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gniknehpets

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Oct 20, 2009
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Hello all, so sorry to have been so quiet for so long. I sunk into a deep depression after my mom passed away and real life just faded away. I was getting worse steadily instead of better. I had a breakthrough a month ago when my dad's brother died. I think I finally did the real deep grieving that I had been holding in. And just when I started wanting to be part of life again my daughter dislocated and broke her ankle severely. After surgery she has 2 plates and 11 screws and will probably have to have further surgeries. I have been pretty much living with her to help her and her kids for a month now. She is starting to do better and I should have some time at home again. Also our poor boxer lily has had 2 heart attacks but is doing pretty well considering. I know she probably won't live to see spring. So my life has been a bit on the rocky and busy side. I miss being here. Will try to check in now and then. I will never be able to catch up on all that has happened so I will just send love and prayers to everyone.
 

cat in a bag

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Aug 28, 2010
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Hello all, so sorry to have been so quiet for so long. I sunk into a deep depression after my mom passed away and real life just faded away. I was getting worse steadily instead of better. I had a breakthrough a month ago when my dad's brother died. I think I finally did the real deep grieving that I had been holding in. And just when I started wanting to be part of life again my daughter dislocated and broke her ankle severely. After surgery she has 2 plates and 11 screws and will probably have to have further surgeries. I have been pretty much living with her to help her and her kids for a month now. She is starting to do better and I should have some time at home again. Also our poor boxer lily has had 2 heart attacks but is doing pretty well considering. I know she probably won't live to see spring. So my life has been a bit on the rocky and busy side. I miss being here. Will try to check in now and then. I will never be able to catch up on all that has happened so I will just send love and prayers to everyone.
Love and prayers right back to you! Always. :love_heart:
 

do1you9love?

Happy to be here!
Feb 18, 2012
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Hello all, so sorry to have been so quiet for so long. I sunk into a deep depression after my mom passed away and real life just faded away. I was getting worse steadily instead of better. I had a breakthrough a month ago when my dad's brother died. I think I finally did the real deep grieving that I had been holding in. And just when I started wanting to be part of life again my daughter dislocated and broke her ankle severely. After surgery she has 2 plates and 11 screws and will probably have to have further surgeries. I have been pretty much living with her to help her and her kids for a month now. She is starting to do better and I should have some time at home again. Also our poor boxer lily has had 2 heart attacks but is doing pretty well considering. I know she probably won't live to see spring. So my life has been a bit on the rocky and busy side. I miss being here. Will try to check in now and then. I will never be able to catch up on all that has happened so I will just send love and prayers to everyone.
Sounds like you have had enough sadness. Time for some good in your life. (((gniknehpets))) Good to see you posting.
 

Sigmund

Waiting in Uber.
Jan 3, 2010
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Hello all, so sorry to have been so quiet for so long. I sunk into a deep depression after my mom passed away and real life just faded away. I was getting worse steadily instead of better. I had a breakthrough a month ago when my dad's brother died. I think I finally did the real deep grieving that I had been holding in. And just when I started wanting to be part of life again my daughter dislocated and broke her ankle severely. After surgery she has 2 plates and 11 screws and will probably have to have further surgeries. I have been pretty much living with her to help her and her kids for a month now. She is starting to do better and I should have some time at home again. Also our poor boxer lily has had 2 heart attacks but is doing pretty well considering. I know she probably won't live to see spring. So my life has been a bit on the rocky and busy side. I miss being here. Will try to check in now and then. I will never be able to catch up on all that has happened so I will just send love and prayers to everyone.

So sorry to hear of your trials ma'am. Love, thoughts and prayers going out to you and yours.

(((((gniknehpets and family)))))
 

kingricefan

All-being, keeper of Space, Time & Dimension.
Jul 11, 2006
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127,446
Spokane, WA
Hello all, so sorry to have been so quiet for so long. I sunk into a deep depression after my mom passed away and real life just faded away. I was getting worse steadily instead of better. I had a breakthrough a month ago when my dad's brother died. I think I finally did the real deep grieving that I had been holding in. And just when I started wanting to be part of life again my daughter dislocated and broke her ankle severely. After surgery she has 2 plates and 11 screws and will probably have to have further surgeries. I have been pretty much living with her to help her and her kids for a month now. She is starting to do better and I should have some time at home again. Also our poor boxer lily has had 2 heart attacks but is doing pretty well considering. I know she probably won't live to see spring. So my life has been a bit on the rocky and busy side. I miss being here. Will try to check in now and then. I will never be able to catch up on all that has happened so I will just send love and prayers to everyone.
((((gniknehpets)))) I'm so sorry that life has been sending you so many curve balls. I lost my Mom Nov. 1st last year and I am still grieving. A little over a month after that I had to have one of my fur babies put down. It's been rough- there's good days and bad days. I hope your daughter gets well soon. And you take care of YOU!!!!
 

