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Patricia A

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It is now around 1:15 pm here and I have not smoked a single cigarette, and I have not killed one person. I am not withdrawing from nicotine at all. I have been using a nicotine vaporizer instead... by choice, although that is not technically quitting smoking it is rather a minor miracle in my case. I did not set out to quit smoking cigarettes because I was/am terrified of withdrawal.... but it looks like it's happening. I really don't care to ever smoke another cigarette and it's OK.
I am going to gradually decrease the nicotine dosage I buy and see where that takes me. Man, really? Yep.
 

blunthead

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I am in danger of losing my job. I was in the hospital all last week. I was unable to leave - involuntary admission.
I Went to work this morning. Went to HR. They sent me home, said I was in no shape to work. These pills they gave me, I can't function with them.

Now I have to call the doctor who treated me and he has to give medical information and tell them I am able to work.
I really hope he does.


((Philippines))
(((((nn))))) I might be wrong, but I think under these circumstances they cannot legally fire you, especially if you provide a doctor's excuse, meaning to do so they'd have to create a trumped-up claim which they'd then have to prove true in court if you were to insist they do.
 

blunthead

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It is now around 1:15 pm here and I have not smoked a single cigarette, and I have not killed one person. I am not withdrawing from nicotine at all. I have been using a nicotine vaporizer instead... by choice, although that is not technically quitting smoking it is rather a minor miracle in my case. I did not set out to quit smoking cigarettes because I was/am terrified of withdrawal.... but it looks like it's happening. I really don't care to ever smoke another cigarette and it's OK.
I am going to gradually decrease the nicotine dosage I buy and see where that takes me. Man, really? Yep.
Gonna decrease the killing, too? Meanwhile, major kudos. If yer not smoking you are technically quitting indeed. Quitting smoking is not just or even mostly about nicotine. It's not nicotine which causes the real damage. What I'm getting at is that overcoming addiction is to replace a bad habit with a better one, and to encourage you not to judge yourself for continuing to need nicotine for the time being, and to say that yer good feelings about yer replacing smoking with a healthier, better habit are legitimate ones.
 
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not_nadine

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I think what it is about animals, why we end up becoming attached to them and love them, and in some ways can get more from them than from other humans even, is that while we know they are innocent, they must suffer in this world anyway as if guilty. It's an unfair world sometimes. I assume we suspect animals don't know what the deal is or why, so that their suffering seems uniquely unconscionable and unacceptable.

So eloquent, dear Frank.

And thank you Spidey, that brought true tears to my eyes.

All thing serve the beam.
 

Patricia A

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Gonna decrease the killing, too? Meanwhile, major kudos. If yer not smoking you are technically quitting indeed. Quitting smoking is not just or even mostly about nicotine. It's not nicotine which causes the real damage. What I'm getting at is that overcoming addiction is to replace a bad habit with a better one, and to encourage you not to judge yourself for continuing to need nicotine for the time being, and to say that yer good feelings about yer replacing smoking with a healthier, better habit are legitimate ones.
it's almost been unbelievably easy to not smoke for real.
 

MadamMack

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It is now around 1:15 pm here and I have not smoked a single cigarette, and I have not killed one person. I am not withdrawing from nicotine at all. I have been using a nicotine vaporizer instead... by choice, although that is not technically quitting smoking it is rather a minor miracle in my case. I did not set out to quit smoking cigarettes because I was/am terrified of withdrawal.... but it looks like it's happening. I really don't care to ever smoke another cigarette and it's OK.
I am going to gradually decrease the nicotine dosage I buy and see where that takes me. Man, really? Yep.
Good luck . . .I did it 13 years ago!
 

MadamMack

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Sigmund

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Jan 3, 2010
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Good evening.

SKMB members are always in my prayers.

Sending out prayers, well wishes, healing vibes and comfort to all in need or not.

St. Jude has always been my patron Saint. (Thank you, Ms. Spidey for the prayer.)

St. Jude-Patron Saint for lost causes. If ever there was a lost cause, tis I.
And Mother Mary. She loves me.

As most of you know my husband was diagnosed with GBM, terminal brain cancer, at the age of 36. We were given 50 weeks IF he had the crainotomy to remove the tumor, radiation and chemo. The chemo nearly killed him.

I talked to St. Jude and Mother Mary. ( With Mother Mary,I asked for Her intervention and offered her my hair. My hair was very long-if I wasn't careful , when I would sit down I would wind up sitting on it- and full. I had it all cut off. The braid was about three feet long. It's a cultural thing.)

