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CriticAndProud

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"IT" really did change my perspective on human relationships. I basically had a mini-existential crisis, and I became convinced that I was an all-around-a-hole, and a rift was forming between me and my friends, that I needed to work to repair. It didn't really work, and now whilst I'm on friendly terms, friends probably isn't the right word.

In hindsight, a-holey-iness wasn't really the cause of it, we just drifted apart over-time, and maybe that's what happens. Hell, if it could happen to the Losers, it could happen to me. Maybe it's happening again, now that I think of it. I hope not.

Wow, that was bleak. Ooops.

In summary, I guess it helped me in the long run by giving me a new perspective on friendship.
 

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"IT" really did change my perspective on human relationships. I basically had a mini-existential crisis, and I became convinced that I was an all-around-a-hole, and a rift was forming between me and my friends, that I needed to work to repair. It didn't really work, and now whilst I'm on friendly terms, friends probably isn't the right word.

In hindsight, a-holey-iness wasn't really the cause of it, we just drifted apart over-time, and maybe that's what happens. Hell, if it could happen to the Losers, it could happen to me. Maybe it's happening again, now that I think of it. I hope not.

Wow, that was bleak. Ooops.

In summary, I guess it helped me in the long run by giving me a new perspective on friendship.
You're not an a-hole... people change, subtlety all the time and friends do drift, and sometimes it hurts like hell.
But, the friends that love you and that you love... they will always reconnect just when that needs to happen.

You are a good (((kiddo,))) and I'm pleased to know you. :love:
 

PatInTheHat

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I wrote on thread not long ago, that no I never really have been helpfully affected by a King novel during any bad patch, at least what I considered a bad time at the time, those have been times with hardly no time for engrossing myself in a book.
Now though, after just pouring through Doctor Sleep on a particularly bad day, in a particularly bad time, when I had nothing but time, I must reconsider and say, yes.
Seemed it was written just for me, connections, ya know how he does that, connects with his readers, and in a not just a base way, but on a more personal level, well this one was special to me.
Of course now it's been so long since I've able to read anything, a 1950's Sear's & Roebuck catalog might have felt kinda special, but I rather doubt I would have felt connected in that special SK way.
('Rosie' The Hat, though not actually my dearly insane long ago ex's name, but the rest, oh spot on:biggrin2:)
 

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I wrote on thread not long ago, that no I never really have been helpfully affected by a King novel during any bad patch, at least what I considered a bad time at the time, those have been times with hardly no time for engrossing myself in a book.
Now though, after just pouring through Doctor Sleep on a particularly bad day, in a particularly bad time, when I had nothing but time, I must reconsider and say, yes.
Seemed it was written just for me, connections, ya know how he does that, connects with his readers, and in a not just a base way, but on a more personal level, well this one was special to me.
Of course now it's been so long since I've able to read anything, a 1950's Sear's & Roebuck catalog might have felt kinda special, but I rather doubt I would have felt connected in that special SK way.
('Rosie' The Hat, though not actually my dearly insane long ago ex's name, but the rest, oh spot on:biggrin2:)
:biglove:
(((Patrick)))
 

Spideyman

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I wrote on thread not long ago, that no I never really have been helpfully affected by a King novel during any bad patch, at least what I considered a bad time at the time, those have been times with hardly no time for engrossing myself in a book.
Now though, after just pouring through Doctor Sleep on a particularly bad day, in a particularly bad time, when I had nothing but time, I must reconsider and say, yes.
Seemed it was written just for me, connections, ya know how he does that, connects with his readers, and in a not just a base way, but on a more personal level, well this one was special to me.
Of course now it's been so long since I've able to read anything, a 1950's Sear's & Roebuck catalog might have felt kinda special, but I rather doubt I would have felt connected in that special SK way.
('Rosie' The Hat, though not actually my dearly insane long ago ex's name, but the rest, oh spot on:biggrin2:)
Just knew that book would be special to you. ;):love_heart:
 

Shoesalesman

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Have to admit, I avoided this thread for a while, but reading these posts got me thinking about the one time an SK book helped me out. My dad succumbed to cancer while I was reading Doctor Sleep of all things. I actually started DS during his final decline and I read some of it in the hospice room while he slept. I think it helped me process some of the things I was feeling about loss of control at the actual time it was shifting away. The book wasn't really a lifeline, just a boost or bridge I needed during a tough time. This book, followed by Chicken Soup For The Country Soul, helped me get through that loss.
 

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Have to admit, I avoided this thread for a while, but reading these posts got me thinking about the one time an SK book helped me out. My dad succumbed to cancer while I was reading Doctor Sleep of all things. I actually started DS during his final decline and I read some of it in the hospice room while he slept. I think it helped me process some of the things I was feeling about loss of control at the actual time it was shifting away. The book wasn't really a lifeline, just a boost or bridge I needed during a tough time. This book, followed by Chicken Soup For The Country Soul, helped me get through that loss.
I'm sorry you lost your dad, ((( Shoesalesman. )))
 

Alexandra M

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Have to admit, I avoided this thread for a while, but reading these posts got me thinking about the one time an SK book helped me out. My dad succumbed to cancer while I was reading Doctor Sleep of all things. I actually started DS during his final decline and I read some of it in the hospice room while he slept. I think it helped me process some of the things I was feeling about loss of control at the actual time it was shifting away. The book wasn't really a lifeline, just a boost or bridge I needed during a tough time. This book, followed by Chicken Soup For The Country Soul, helped me get through that loss.

I'm sorry to hear about your father Shoesalesman. It's a difficult time for you and you are in my thoughts and prayers.
 

Kurben

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For me it must be IT. It has that quality to take me away from everything and enter a brand new world where none of my problems exist. I totally forget about them and sink into Derry and how to defeat Pennywise. With other books i can remember that there exist another world out there somewhere far away but IT just makes it disappear. It doesn't matter how many times i reread it. The magic is always there.