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GNTLGNT

The idiot is IN
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osnafrank

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I love my Single Life, i always did, but sometimes i couldn`t Concede that .
All my Friends had a Partner, got Married, got Children, builded Houses
and i often thought, it would be great, to find a Woman and live with her.

Then i had i Long-Distance-Relationship with a Woman, i really Liked.
Then she had a Break for 3 Weeks and she said "Hey i could Visit you for a Week or Two"
and i said "that sounds great" (i really meant it like that)
So she Arrived and i was happy, she was happy....Happines, Happines,Happines
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I had to Work on Late Shift and i usually came Back Home, turned on the Light
switched on the TV and ate my "Dinner", bought at Burger King or elsewhere.

Usually.

I came back home, opened the Door, there was Light, there was Sound from the TV
there was Live.

I loved it the first Evening, i liked it the second Evening.....i was bugged
after a Week.
That was the Time, i found out, that i am not a Family Guy

My Respect to People who choose, to get and Raise Kids and Manage a Family
 

misery chastain loves co.

MORE Count Chocula please.....
Jul 31, 2011
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Here you go! Sort of a Won't You Come Home Bill Bailey kind of song. Thing with divorce, whichever side you're on, suddenly you're half as strong and you ain't got that second pair of eyes on yer back, which kept you from doing stupid stuff. The shock of it makes you feel like a bee that stung someone, and as they always do, in the process got it's abdomen ripped away. You look around and think, oh crap, I'm just like the rest of these poor b-stards now.
Aha! Yes. THIS hideousness! Thank you. NN thanks you too ;-D
 

danie

I am whatever you say I am.
Feb 26, 2008
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I love my Single Life, i always did, but sometimes i couldn`t Concede that .
All my Friends had a Partner, got Married, got Children, builded Houses
and i often thought, it would be great, to find a Woman and live with her.

Then i had i Long-Distance-Relationship with a Woman, i really Liked.
Then she had a Break for 3 Weeks and she said "Hey i could Visit you for a Week or Two"
and i said "that sounds great" (i really meant it like that)
So she Arrived and i was happy, she was happy....Happines, Happines,Happines
162.gif


I had to Work on Late Shift and i usually came Back Home, turned on the Light
switched on the TV and ate my "Dinner", bought at Burger King or elsewhere.

Usually.

I came back home, opened the Door, there was Light, there was Sound from the TV
there was Live.

I loved it the first Evening, i liked it the second Evening.....i was bugged
after a Week.
That was the Time, i found out, that i am not a Family Guy

My Respect to People who choose, to get and Raise Kids and Manage a Family
Great story!
 

Blake

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Feb 18, 2013
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A friend of mine whom I went to High School, he got married ten years ago, and I caught up with him last year in Sydney and he started crying saying that the woman he married is totally different now than she was at the start. He told me she is domineering as in telling him what to do about everything, and is extremely strict with their two children to the point of being vindictive. He also told me she drinks and his sex life is zero.
 

danie

I am whatever you say I am.
Feb 26, 2008
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A friend of mine whom I went to High School, he got married ten years ago, and I caught up with him last year in Sydney and he started crying saying that the woman he married is totally different now than she was at the start. He told me she is domineering as in telling him what to do about everything, and is extremely strict with their two children to the point of being vindictive. He also told me she drinks and his sex life is zero.
Marriage can ruin even the best relationship. "Familiarity breeds contempt," as someone said. What's funny is that we (myself included) ever thought that someone would stay exactly the same over years and years. Of course, they're going to change, as do we all. I'm not a proponent of marriage, as you can tell. It works for some, but not for most. Your friend needs to decide if he wants to live the rest of his life in a loveless, domineering marriage. If so, then go for it. If not, leave now, while you can. It will be hard at first, but to me, it's harder to live with a person who gives you nothing. I stayed way too long.
 

Blake

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Feb 18, 2013
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Marriage can ruin even the best relationship. "Familiarity breeds contempt," as someone said. What's funny is that we (myself included) ever thought that someone would stay exactly the same over years and years. Of course, they're going to change, as do we all. I'm not a proponent of marriage, as you can tell. It works for some, but not for most. Your friend needs to decide if he wants to live the rest of his life in a loveless, domineering marriage. If so, then go for it. If not, leave now, while you can. It will be hard at first, but to me, it's harder to live with a person who gives you nothing. I stayed way too long.
I felt sorry for the guy because he wants to stay for the kids.
 

danie

I am whatever you say I am.
Feb 26, 2008
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I felt sorry for the guy because he wants to stay for the kids.
I totally understand that; I did the same thing. Now I'm kicking myself for staying so long and exposing my son to the fighting, seething anger under the surface, hateful words, and the depression I was in. Divorced for two years--my son has never been happier. My ex and I get along now that we're not in the same house. Every decision we make is for that boy, and everyone is SO much happier now. Kids pick up on the anger, the unhappiness. They may want "mom and dad to stay together," but will probably eventually be healthier, happier children if they don't have to see their parents in such a sad state.
 

Blake

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Feb 18, 2013
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I totally understand that; I did the same thing. Now I'm kicking myself for staying so long and exposing my son to the fighting, seething anger under the surface, hateful words, and the depression I was in. Divorced for two years--my son has never been happier. My ex and I get along now that we're not in the same house. Every decision we make is for that boy, and everyone is SO much happier now. Kids pick up on the anger, the unhappiness. They may want "mom and dad to stay together," but will probably eventually be healthier, happier children if they don't have to see their parents in such a sad state.
I know a guy( who is 15 years older than me) and his father was the second-in-charge of the Motor Transport Department's section so he made fairly good money. After drinking at lunch and then after work, the father used to go home and slap his wife around and throw the meal she had made for him at her, and take a strap to the kids. Domestic abuse occurs in all levels of society.
 

Sigmund

Waiting in Uber.
Jan 3, 2010
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In your mirror.
Good late night posting.

I'm posting before I think too much. Ha!

What if you were told, basically

And all I can do is keep on telling you
I want you
I need you
But there ain't no way
I'm ever gonna love you

Now don't be sad
'Cause two out of three ain't bad
Now don't be sad
'Cause two out of three ain't bad

Thoughts?
 
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