Kurben, belated birthday greetings.
It's been a pleasure to read your intelligent, thoughtful and compassionate posts.
Intelligence is no guarantee of compassion (I've learned this the hard way).
And (sometimes), the immediacy of the internet makes us forget to be thoughtful and we say things that we wouldn't say to someone's face.
So it's a bonus to hear those three qualities, flowing through your writing, loud and clear.
Kol tuv (be well)