This is so hard........

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staropeace

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I have a stray cat in my garage. He is youngish and very thin. Becky and I have plugged in a space heater to keep him from freezing to death. God knows how much this power bill is gonna cost. He is comfortable but I am enraged that people are so heartless about their pets. They should be taken to the stocks. This casual sort of neglect should be punishable by law. Damn you all who take on pets and then turn your backs on them. Becky took a pic to put in Kijiji. I am hoping someone will claim him or want him. He is sleeping 24/7 because he did not get the chance to when he was cold and hungry, I suppose. When he did awaken, he ate and played with a toy mouse.
 

staropeace

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OOOPS. I meant to say...I cannot take anymore cats into my home because I have five cats which were stray in here now. Two are not well...and they would be distressed to have another strange cat inside...plus this house is rented...and my landlord is very understanding about the cats...but I really do not wish to push it. Even so....I was thinking of closing off the kitty litter room which is the tool room connecting to the cold storage room...and thinking about removing the litter from that area to........cripes ...whereever...and then....oh gawd ...here I go again.
 

staropeace

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I just had it out with my next door neighbours too! Holy Moly ....the troubles. They are letting their cats out all night. This is Alberta. The temps can go down to -30C. We are talking big time freeze. You will die outside. Little cats and dogs will freeze...and if you do not believe that, my landlord, who is Firechief of all the firehalls in this area can tell you stories about this...not bedtime stories you would tell your children, btw. Anyway, if they insist on having their cats out...I will call the SPCA. I would rather have them there than see them freeze to death. ....even if they put them to eternal sleep with a needle....better than suffering.
 
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Sigmund

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staropeace

May I ask what you would think about the following scenario (Not me):

I saw a cat. I just fell in love with it at first sight and had to have it. I found out the cat belonged to a neighbor. The neighbor is an alcoholic, does not work and has no family. He is feeding the cat with his food stamps allotment. He loves the cat and the cat is his only friend. The cat is fed and well taken care of but...I want that cat. I went over and talked to the neighbor telling him I want his cat. He replied the cat is his only friend. However, knowing he is strapped for cash and is an alcoholic, I offered him fifty dollars. He... thought about it a minute or two... and agreed. I got the cat!

Thoughts, please.

Peace.
 

staropeace

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I would think that he really did not love that cat as much as he said he did. Is this a true story? See, if I thought the person who asked for the cat would give it a better home, then I would understand this...but selling it for fifty bucks..nope. Let this person have the cat.
 

Sigmund

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I was just thinking...if the alcoholic was spending his food stamps to feed the cat and taking care of it, getting some joy, happiness and companionship ... and the cat was his only friend ...it would be sorta cruddy for someone else to take advantage of his destitute and addiction to drink and offer him money that the alcoholic could use to buy drink.

We, you and I, have worked with addicts. They will sell their souls to get money to feed their addiction(s). But, to take advantage of an alcoholic who needs cold hard cash to buy drink simply to get a cat they *fell in love with*...

Peace.
 

AnnaMarie

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I'm with you Sig. My first thought was, that cat might be the only reason the guy ever sobered up.

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Staropeace, abandoned animals is why I HATE seeing adoption drives. When people adopt a pet without really thinking about it, often it turns out not to be what they expected, and they want a cheap "out".
 

staropeace

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I was just thinking...if the alcoholic was spending his food stamps to feed the cat and taking care of it, getting some joy, happiness and companionship ... and the cat was his only friend ...it would be sorta cruddy for someone else to take advantage of his destitute and addiction to drink and offer him money that the alcoholic could use to buy drink.

We, you and I, have worked with addicts. They will sell their souls to get money to feed their addiction(s). But, to take advantage of an alcoholic who needs cold hard cash to buy drink simply to get a cat they *fell in love with*...
Yeah, it would be mean spirited but if the man sells the cat to get another bottle well I do not think the love with there. I know a street person who has a dog that it with him all the time. The dog is happy.....the man is happy and loves the animal. I do not think he has a problem getting food for the dog because people know about his situation.

Peace.
 

staropeace

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Nov 28, 2006
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I'm with you Sig. My first thought was, that cat might be the only reason the guy ever sobered up.

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Staropeace, abandoned animals is why I HATE seeing adoption drives. When people adopt a pet without really thinking about it, often it turns out not to be what they expected, and they want a cheap "out".
I do not agree with adoption drives either.
 

redman

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staropeace

May I ask what you would think about the following scenario (Not me):

I saw a cat. I just fell in love with it at first sight and had to have it. I found out the cat belonged to a neighbor. The neighbor is an alcoholic, does not work and has no family. He is feeding the cat with his food stamps allotment. He loves the cat and the cat is his only friend. The cat is fed and well taken care of but...I want that cat. I went over and talked to the neighbor telling him I want his cat. He replied the cat is his only friend. However, knowing he is strapped for cash and is an alcoholic, I offered him fifty dollars. He... thought about it a minute or two... and agreed. I got the cat!