When Philip, my husband, was nearly dying from the chemo our beautiful , wonderful faithful canine companion, Bear died. We took her up and wrapped her in her favorite blanket. Philip insisted on digging her grave. He was terribly sick and dying yet he was adamant to dig Bear's grave. By himself. That day was misting/raining and he was in the back yard digging. (Crying.) Our next door neighbor knew about Philip and Bear and offered to help dig the grave. Philip thanked him but refused politely. It was just something he had to do himself. For Bear and for himself. To thank Bear for her love, support and loyalty. It took him several hours to dig that grave. Something a healthy person could have accomplished in an hour or less.

I believe that is the beauty of a human being in dire straits and the love that person has for his animal companion.

Cool, huh?

We were given 50 weeks. My husband lived for two years and seven months.

...

Peace.
 

Sigmund

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We buried one of our elders today.

My Tia Chepia was a sweet, wonderful woman. An elder who listened, advised and loved all of us. She will be loved, missed and remembered by all her family and friends for eternity.

At this time... I cannot *celebrate* her going home to God... in time...I will accept her death and absence.

For now... I will cry and mourn her.

Peace.
 

blunthead

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Aug 2, 2006
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We buried one of our elders today.

My Tia Chepia was a sweet, wonderful woman. An elder who listened, advised and loved all of us. She will be loved, missed and remembered by all her family and friends for eternity.

At this time... I cannot *celebrate* her going home to God... in time...I will accept her death and absence.

For now... I will cry and mourn her.

Peace.
Hi, Siggy. Remind me who Tia Chepia is?
 

blunthead

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...When…[my husband]...was nearly dying from the chemo our beautiful , wonderful faithful canine companion, Bear died. We took her up and wrapped her in her favorite blanket. Philip insisted on digging her grave. He was terribly sick and dying yet he was adamant to dig Bear's grave. By himself. That day was misting/raining and he was in the back yard digging. (Crying.) Our next door neighbor knew about Philip and Bear and offered to help dig the grave. Philip thanked him but refused politely. It was just something he had to do himself. For Bear and for himself...
That touches me in a very special way. Thankee, Siggy.
 

Sigmund

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Hi, Siggy. Remind me who Tia Chepia is?

Hey You! You were missed.

My Tia Chepia was my one of my Momma's big sisters. Tia Chepia and her husband, Tio Domoningo were the ones that lived across the way. They were the ones that that heard my brothers and my pleas/screams for help when my Daddy was beating up my pregnant Momma.

I'll PM you.

Peace.
 

SharonC

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Jul 9, 2007
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Good evening.

SKMB members are always in my prayers.

Sending out prayers, well wishes, healing vibes and comfort to all in need or not.

St. Jude has always been my patron Saint. (Thank you, Ms. Spidey for the prayer.)

St. Jude-Patron Saint for lost causes. If ever there was a lost cause, tis I.
And Mother Mary. She loves me.

As most of you know my husband was diagnosed with GBM, terminal brain cancer, at the age of 36. We were given 50 weeks IF he had the crainotomy to remove the tumor, radiation and chemo. The chemo nearly killed him.

I talked to St. Jude and Mother Mary. ( With Mother Mary,I asked for Her intervention and offered her my hair. My hair was very long-if I wasn't careful , when I would sit down I would wind up sitting on it- and full. I had it all cut off. The braid was about three feet long. It's a cultural thing.)

When Philip, my husband, was nearly dying from the chemo our beautiful , wonderful faithful canine companion, Bear died. We took her up and wrapped her in her favorite blanket. Philip insisted on digging her grave. He was terribly sick and dying yet he was adamant to dig Bear's grave. By himself. That day was misting/raining and he was in the back yard digging. (Crying.) Our next door neighbor knew about Philip and Bear and offered to help dig the grave. Philip thanked him but refused politely. It was just something he had to do himself. For Bear and for himself. To thank Bear for her love, support and loyalty. It took him several hours to dig that grave. Something a healthy person could have accomplished in an hour or less.

I believe that is the beauty of a human being in dire straits and the love that person has for his animal companion.

Cool, huh?

We were given 50 weeks. My husband lived for two years and seven months.

...

Peace.
What a beautiful tale, Sig. Thank you for sharing that. He sounds like he was a wonderful man, and you were so lucky to have that extra time together. God bless you.