Female Teacher Sexually Abuses Student.

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  1. guido tkp
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    quite, dana jean !!

    bravo for a (brief) dose of reality...

    most of these news stories ??
    they are not boys being raped...they're horny kids gettin' it on !

    if i were a victim of RAPE ?????
    i'd be pissed as all hell...as we treat this type of offender far worse, it seems, than we do the actual rapist...

    maybe it's because it's a woman...as opposed to a man ??

    ask any of the victims of RAPE in our armed forces if their perpetrators were treated with as much ridicule, scorn...or got as much of a sentence, as most of these very misguided teachers who are paraded around with scarlet letters blazing

    certainly there is a wrong here...but our rather puritanical, head-in-the-sand approach to what is actually a very common occurance is demeaning to real victims of actual violent crimes...just my humble o'
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  2. Dana Jean
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    When he talks about this time, he just laughs and tells stories and thinks it was all great fun. And just for an added wrinkle, he is a police officer.

    I used to know a woman from another board who was raped by a commanding officer while she served. She and others took him to trial and I'm not sure what happened to him. I'm not sure I ever heard the outcome. She is a smart, self confident woman and she was abused by this man. As were other women and because he was in a position of extreme authority and heady power, he got away with it for years. The military is a cesspool of sexual and verbal abuse towards women. I'm sorry to say this, but it's true. The best, of the best, of the best -- and this is what many choose to do. NOT ALL. Just a lot and it's been such a good old boy's club for so long, it's tolerated as an inherent part of the program and continues to this day. They were afraid to come forward due to threats to their futures and careers. And, these men in power count on that control and fear to keep these victims quiet. This also happens to men too in hazing situations.

    That is part of the military -- control and power. You have to have control and power to get men and women to walk into the face of fear and possible death because you ordered them to. They cannot question the order. They hear it and respond, "yes sir!" Imagine a group of free thinking military men (and women) questioning their leader's orders and debating if they should do it or not, and then saying, "No. We're not going to do that." They are trained to obey orders.

    Anyway, I sincerely hope this woman and the others nailed his balz sac to the wall for what he did. Nobody deserves this.
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  3. blunthead
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    That's what I said, I think.
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    :cheerful:
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  5. Dana Jean
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    Oh, it sounded like you said she used peer pressure to get them to do her sexual bidding. There was no peer pressure. They loved it. They had a great time.
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  6. blunthead
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    Well, I did say that. So, you're saying that no one of them had any feeling that he should report it? Because if one of them had but didn't report it that would suggest to me a desire on that person's part not to get in trouble with his peers.
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    I wonder, does he have kids, and would he feel the same way if it were to happen to his son? His daughter?

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    When I think back to high school, the three teachers I knew, or now know, had relationships with students were all men. Two liked girls, and one liked boys.

    One got beat up by a dad. One got threatened with a beaver. One got arrested.
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  8. Dana Jean
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    Nope. None of them wanted to report it. Not one of the boys involved wanted to mess up a good thing. Believe me, I asked him all these questions. I was appalled.

    Now, as a police officer, he would take this very seriously. He is a professional man. But, in his situation, this was his feelings about HIS situation. I guess when his friends sit around today and talk about this they laugh and tell remember whens about it, not one of them regrets it.
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    A beaver? Doesn't sound like much of a threat. Lol.
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  10. AnnaMarie
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    He had a wooden leg.
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  11. Dana Jean
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    I'm sure he would be furious if this happened to his kids, or anyone's kids. I'm just telling you how he felt about HIS situation.
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    I just wonder though, how he could know that no one else felt intimidated. It wouldn't matter how they said they felt, you see? My main point is that the type of teacher who gets involved with his/her students is a manipulative type of personality, and in such a person's mind is the idea that they are controlling others, or manipulating their environment to suit their own needs.
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    And for the record, if this would've happened to MY boys and I found out -- Hell hath no fury. I would have gone psycho on anyone who abused my children. Whether my boys thought it was cool and fun or not! It's abuse and it's disgusting.
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  14. AnnaMarie
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    Maybe I should explain. To my knowledge, he never got far.

    Sitting in class, put your hand up to ask a question, he would lean down behind you with his arm over your shoulder...and his had would slowly go down....down...until he had a handful. Right there, in the class. Girls were afraid to ask questions.

    One day this girl asked a question and as his hand started slipping down she yelled out "if you touch me again I'll bring in a beaver and let him chew your leg off".

    Rest of the year he never touched anyone in that class.
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    They are adult men now. They have talked about this. All of them have said if it happened to their kids, they'd be livid, but in their individual cases, it's a fun memory.

    Yes, I asked him all of these questions too! I feel young boys may have the ability to be sexual, physically, but it doesn't mean they mentally have maturity to be sexually active. It totally distressed me. But, he does not feel it hurt him at all, and he says the other guys feel the same way.
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  16. AnnaMarie
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    Often the person being manipulated doesn't believe they are either. They think things are their own idea.
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    Good for her! I think he's a creepy bastid! And I think the women teachers who do this are creepy bastids! When someone is in authority, it takes a lot to tell them no. I'm glad she stood up for herself and maybe it made him think twice before doing it to others. He should've gone to jail.
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    I have no doubt of your integrity, Deej. I imagine if I found myself in a situation as a teen with a willing, older, hot woman, it wouldn't conceptually matter to me much what her profession was or my relationship to it, or even that other people knew what was going on. Hormones speak so loudly during those years. What fascinates me is that the teacher could so confidentially assume she'd never get caught, especially with more than one student.
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  19. blunthead
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    Very true, very good point. In fact, I think that almost no one being manipulated quite knows it. One might suspect it, yet continue to allow it for one reason or another; the reason(s) themselves being subconscious.
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  20. guido tkp
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    oh...that kind of bea...never mind
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