This message board permanently closed on June 30th, 2020 at 4PM EDT and is no longer accepting new members.
Love BreadIt don't matter to me
If you take up with someone who's better than me
'Cause your happiness is all I want for you to find.
Your peace, your peace of mind.
It don't matter to me
If you take up with someone who's better than me
'Cause your happiness is all I want for you to find.
Your peace, your peace of mind.
[I think David Gates] was right. Selfless love is possible. I can say and mean I value your deepest happiness more than I value realizing my hopes and desires for this relationship. And I am strong enough to fight for the former, even if I am personally devastated by the outcome of the latter.I was digging up some oldies for Grandma 'n' me and ran into Bread's "Getting to Know," which I had fond memories of, so I played it, and oh my goodness was it a bubblegum-ish thing. Destroyed my memories. That's when I went to, "It Don't Matter to Me," which to my mind is about as loving as you can get - wishing the happiness for the other person and devoid of possessiveness.
Oh wow, Grandpa, such memories reading those words evoke.It don't matter to me
If you take up with someone who's better than me
'Cause your happiness is all I want for you to find.
Your peace, your peace of mind.
I've had to rely on selfless love (which is actually a redundancy since love "seeks not its own") a few times in order to save my sanity. And it most definitely is freeing; sometimes it's the only truly freeing thing.[I think David Gates] was right. Selfless love is possible. I can say and mean I value your deepest happiness more than I value realizing my hopes and desires for this relationship. And I am strong enough to fight for the former, even if I am personally devastated by the outcome of the latter.
Selfless love is not only possible, but freeing. Makes you very "small" and very expansive at the same time. At once less important, but more powerful.
~Steven Kalas
"It Don't Matter to Me" will always be one of my favorite tunes. It was popular during a very heavy, difficult time in my history. The sound of it moves me very deeply. I can't listen to it sometimes, in fact.Love Bread
I cry every time I hear it..."It Don't Matter to Me" will always be one of my favorite tunes. It was popular during a very heavy, difficult time in my history. The sound of it moves me very deeply. I can't listen to it sometimes, in fact.
Really? is it just because or is do you have a more personal reason for the tears? And why aren't you at the party?I cry every time I hear it...
"It Don't Matter to Me" will always be one of my favorite tunes. It was popular during a very heavy, difficult time in my history. The sound of it moves me very deeply. I can't listen to it sometimes, in fact.
I think it's a combination of his sweet voice and personal stuff too. Also, when he sings in Lost Without Your Love, "...since you left I hardly make it through the day, my tears get in the way..." I cry. When Jackson Browne sings Here Come Those Tears Again...I cry. I've always been emotional about songs, especially those from my youth.Really? is it just because or is do you have a more personal reason for the tears? And why aren't you at the party?
Oh good! There are only a couple of us.I think it's a combination of his sweet voice and personal stuff too. Also, when he sings in Lost Without Your Love, "...since you left I hardly make it through the day, my tears get in the way..." I cry. When Jackson Browne sings Here Come Those Tears Again...I cry. I've always been emotional about songs, especially those from my youth.
I'm comin to the party!
Great stuff, Grandpa. An Evening with John Denver will always be a favorite album (album?) of mine, and I thought post-amazing-John Denver-heyday I figured his best work was over, but then there was Calypso.Talk of poems and prayers and promises and things that we believe in
How sweet it is to love someone, how right it is to care
How long it's been since yesterday - what about tomorrow?
What about our dreams and all the memories we share
---------
To sail on a dream on a crystal clear ocean,
To ride on the crest of a wild raging storm
To work in the service of life and the living,
In search of the answers of questions unknown
"Calypso," to which he gave his proceeds of the song.
I'm in a (John) Denver mood.