In relationship matters it's always best for me to keep silent, after all who am I to judge, my relationships haven't always turned out for the best either. Example "L" and I have been friends for 25 years, she married her college sweetheart, up until 3 years ago they had been married for almost 30 years. I married my high school sweetheart and our marriage fell to pieces four years later. I called "L" a few years back to arrange a girls day with her at the time she lived about 2 hours from me, we were only able to see one another when our schedules would allow. Over the phone she says she's filed for a divorce and that she'd found someone new, I said "you have to do what you have to do, I mean only you know the inside of your marriage, I support your decision no matter what." So I head down to "L" house a week later, at this point she's in the middle of her divorce and living with her mom, a real sweet pea of a lady, I was pretty excited to see "L" as we never have alot of time to spend together. "L" and I have some small talk, her mother was in another part of the house painting, then "L" tells me she has met someone new and goes on to tell me they worked/work together and that's how they met, and she loves him, there is an age difference he is younger than she, they are planning on getting married after her divorce is final....and oh by the way he's a registered sex offender. "L" goes on to say that he had taken a 13 year old girl he'd met on the internet across state lines and they baked cookies together, the cops showed up and arrested him...he didn't know she was only 13. "L" has only told me the story and her mom doesn't know. Oh, and one other thing is he is on the way over to have drinks and supper and wants to meet me. I said "NOTHING", I was shocked by the news...thinking who falls for a story like that? That he was only making her cookies....sure he was. That he didn't know she was 13....sure he didn't. But she was in love which translates into I have forgotten the face of my father and nothing anyone says to me will wake me up from this wonderful dream I'm having...yada yada you might as well be speaking to a wall when someone's in love. Well I darn sure didn't want to waste my time meeting this character, so I told "L" I needed to run I had my kids to get back to etc. That was the last time I saw "L", because I called her a month later and her, her man and her mother had been down to Florida to look at a house and they were all moving....from Kansas to Florida, just like that, when I asked her what made them decide on Florida "L" tells me her man has family down that way. She text me a month after that with a picture of their home, and their new address...and that's it...I didn't want my friendship with "L" to be on bad terms, so I said nothing, we now never talk anymore...what do you say now when you couldn't speak up before. What I think in my mind is their situation is bound to implode, and her mother is bound to find out eventually that she is living with a registered sex offender, "L" is bound to wake up some day and find that she fell for a lie. I'm glad I said nothing though, and I'll still be here in good old Kansas if **** hits the fan down in Florida and we can pick up our old friendship and carry on as before, and I'll say nothing then too.