Thoughts, please.

Peace.
There is a similar situation in my complex but its a dog not a cat. The guy who owns the dog takes good care of the dog but doesn't have money to feed himself but he loves his dog so I don't mind helping him out if he needs dog food once in a while
 

staropeace

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Nov 28, 2006
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There is a similar situation in my complex but its a dog not a cat. The guy who owns the dog takes good care of the dog but doesn't have money to feed himself but he loves his dog so I don't mind helping him out if he needs dog food once in a while
That is very good of you. I am glad you can be there for him and his dog.
 

ghost19

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I feel bad for animals that are abused. I wish i could save them all

My capone was an abused dog (his previous owner didnt treat him well)

Luckily i was able to have him and now he is safe with us.
Our dog was abused also. Cool story though, I'm long winded as pretty much anyone on the board can attest to, so I apologize in advance. About five years ago my wife and our son, he was about 5 years old at the time, wore me down till I agreed to get a dog. I'm the stoic one in the family. Anyway, we pick a Saturday and head to the local animal shelter. We walked out into the dog shelter area, the first thing that hits you is the noise. There are lots of dogs barking and I'm sure they are all riled up being around so many other dogs. We're proceeding from one holding area to another looking at all the dogs. I'm starting to feel like a jerk because I want to take them ALL home at this point, picking one seems to be impossible. In one particular holding area, there were three or four medium sized dogs all jumping around and barking, but over to the side, not making any noise at all was this thin, scared looking dog who looked, and I'm not kidding here, her eyes looked older than she appeared. She looked scared but at the same time, resigned. My son walked right up to the cage, and put his hand up to her, she licked his hand then just sat down and looked at all three of us. My son made the decision right then and there. He turned around and told us he wanted this dog. We asked him if he wanted to keep looking around, he was resolute, this was going to be his dog. We asked the shelter attendant to bring the dog into the side room to see what her temperament was. The shelter has an area where you can play with the animal and just how what its temperament is like. They took us into the room then the shelter attendant brought her in. She walked over to Daniel, laid down on her side and started licking his face like she'd just been waiting on him to get there. That was that. They told us she was about a year old and had been found wandering in one of the neighborhoods in the middle of the city. We got the paperwork all done, $35.00 for shots and neutering, can't beat that. We went and picked her up about three days later once they were done with her. We asked my son what he wanted to name her when we picked her up. "Bailey" he said without any hesitation. He told us he'd been thinking about that name ever since he played with her at the shelter. I asked him why "Bailey", he said he didn't know, he just liked that name...weird....anyway, five years later and I'll be completely honest, Bailey is the fourth member of our family, make no mistake about it. She follows Daniel to and from his room, the kitchen, outside, inside, wherever. She's never acted up, or tore up anything in our house. My wife taught her how to ring the string of small bells we have tied to the back door when she wants to go out. She's a very smart dog and her temperament is like nothing I've ever seen. She's calm and having a home seems to have been all she ever wanted. She's gained some weight, we could see all of her ribs when we brought her home...not so much now:) One day a few years back I was getting one of my belts out of the closet while cleaning it out. Bailey was on the bed behind me watching, I turned around and tossed the belt onto the bed. I heard her yelp like she'd fell or been hit. By the time I turned around, she had crawled under the bed and was shivering. At first I thought she had fallen or had been injured. Turned out....it was the belt. At some point she must have been hit by some a$$hat with a belt. She's terrified of them. I felt terrible about it but since then I've gone out of my way to make sure she doesn't see any belts. I just wish I could pay a visit to the person who hit her with one. Some people are just terrible.
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Our dog was abused also. Cool story though, I'm long winded as pretty much anyone on the board can attest to, so I apologize in advance. About five years ago my wife and our son, he was about 5 years old at the time, wore me down till I agreed to get a dog. I'm the stoic one in the family. Anyway, we pick a Saturday and head to the local animal shelter. We walked out into the dog shelter area, the first thing that hits you is the noise. There are lots of dogs barking and I'm sure they are all riled up being around so many other dogs. We're proceeding from one holding area to another looking at all the dogs. I'm starting to feel like a jerk because I want to take them ALL home at this point, picking one seems to be impossible. In one particular holding area, there were three or four medium sized dogs all jumping around and barking, but over to the side, not making any noise at all was this thin, scared looking dog who looked, and I'm not kidding here, her eyes looked older than she appeared. She looked scared but at the same time, resigned. My son walked right up to the cage, and put his hand up to her, she licked his hand then just sat down and looked at all three of us. My son made the decision right then and there. He turned around and told us he wanted this dog. We asked him if he wanted to keep looking around, he was resolute, this was going to be his dog. We asked the shelter attendant to bring the dog into the side room to see what her temperament was. The shelter has an area where you can play with the animal and just how what its temperament is like. They took us into the room then the shelter attendant brought her in. She walked over to Daniel, laid down on her side and started licking his face like she'd just been waiting on him to get there. That was that. They told us she was about a year old and had been found wandering in one of the neighborhoods in the middle of the city. We got the paperwork all done, $35.00 for shots and neutering, can't beat that. We went and picked her up about three days later once they were done with her. We asked my son what he wanted to name her when we picked her up. "Bailey" he said without any hesitation. He told us he'd been thinking about that name ever since he played with her at the shelter. I asked him why "Bailey", he said he didn't know, he just liked that name...weird....anyway, five years later and I'll be completely honest, Bailey is the fourth member of our family, make no mistake about it. She follows Daniel to and from his room, the kitchen, outside, inside, wherever. She's never acted up, or tore up anything in our house. My wife taught her how to ring the string of small bells we have tied to the back door when she wants to go out. She's a very smart dog and her temperament is like nothing I've ever seen. She's calm and having a home seems to have been all she ever wanted. She's gained some weight, we could see all of her ribs when we brought her home...not so much now:) One day a few years back I was getting one of my belts out of the closet while cleaning it out. Bailey was on the bed behind me watching, I turned around and tossed the belt onto the bed. I heard her yelp like she'd fell or been hit. By the time I turned around, she had crawled under the bed and was shivering. At first I thought she had fallen or had been injured. Turned out....it was the belt. At some point she must have been hit by some a$$hat with a belt. She's terrified of them. I felt terrible about it but since then I've gone out of my way to make sure she doesn't see any belts. I just wish I could pay a visit to the person who hit her with one. Some people are just terrible.
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You're both lucky to have found each other. I believe love at first sight isn't just about people. :love:
 

