Public Speaking

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skimom2

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Oct 9, 2013
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I was a really shy kid, but learned to speak in public when I moved to a new school in 11th grade and the debate coach plucked me out of the registration crowd and said, "You're going to take my debate class." I learned to create a public persona--It's not me, it's the Speaking Lady :) Did Toastmasters with work, had positions in a few service clubs/groups... Speaking Lady still works for me. No fear, really.

not_nadine YOU had a thing with Ted Nugent, or GNTLGNT had a thing with Ted Nugent? The answer determines whether I'm admiring or appalled ;)
 

swiftdog2.0

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Mar 16, 2010
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I have to do it fairly regularly as part of my job. I don't enjoy it but you do get used to it.

Done many a presentation at work and for school where I did my research and just worked off an outline of my notes. The ability to improvise helps.

Best practice I got for this was playing in a band. Once I got over the initial stage-fright and wanting to hurl it was all good.....
 

baggy

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Jan 10, 2012
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I've managed to avoid public speaking most of my life, except for in the last couple of years when I spoke at both my parents funerals, my two older sisters and I went up together and I never looked up from what I had written down. In March I will probably have to speak to a small crowd, but on my own & I have no idea what I'm going to say. I'm such a klutz too, I'm hoping I don't fall flat on my face.
 

GNTLGNT

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Jun 15, 2007
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I was a really shy kid, but learned to speak in public when I moved to a new school in 11th grade and the debate coach plucked me out of the registration crowd and said, "You're going to take my debate class." I learned to create a public persona--It's not me, it's the Speaking Lady :) Did Toastmasters with work, had positions in a few service clubs/groups... Speaking Lady still works for me. No fear, really.

not_nadine YOU had a thing with Ted Nugent, or GNTLGNT had a thing with Ted Nugent? The answer determines whether I'm admiring or appalled ;)
...a couple of years ago, I had the chance to do a "phoner" prior to his appearance in Columbus...he is quite intelligent, though obviously polarizing with his outspoken stands on issues...
 

GNTLGNT

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I've managed to avoid public speaking most of my life, except for in the last couple of years when I spoke at both my parents funerals, my two older sisters and I went up together and I never looked up from what I had written down. In March I will probably have to speak to a small crowd, but on my own & I have no idea what I'm going to say. I'm such a klutz too, I'm hoping I don't fall flat on my face.
...maybe I could help, if you give me an idea of what the speaking engagement would be for....
 

GNTLGNT

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and you were great, in the Nugent interview.
...thanks!...I ad-libbed the whole thing...don't like "stock" questions, and I think he appreciated the stream of consciousness style...it made for a very laid back and fun half-hour...I try to do that with all of my interviews, even though I still do my homework...there's a fine line between being prepared, and being overdone...
 

swiftdog2.0

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Mar 16, 2010
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I'm quite shy and find public speaking quite daunting. I've been a best man twice, and both times was dreading it. The beauty of best man speeches is you can have a drink beforehand, also I do like telling jokes. Once I got going I was fine, and actually started ad- libbing in the end.

I totally ad-libbed my best man speech for my buddy's wedding. Got a lot of "that was a great speech, you must have worked hard on it" comments. I smiled and said "Thanks!"
 

Sigmund

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Jan 3, 2010
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No. I've have talked at a number of conventions and symposiums so, I'm comfortable.

I think if you know your material, well prepared and practice (in front of a mirror, friend, family, etc.) you will feel much more comfortable. And fake it 'til you make it. ;)

(I won't mention the first time I had to talk in front of my class and passed out. :dizzy:)

Peace.
 

asoul

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Jul 13, 2006
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Then i got a job in a museum that involved talking to groups of tourists, schoolclasses of all ages and other visitors to the museum. Part of my job was to guide them through the exhibition. A guidetour took about two hours. The first time i was shaking. They will laugh at me i thought to myself. But they didn't and then i found out that i was actually good at making history come alive for them.

If to take into account your posts in different threads here probably you are a good guide.