Where Have They Gone?

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DiO'Bolic

Not completely obtuse
Nov 14, 2013
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Poconos, PA
Oh Gawd... now all of my insecurities come bubbling up to the surface--if I am a part of this problem it will destroy me, Hoss.
(If I thought I was causing people to want to not be here... I would throw in the towel in a moment, I do worry so much whether I'm doing enough, or too much, it's so hard to find a balance.)
Aww don't take it personally, Flake.
Chocolates aside, we do love you!
:)
 

hossenpepper

Don't worry. I have a permit!!!
Feb 5, 2010
12,897
32,897
Wonderland Avenue
Oh Gawd... now all of my insecurities come bubbling up to the surface--if I am a part of this problem it will destroy me, Hoss.
(If I thought I was causing people to want to not be here... I would throw in the towel in a moment, I do worry so much whether I'm doing enough, or too much, it's so hard to find a balance.)
Absolutely not you, my friend. No worries.
 

blunthead

Well-Known Member
Aug 2, 2006
80,755
195,461
Atlanta GA
Sorry about my last message :a11: I was racing through the thread earlier and might have (hopefully :blush: ) misunderstood what Hoss meant.
I'm just always hugely concerned that I might be alienating myself with you guys--the other moderators might also know what I mean--it's sometimes really hard to do the job and still also just be the friend.
You guys and this place mean so much to me.
In my way I know just what you mean. I didn't realize, though I could've guessed had I been thinking, that mods might feel like this. There've been a number of times I've taken a post here personally when I should not have. I don't know why I have except that I know I have some insecurities.
 

blunthead

Well-Known Member
Aug 2, 2006
80,755
195,461
Atlanta GA
Yes, talking about facebook. Sorry if that was unclear. :)
I used to spend time in a couple of Facebook Stephen King groups. I heard tell of some strife. I was surprised and disappointed. I am also surprised that some who were SKMB regulars now prefer Facebook. I use Facebook, but less nowadays and mostly just when there's not much happening at SKMB, such as when it's the middle of the night here. (I'm not complaining; I'm glad when the Board and the mods get some rest.)
 

blunthead

Well-Known Member
Aug 2, 2006
80,755
195,461
Atlanta GA
I often think about the people who have gone todash, but don't often think enough about all the wonderful new people who have joined the board. And at one point, we were all new people on the board.
I love the noobs and the fact that there have been so many, and that they've been joining for a long time now, like ever since the new Board started. One expects a percentage of noobs to todash and some have, but lots have stayed and some fine examples too, I might add.
 

GNTLGNT

The idiot is IN
Jun 15, 2007
87,651
358,754
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Cambridge, Ohio
Oh Gawd... now all of my insecurities come bubbling up to the surface--if I am a part of this problem it will destroy me, Hoss.
(If I thought I was causing people to want to not be here... I would throw in the towel in a moment, I do worry so much whether I'm doing enough, or too much, it's so hard to find a balance.)
...oh heavens sake NO! Flake you are one of our blithe spirits and add SO much levity and love to our daily interaction here...the problem lies not with us, but with those who refuse to compromise or learn new things...
 

blunthead

Well-Known Member
Aug 2, 2006
80,755
195,461
Atlanta GA
...also, I agree about the new members...old friends have fallen into the maw of the Interweb, but we have welcomed in some special "fresh" folk...I meant them no disrespect, just spoke from my heart over those I had grown-I thought-close to....
I didn't take anything you said as disrespect, and I figure no one else did either. :smile:
 

not_nadine

Comfortably Roont
Nov 19, 2011
29,655
139,785
Behind you
I love the noobs and the fact that there have been so many, and that they've been joining for a long time now, like ever since the new Board started. One expects a percentage of noobs to todash and some have, but lots have stayed and some fine examples too, I might add.

God, I read that as "Boobs"

I have never been the the Sk FB page - and now I sure don't want to. That surprises me that our Tet would act like that.