Dana Jean

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Apr 11, 2006
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Hello all, so sorry to have been so quiet for so long. I sunk into a deep depression after my mom passed away and real life just faded away. I was getting worse steadily instead of better. I had a breakthrough a month ago when my dad's brother died. I think I finally did the real deep grieving that I had been holding in. And just when I started wanting to be part of life again my daughter dislocated and broke her ankle severely. After surgery she has 2 plates and 11 screws and will probably have to have further surgeries. I have been pretty much living with her to help her and her kids for a month now. She is starting to do better and I should have some time at home again. Also our poor boxer lily has had 2 heart attacks but is doing pretty well considering. I know she probably won't live to see spring. So my life has been a bit on the rocky and busy side. I miss being here. Will try to check in now and then. I will never be able to catch up on all that has happened so I will just send love and prayers to everyone.
sorry that life has just kicked you in the behiney, and grieving is a long road. Just try to take care of you the best you can. The door is always open here.
 

gniknehpets

Backwards Sister Member
Oct 20, 2009
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northern wisconsin
Thank you so much everyone. And Dana, you made me laugh with the behiney thing! Thank you. Laughs have been scarce. I thought I was a pretty tough cookie but, nope not so tough. I'm so sorry kingricefan. I hope you can find comfort and acceptance. Hard but it will come. I hope you have someone close to your heart to share your grief with. Don't try to go it alone. Didn't work so good for me and there see so many people who want to help.
 

kingricefan

All-being, keeper of Space, Time & Dimension.
Jul 11, 2006
30,011
127,446
Spokane, WA
Thank you so much everyone. And Dana, you made me laugh with the behiney thing! Thank you. Laughs have been scarce. I thought I was a pretty tough cookie but, nope not so tough. I'm so sorry kingricefan. I hope you can find comfort and acceptance. Hard but it will come. I hope you have someone close to your heart to share your grief with. Don't try to go it alone. Didn't work so good for me and there see so many people who want to help.
Thank you. Know that we are here for you, too! We're open 24-7!!!
 

HollyGolightly

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Sep 6, 2013
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Hello all, so sorry to have been so quiet for so long. I sunk into a deep depression after my mom passed away and real life just faded away. I was getting worse steadily instead of better. I had a breakthrough a month ago when my dad's brother died. I think I finally did the real deep grieving that I had been holding in. And just when I started wanting to be part of life again my daughter dislocated and broke her ankle severely. After surgery she has 2 plates and 11 screws and will probably have to have further surgeries. I have been pretty much living with her to help her and her kids for a month now. She is starting to do better and I should have some time at home again. Also our poor boxer lily has had 2 heart attacks but is doing pretty well considering. I know she probably won't live to see spring. So my life has been a bit on the rocky and busy side. I miss being here. Will try to check in now and then. I will never be able to catch up on all that has happened so I will just send love and prayers to everyone.
God bless you, honey! That's tough and depression is vicious and relentless. Take good care of yourself and your girl. Bless your puppy too. (((pets)))
 

Neesy

#1 fan (Annie Wilkes cousin) 1st cousin Mom's side
May 24, 2012
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Hello all, so sorry to have been so quiet for so long. I sunk into a deep depression after my mom passed away and real life just faded away. I was getting worse steadily instead of better. I had a breakthrough a month ago when my dad's brother died. I think I finally did the real deep grieving that I had been holding in. And just when I started wanting to be part of life again my daughter dislocated and broke her ankle severely. After surgery she has 2 plates and 11 screws and will probably have to have further surgeries. I have been pretty much living with her to help her and her kids for a month now. She is starting to do better and I should have some time at home again. Also our poor boxer lily has had 2 heart attacks but is doing pretty well considering. I know she probably won't live to see spring. So my life has been a bit on the rocky and busy side. I miss being here. Will try to check in now and then. I will never be able to catch up on all that has happened so I will just send love and prayers to everyone.
Wow - you have had some hard things thrown at you. Healing vibes that things start to improve - it will pass - things WILL get better! You just have to have hope - and also give it time.

Good to hear from you again :encouragement::cheerful:
 

niro

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Apr 5, 2013
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Hello all, so sorry to have been so quiet for so long. I sunk into a deep depression after my mom passed away and real life just faded away. I was getting worse steadily instead of better. I had a breakthrough a month ago when my dad's brother died. I think I finally did the real deep grieving that I had been holding in. And just when I started wanting to be part of life again my daughter dislocated and broke her ankle severely. After surgery she has 2 plates and 11 screws and will probably have to have further surgeries. I have been pretty much living with her to help her and her kids for a month now. She is starting to do better and I should have some time at home again. Also our poor boxer lily has had 2 heart attacks but is doing pretty well considering. I know she probably won't live to see spring. So my life has been a bit on the rocky and busy side. I miss being here. Will try to check in now and then. I will never be able to catch up on all that has happened so I will just send love and prayers to everyone.

(((gniknehpets))) sending good vibes for you and healing vibes for your daughter.
 
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