Wherefore Art Thou.

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do1you9love?

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When she posted that message I went back through the thread to see what she was talking about and I didn't see anything that I thought was untoward or malicious towards her at all. I was very confused about where it all came from. I sure do miss her though!
I did the same. She said something like, you don't see what I do, so I'm guessing it was an argument via PM. Sad.:sad:
 

Out of Order

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Sorry if this was me, I know she got upset when I'd neglect to include her in one of my many stupid posts listing some of the members on here for various reasons or infractions :)applause:). Was never my intention to not include her, more of an error on my part to be honest, but just thought I should put it out there..........again apologies if this was in any way a factor.
 

Sigmund

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She basically said as much when she was leaving, stating that she was getting hurtful messages we couldn't see. Many of us told her how much we appreciated her, but I think with her eyesight issue, it was all too much. I hope that she or her daughter will come back and she that she is truly missed. (((Peg)))

When she posted that message I went back through the thread to see what she was talking about and I didn't see anything that I thought was untoward or malicious towards her at all. I was very confused about where it all came from. I sure do miss her though!

I missed that, say sorry.
I saw some things that were cruddy and it's a little jab here and a little jab there in different threads. It's passive aggressive and if called out it's all, oh no, I didn't mean that at all! Sincere apologies...

I don't put stock in passive aggressive people. It's pathological and sad. Furthermore, you would be amazed how they will accuse others of poking and jabbing them! That's projection-I do it to others so you must be doing it to me.

Anyway, I'm glad to see so many people back and hope more will check in.

Have a great afternoon/evening.
 

Sigmund

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Sorry if this was me, I know she got upset when I'd neglect to include her in one of my many stupid posts listing some of the members on here for various reasons or infractions :)applause:). Was never my intention to not include her, more of an error on my part to be honest, but just thought I should put it out there..........again apologies if this was in any way a factor.

I never notice you do that, I'm sorry. I always feel like you include me anytime you post. :love:

I have a bad habit of tagging people but I don't leave out anyone on purpose. I have a pretty good idea what some members like in movies, TV shows and food so I'll tag them if I can include some info they may like to know.

:)
 

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I never notice you do that, I'm sorry. I always feel like you include me anytime you post. :love:

I have a bad habit of tagging people but I don't leave out anyone on purpose. I have a pretty good idea what some members like in movies, TV shows and food so I'll tag them if I can include some info they may like to know.

:)

I'm just glad we still play tag..........you're it!!!
 

Doc Creed

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I saw some things that were cruddy and it's a little jab here and a little jab there in different threads. It's passive aggressive and if called out it's all, oh no, I didn't mean that at all!
Yes, so true. I have no idea what upset Pegasus but, in general, I've had to up my game with discerning PA comments. Usually the best way to deal with these people is to ignore them.
 

Sigmund

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Yes, so true. I have no idea what upset Pegasus but, in general, I've personally upped my game with discerning PA comments. Usually the best way to deal with these people is to ignore them.

Hey, you!

Yes, ignore, ignore, ignore. (Although it's fascinating how much time and effort goes into it. It's like they don't have a life.) (What's for dinner?)
 

Sigmund

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Thank you!

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Pssttt. I left a message on your page earlier. Big squeezy hugs!
 

Doc Creed

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Hey, you!

Yes, ignore, ignore, ignore. (Although it's fascinating how much time and effort goes into it. It's like they don't have a life.) (What's for dinner?)
I could go into so many case histories about this subject, especially about my ex-boss, but I'll spare you. haha
Supper, tonight? Leftover taco soup, I think you'd approve. Good to see you posting.
 

FlakeNoir

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There are far too many posts to quote in order to properly reply to the discussion today concerning Pegasus' decision to leave and whether she had been treated poorly or not, so please assume that I am addressing everyone involved in the recent discussion.

Pegasus did appear upset at something other than her health issue and had left a few cryptic posts alluding to the idea that she had been having problems with a member/s. More than one moderator attempted to help her solve some issues, both in the threads and also by PM. Pegasus chose not to respond which was unfortunate because we always encourage members to contact us if something is happening and they're not able to solve it by themselves.

If the issue with Pegasus is ongoing, we would like to hear about that directly. If nothing new has come to light, then we would ask that members do not bring such a discussion to the threads because it is counter-productive to be accusing members of passive aggressive behaviour as was posted earlier today.
Moderators are here to solve these kinds of issues and it is not appropriate to do so in the threads as it often creates side-taking which can snowball and turn a good message board into a dysfunctional one.

Once again, please approach the moderators or admin directly if you need help with an issue.
 

Srbo

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Just to check in here as well,
Didn`t read the posts, I`m REALLY behind on everything on this Board, but I doubt anyone misses me, I guess you got used to me not being around for a long time, and then, here I am again, just like that. :)
Hoping you are all well.
:)
 
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