Right now I'm SO jealous of....

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aneaglesangel

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May 3, 2009
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Stephen King!

Yup, I am! He can have a rough draft ready in three months! Here I am stuttering away and it's been almost a year and still I don't have my rough draft done!

Even when he worked full-time and had kids, he had a wife to help take care of things. I bet he could go lock himself in a room and no one disturbed him. Now he has tons of people to take care of things to leave him free to write.

I guess I'm just frustrated. I've got custody of my 3 year old grandson and right there we have a big part of my problem. All the cooking, all the cleaning, all the wiping snotty noses is done by your truly here. Whenever he gets sick, oh, it's another break from writing. ARGH!

I feel so strongly that the book I'm writing is going to be really good when it's finished. At the same time I feel like Jean Auel, where it takes 5 years to write a book, LOL!

Things really took a turn after my first book came out, then I was in a movie. (Not sure I can say the name, but it's a haunted documentary about an area near my home.) Then come to find out, non-fictions don't really make much, but really, are for all intents and purposes, money pits! I jet around all over, spending my money and time being at events to promote my stuff. Yahoo! (I'd much rather stay home and talk to ghosts, myself, or write a story!)

But I think I'm here to commiserate, to not feel alone!

I guess I'm just a little disappointed that things have been a bit tough this year. I said last winter I'd have this done by the end of the summer. Unless things give, it's not going to happen.

Does anyone else have the obstacles I have? Did you figure out a way to work around them? If you did, I sure am all ears!

For those who remember me, yeah, I know, been a LONG time! Hugs! :D

(But a good bit of information is, I've finally gotten to a part I've been dying to write, this should be good! Muwahahahaha! Let's just say there's going to be a body count in this one!) ;)
 

skimom2

Just moseyin' through...
Oct 9, 2013
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Stephen King!

Yup, I am! He can have a rough draft ready in three months! Here I am stuttering away and it's been almost a year and still I don't have my rough draft done!

Even when he worked full-time and had kids, he had a wife to help take care of things. I bet he could go lock himself in a room and no one disturbed him. Now he has tons of people to take care of things to leave him free to write.

I guess I'm just frustrated. I've got custody of my 3 year old grandson and right there we have a big part of my problem. All the cooking, all the cleaning, all the wiping snotty noses is done by your truly here. Whenever he gets sick, oh, it's another break from writing. ARGH!

I feel so strongly that the book I'm writing is going to be really good when it's finished. At the same time I feel like Jean Auel, where it takes 5 years to write a book, LOL!

Things really took a turn after my first book came out, then I was in a movie. (Not sure I can say the name, but it's a haunted documentary about an area near my home.) Then come to find out, non-fictions don't really make much, but really, are for all intents and purposes, money pits! I jet around all over, spending my money and time being at events to promote my stuff. Yahoo! (I'd much rather stay home and talk to ghosts, myself, or write a story!)

But I think I'm here to commiserate, to not feel alone!

I guess I'm just a little disappointed that things have been a bit tough this year. I said last winter I'd have this done by the end of the summer. Unless things give, it's not going to happen.

Does anyone else have the obstacles I have? Did you figure out a way to work around them? If you did, I sure am all ears!

For those who remember me, yeah, I know, been a LONG time! Hugs! :D

(But a good bit of information is, I've finally gotten to a part I've been dying to write, this should be good! Muwahahahaha! Let's just say there's going to be a body count in this one!) ;)

People write at different rates, and have different challenges. For example, it takes me between 6 and 9 mos to finish a manuscript, then I set it aside for a while before hitting another draft (I usually have more than one project going, so it's not wasted time). I found out with my first book that I need a little distance from the first draft before I get anything useful done in edits. By contrast, I have a friend who pumps out at least three books a year, and they're not crap. I'm a full time mom, 4 kids and a husband who needs tending (lol), so I accept that writing any faster means no more than 4 hours sleep a night--I can't get anything done with family around. Since living on that little sleep for long starts to make me crazy after a while, I take breaks, and that has to be okay. It's all in what you're willing to do to get the job done :)
 

Lepplady

Chillin' since 2006
Nov 30, 2006
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Stephen King!

Yup, I am! He can have a rough draft ready in three months! Here I am stuttering away and it's been almost a year and still I don't have my rough draft done!

Even when he worked full-time and had kids, he had a wife to help take care of things. I bet he could go lock himself in a room and no one disturbed him. Now he has tons of people to take care of things to leave him free to write.

