Hey everyone, sorry I went AWOL for a while.... Stupidly thought, only a week in, I was coping magnificently with the passing of my mum, and then Steve's dad, but hey, all of a sudden it appeared not, and everything hit me pretty hard for a while. Reduced life down to the basics, did alot of reading, and an AWFUL lot of cooking (Mum was a trained chef, and I think i was trying to get closer and connected). Anyway, back now. When I get in tonight I look forward to reading on the threads I've missed. ((((All in need or not)))))