You type whatever you feel the need to sir, we got your back most assuredly.....one of our dearest friends looked at us last night and said "WTF? You guys have been there for them forever, I just wish my parents had been like you guys. The kids don't how good they've had it".....oh well, I'm sure the next thing that will happen is that our weekend away for our anniversary will be ruined in some way by some kind of BS.....dammit all, I'm sorry!....don't want to feel this negative.....need to just chillax......