staropeace

Richard Bachman's love child
Nov 28, 2006
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Alberta,Canada
Our dog was abused also. Cool story though, I'm long winded as pretty much anyone on the board can attest to, so I apologize in advance. About five years ago my wife and our son, he was about 5 years old at the time, wore me down till I agreed to get a dog. I'm the stoic one in the family. Anyway, we pick a Saturday and head to the local animal shelter. We walked out into the dog shelter area, the first thing that hits you is the noise. There are lots of dogs barking and I'm sure they are all riled up being around so many other dogs. We're proceeding from one holding area to another looking at all the dogs. I'm starting to feel like a jerk because I want to take them ALL home at this point, picking one seems to be impossible. In one particular holding area, there were three or four medium sized dogs all jumping around and barking, but over to the side, not making any noise at all was this thin, scared looking dog who looked, and I'm not kidding here, her eyes looked older than she appeared. She looked scared but at the same time, resigned. My son walked right up to the cage, and put his hand up to her, she licked his hand then just sat down and looked at all three of us. My son made the decision right then and there. He turned around and told us he wanted this dog. We asked him if he wanted to keep looking around, he was resolute, this was going to be his dog. We asked the shelter attendant to bring the dog into the side room to see what her temperament was. The shelter has an area where you can play with the animal and just how what its temperament is like. They took us into the room then the shelter attendant brought her in. She walked over to Daniel, laid down on her side and started licking his face like she'd just been waiting on him to get there. That was that. They told us she was about a year old and had been found wandering in one of the neighborhoods in the middle of the city. We got the paperwork all done, $35.00 for shots and neutering, can't beat that. We went and picked her up about three days later once they were done with her. We asked my son what he wanted to name her when we picked her up. "Bailey" he said without any hesitation. He told us he'd been thinking about that name ever since he played with her at the shelter. I asked him why "Bailey", he said he didn't know, he just liked that name...weird....anyway, five years later and I'll be completely honest, Bailey is the fourth member of our family, make no mistake about it. She follows Daniel to and from his room, the kitchen, outside, inside, wherever. She's never acted up, or tore up anything in our house. My wife taught her how to ring the string of small bells we have tied to the back door when she wants to go out. She's a very smart dog and her temperament is like nothing I've ever seen. She's calm and having a home seems to have been all she ever wanted. She's gained some weight, we could see all of her ribs when we brought her home...not so much now:) One day a few years back I was getting one of my belts out of the closet while cleaning it out. Bailey was on the bed behind me watching, I turned around and tossed the belt onto the bed. I heard her yelp like she'd fell or been hit. By the time I turned around, she had crawled under the bed and was shivering. At first I thought she had fallen or had been injured. Turned out....it was the belt. At some point she must have been hit by some a$$hat with a belt. She's terrified of them. I felt terrible about it but since then I've gone out of my way to make sure she doesn't see any belts. I just wish I could pay a visit to the person who hit her with one. Some people are just terrible.
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What a wonderful story. You made my day!
 

Jojo87

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I also hate when people take pets and then they abandon them. Here the same thing happen during the summer when
people takes cats over summer to their residence and when fall comes and people go back home they leave the cats there and
don't take them back home. For some people cats are just summer cats and that's it. Those kind of people should never take pets if they
can't take care of them. Make me angry every time I hear about that someone have abandon their pets.

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