Crushed and Terrified

[MrsSmeej]

Wow, DiO'Bolic, reading that helped a LOT. I actually did start Googling stuff about divorce and the grieving process earlier today, too, and even thought I originally thought doing that would make me feel worse, it IS very comforting to hear so many others' stories. Just as it is comforting to hear the wonderful words that you all keep giving me. Tonight, I am feeling strong. I know there will be a lot of back and forth with my emotions going forward, and I have to keep reminding myself that this is only Day 4 since the bomb was dropped, but in this moment I feel like I can do this.

All I can keep saying to ALL of you is THANK YOU, and I'm sending many grateful (((HUGS)))

Pirate Princess, I'm so sorry that you're in such pain
But I know your husband's loss is gonna be your gain
('though it may not feel that way to you for quite a while.)
I am confident you'll handle this with grace and style.

That's what Pirate Princesses are known for, after all;
Fighting on and getting up again if they should fall...
You'll get through this stormy patch in life but, 'til you do
Please feel free to lean on us 'cause we're a loyal crew.

 

[Anduan Pirate Princess]

Pirate Princess, I'm so sorry that you're in such pain
But I know your husband's loss is gonna be your gain
('though it may not feel that way to you for quite a while.)
I am confident you'll handle this with grace and style.

That's what Pirate Princesses are known for, after all;
Fighting on and getting up again if they should fall...
You'll get through this stormy patch in life but, 'til you do
Please feel free to lean on us 'cause we're a loyal crew.

Oh my gosh, Mrs Smeej, I have no words, I really don't. This is beautiful. You are such a talent! Thank you SO, so much.

 

[do1you9love?]

(((APP))) Just found this thread. I am so sorry!

You've already received some great advice and you are doing the right thing by finding a counselor. I will just add that this group of folks right here is an amazing support group! Take advantage of all we can give. Will be keeping you in my thoughts!