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EMARX

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During the long cold months some of us will find ourselves mired in what is widely called SAD or seasonally adjusted disorder. But I have found on a personal basis that this year there seems to be an extra weight. Thankfully I have no major issues to deal with at the moment that would account for this malaise, but it just feels like there has been an excess of bad news and tragedy in the last several months, or then maybe it's just me. Any one else experiencing this?

And on the other side of the question, what do some of you do to get out of the funk?
 

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Keep on the sunny side. =D Cue the song. Big bottle of Vitamin D. Thanks for the reminder. Look for stories I know will have a comedic tone...Elmore Leonard is good for this...but I've read most of what he has to offer. If I can't read....I try to stay busy...carpenter, me...and we get dumped on winter and work can be nonexistent and though I've done all manner of things to fill that time void--buy old beater houses, work on winter, sell...tell summer customers I work for less winter...save up my scrap wood and make heart cupboards in my shop...shovel snow, try to keep the roof shoveled off, a path open to the backyard and the shop door...the clock is set to chime Christmas songs...Let heaven and nature sing! playing now...save when the cable guy comes over and you're trying to be serious? and the clock starts striking Rudolph the Red-nosed Reindeer! Trouble...cue the next song.
 

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Sorry if you're feeling bad Emarx. The weather does tend to do that to people. You could throw a celebrate snow party! Have some friends over, decorate with snow themed stuff, make iced drinks, silly games, movies with snow themes playing in the background(the Shining, Storm of the Century). There's nothing to be done about the weather(unless you move)so make the best of it. Build a snowman!
Read, watch movies, dinner with friends. There are all kinds of things to make you feel better. And I hope you do :down:
 

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I hate the cold so getting out even on sunny days isn't something I'm keen to do and on days like today where even though it's sunny it's only 2F (-16C) it's not safe to be outside for long. My doctor suggested I take Vitamin D supplements as it showed up as being deficient in my blood work and is supposed to help with SAD which I discovered I had when I lived in Seattle. It's much sunnier here in Maine in the winter but as I said, colder so I'm getting most of the benefit of that looking from the inside out. :smile2: There are also special lights that have a different spectrum which is supposed to be helpful for SAD. This may not work for you but what has helped me the past couple of years is to become involved with hobbies that keep me stimulated and creative. For me that's a variety of craft hobbies so not a problem with being inside. Of course, reading is another option for taking you away from where you are. I personally feel that having some sort of hobby is a huge help in the aging process, too, because it gives one something to focus on and stimulate your brain. I honestly can't relate to the people who don't know what to do with themselves when they retire because their entire life up to that was work, work, work and after they retire they just sit around watching TV which is not good for either the mind or the body. If you don't already have a hobby maybe this would be a good time to take one up. Good luck!
 

Becks19

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During the long cold months some of us will find ourselves mired in what is widely called SAD or seasonally adjusted disorder. But I have found on a personal basis that this year there seems to be an extra weight. Thankfully I have no major issues to deal with at the moment that would account for this malaise, but it just feels like there has been an excess of bad news and tragedy in the last several months, or then maybe it's just me. Any one else experiencing this?

And on the other side of the question, what do some of you do to get out of the funk?
EMARX, I know what you mean. I read too much darn news. ( I have vowed to stop) This morning I was reading an article about a pregnant dog someone had set on fire. I don't know how someone could do that? It seems so rare that you read something good. ( I also need to find a good positive book) Hugs to all of you feeling the Winter Blues.
 

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EMARX, I know what you mean. I read too much darn news. ( I have vowed to stop) This morning I was reading an article about a pregnant dog someone had set on fire. I don't know how someone could do that? It seems so rare that you read something good. ( I also need to find a good positive book) Hugs to all of you feeling the Winter Blues.
Oh my god that makes me sick. Physically ill. This is why I try and avoid the news as much as possible. I posted a bad news thread. I don't want to contribute to the winter blues!
 

EMARX

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A plethora of helpful suggestions, thanks.

Reading and films and music are my mainstays. I do know that if I find myself unable to read, then it's serious. But that rarely ever happens. I do think that this 24 news cycle we live in is a major contributor to how we cope. Curling up in a ball and hiding is not the answer, but ignoring the sensationalism would be wise. And I do have plenty if that famous Finnish stoicism, so that adds to my curmudgenliness.
 

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the news of late has been so depressing- agree on that. I'm lucky to be in a state that has reasonable warmth and sun most of the year. No snow ( well there was that 1977 experience ). I'm also retired . There is a marked difference between days that have sun and those that do not. Crafting and reading have been my escape. Busy hands, busy mind, changing the way I look at things-- stay in positives only. Vitamin D is a must for me. Also taking a small part of each day just for you- reconnect with spirit.
Have you thought about volunteering someplace ?
 

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A plethora of helpful suggestions, thanks.

Reading and films and music are my mainstays. I do know that if I find myself unable to read, then it's serious. But that rarely ever happens. I do think that this 24 news cycle we live in is a major contributor to how we cope. Curling up in a ball and hiding is not the answer, but ignoring the sensationalism would be wise. And I do have plenty if that famous Finnish stoicism, so that adds to my curmudgenliness.
Here's a joke for you told to me by a friend who was of Finnish descent.

How do you know if you've met a Finnish extrovert?

S/he looks at your knees.

;-D

I gave up regularly watching/reading the news a few years ago as I found it was affecting my outlook and mood. I check out news stories when I need to and we do watch the evening news, just not every day. I avoid to the extent possible--even on here--the stories that I know will be too negative such as the animal and human abuse ones. I don't watch the politically slanted networks although I am a regular viewer of The Daily Show and had watched The Colbert Report but they at least use comedy mixed in with the stories. It might be a good idea for you to at least take a break from the news especially until you're out of the current doldrums.
 

EMARX

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the news of late has been so depressing- agree on that. I'm lucky to be in a state that has reasonable warmth and sun most of the year. No snow ( well there was that 1977 experience ). I'm also retired . There is a marked difference between days that have sun and those that do not. Crafting and reading have been my escape. Busy hands, busy mind, changing the way I look at things-- stay in positives only. Vitamin D is a must for me. Also taking a small part of each day just for you- reconnect with spirit.
Have you thought about volunteering someplace ?
I have four hours of commuting every day so my weekends are spent selfishly after errands and other obligations are looked after.
 

EMARX

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Here's a joke for you told to me by a friend who was of Finnish descent.

How do you know if you've met a Finnish extrovert?

S/he looks at your knees.

;-D

I gave up regularly watching/reading the news a few years ago as I found it was affecting my outlook and mood. I check out news stories when I need to and we do watch the evening news, just not every day. I avoid to the extent possible--even on here--the stories that I know will be too negative such as the animal and human abuse ones. I don't watch the politically slanted networks although I am a regular viewer of The Daily Show and had watched The Colbert Report but they at least used comedy mixed in with the stories. It might be a good idea for you to at least take a break from the news especially until you're out of the current doldrums.
Wow!! I am an extrovert.
 

Becks19

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Oh my god that makes me sick. Physically ill. This is why I try and avoid the news as much as possible. I posted a bad news thread. I don't want to contribute to the winter blues!
I know, it makes me cry. My husband always tells me " You don't need to read that" because of the the way it affects me. I am working on it.