...everyone is ignoring the elephant in the room here, and you may all hate me for this-but so be it....Sig needs to apologize to this entire Board for her insensitive remarks, and lack of respect for the Moderators.....she and Muskrat also need to take care of squelching their differences...I'm all for giving someone a pass, but she trampled on our trust and should recognize that and make amends.....
Siggy can have my positive thoughts, absolutely yes, because I will always want the best for everyone, I do. However, my positive thoughts for her right now are focusing on her making positive changes to her attitude, behaviours and responses to others.
Siggy chose to alienate herself from this group based on her perceptions of other people's thinking and attitudes.
She accused us of a racism that was board-wide, which is complete rubbish. She was inaccurate in her assumptions and incredibly rude and hurtful in executing her thoughts.
My personal experience of Siggy has been an up and down emotional ride... I have come to feel that she is only interested in conversing when it suits her. If she is experiencing emotional turmoil, she will make contact and when I have responded, she will often just disappear without further word. Honestly I became tired of this behaviour.
The moderators see a lot of issues on the MB... because we read all of the posts, so I can understand how many of you might not have seen some of the manipulative stuff that we have.
Siggy is welcome back here any time, but personally I do not miss those jibes and (sometimes) subtle innuendo's that were designed to inflict disquiet in the threads.
This is my opinion and I don't speak for the other moderators.
@Spidey... I love you like a second Mom, you know this. And I know that your heart is always in the right place, I just hope you will not be upset by my honesty here.
Thank you Scott and Flakers: We also need people in this world who protect the innocents who get taken for a ride. People who call it like it is and hold accountable those who play games. I appreciate your honesty, without-judgement comments, but based on factual insights.