photo Shop" thread with the greatest of ease, here's some momentos.


View attachment 17779

Denali, at the roof of North America.

View attachment 17780

In Glacier Bay. These aren't the big glaciers, but I like the shot.
View attachment 17781

Fantastical shapes adorn the top of one of the big ones.

View attachment 17782

This was my favorite shot from the whole vacation. Got the sunburst, got the reflection.
View attachment 17783

From the rail car, on the way to Denali.

Don't think that's all Alaska has to offer. I got tons more.
... These are the bestest!...
 

Nomik

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You are always generous with your praise. Thank you, Spidey.



Oh, man, we ran out after the grandkids!

But since I'm not seeing your "Photo Shop" thread with the greatest of ease, here's some momentos.


View attachment 17779

Denali, at the roof of North America.

View attachment 17780

In Glacier Bay. These aren't the big glaciers, but I like the shot.
View attachment 17781

Fantastical shapes adorn the top of one of the big ones.

View attachment 17782

This was my favorite shot from the whole vacation. Got the sunburst, got the reflection.
View attachment 17783

From the rail car, on the way to Denali.

Don't think that's all Alaska has to offer. I got tons more.
:clap::apple: :rolleyes: Sir, could I please have some more? (Photos, more photos)
 

Grandpa

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:clap::apple: :rolleyes: Sir, could I please have some more? (Photos, more photos)

Time is short today. Let me see what I can do.

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In the shadow of Denali.
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I just thought this was an interesting look on the side of a mountain.
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In Glacier Bay. Note the small boat close to the coastline, providing scale.


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The wall of ice at a glacier's terminus, carrying with it layers of dirt and rock that it scooped and carried from the canyon floor.
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A pretty waterfall to the side of the glacier.