I guess I'm just frustrated. I've got custody of my 3 year old grandson and right there we have a big part of my problem. All the cooking, all the cleaning, all the wiping snotty noses is done by your truly here. Whenever he gets sick, oh, it's another break from writing. ARGH!

I feel so strongly that the book I'm writing is going to be really good when it's finished. At the same time I feel like Jean Auel, where it takes 5 years to write a book, LOL!

Things really took a turn after my first book came out, then I was in a movie. (Not sure I can say the name, but it's a haunted documentary about an area near my home.) Then come to find out, non-fictions don't really make much, but really, are for all intents and purposes, money pits! I jet around all over, spending my money and time being at events to promote my stuff. Yahoo! (I'd much rather stay home and talk to ghosts, myself, or write a story!)

But I think I'm here to commiserate, to not feel alone!

I guess I'm just a little disappointed that things have been a bit tough this year. I said last winter I'd have this done by the end of the summer. Unless things give, it's not going to happen.

Does anyone else have the obstacles I have? Did you figure out a way to work around them? If you did, I sure am all ears!

For those who remember me, yeah, I know, been a LONG time! Hugs! :D

(But a good bit of information is, I've finally gotten to a part I've been dying to write, this should be good! Muwahahahaha! Let's just say there's going to be a body count in this one!) ;)
I feel ya. It's been 6 years since my book came out, and I'm not even close to a second release. I have to say, though, that it's my own fault. I don't set up a specific time to sit down and do nothing but write every day. And if I don't do that, how can I expect for a new book to come out? These things don't write themselves.
One bit of advice I can offer (for what it's worth) is that you don't have to wait for a specific scene to roll around in real time to write it. If you feel strongly about a particular scene, go ahead and jump forward to give it some attention. Get it out of the way so you can get back to the business of writing up to that point. It's not written in blood or stone, so if that scene needs to be changed because of something new you've written that leads up to it, you can change it accordingly. People live in linear time, but writing books doesn't have to.
Best of luck! ...to all of us.
:smile:
 

aneaglesangel

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May 3, 2009
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Whaling City, Mass
Oh hugs! I was feeling all alone in my lost little world of homicide and changing diapers! Maybe you can put in here something you've written so I can grab a copy? (I noticed there's a self-promotion thread down there, maybe you've listed?) I think I'd love to read something another struggling writer wrote. At times I wonder if I bit off more than I can chew so I think seeing something you've completed would make me feel like I've got a super cape on! (Super Nunna! Da na na na na na!)

I'm gonna work on my piece a little bit and then I think I'll go off down there and self promote. I've done a couple wicked cool things over the last couple years having to do with ghosts. I'm pretty sure a reader or two here might enjoy hearing!

More hugs! Good luck with your projects! :D
 

aneaglesangel

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May 3, 2009
701
69
Whaling City, Mass
Thanks Lepp! Hugs to you, too! The reason I had to get to that point is this is a historical fiction that I have written the chapters all out of order as I got the research done. Now I'm putting it together in order as it happens. I sort of had to write what came before so this part would work right. I have a very strange way of working this particular book. There's been a lot of research, I wanted the REAL history to match what I'm going to play God with.

I think you guys will love this one, when I finally get it finished. I'm going to call it, "No Mercy," and I sure ain't gonna show any to my hapless victims, LOL!

More hugs to all! I'm gonna go rip this part a new one! WOOT! (I'm not the only stressed out writer out there, LMAO!) WOOOOT! :D
 

Lepplady

Chillin' since 2006
Nov 30, 2006
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Oh hugs! I was feeling all alone in my lost little world of homicide and changing diapers! Maybe you can put in here something you've written so I can grab a copy? (I noticed there's a self-promotion thread down there, maybe you've listed?) I think I'd love to read something another struggling writer wrote. At times I wonder if I bit off more than I can chew so I think seeing something you've completed would make me feel like I've got a super cape on! (Super Nunna! Da na na na na na!)

I'm gonna work on my piece a little bit and then I think I'll go off down there and self promote. I've done a couple wicked cool things over the last couple years having to do with ghosts. I'm pretty sure a reader or two here might enjoy hearing!

More hugs! Good luck with your projects! :D
There's a self-promotion thread? I thought self-promotion was verbotten. Shows how much I pay attention.
I'll go post my book :)