Books that changed you

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jackysawyer

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I was reading the Bible...the bee-eye-bee-el-ee. This book changed me...more than once. The first time I start out in Genesis...the beginning. Wanted to cash in my chips I did and figured I ought to check out the lay of the land. On I go...up through...Leviticus...and I read that stuff about stoning lepers. Yay. Boy howdy. You got to understand where I was at the time...my late-leper life. Anyway...I guess that put the keebosh on the bee-eye-bee-el-ee. For a time, anyway. I figured when the time came I'd explain things best I could...God is Love. Right?

Years later...I'm back at it...the bee-eye-bee-el-ee...and I'm in the Gospels...and I'm reading along and Jesus reached out and touched a leper. See this leper guy touched His cloak figuring he'd be healed just by touching it...and he was...but the Big Guy knew, said who touched my cloak? Leper says I did. So Jesus touched him.

The Catcher in the Rye is all about touch. Catcher touched me...read Salinger's other stories...Frannie and Zooey? Touch. Just a few.

Sounds like you need a little sunlight in your soul...
 

kingricefan

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Profound impact on one's life? How about The Lovely Bones? In reading it I discovered even when something so horrible happens in one's life there is always, always hope and beauty. How about East Of Eden? In it I discovered that it is ones own choices in life that make or break a person and a person's soul. Sure, I knew from childhood that one does suffer reprecusions from ones actions, but to have it laid out in black and white was mind-blowing. As for King's works, 'Salem's Lot had a huge impact on me. I knew the people that inhabited the Lot. I lived in that small town when I was a kid with all of the same types of people living there along side me as the ones that were in the book. I was alittle older than Mark Petrie was and was like him in so many ways. King brought it home for me in a way that no other writer had. Dracula was another book that shook me to the core. I read it when I was around 14 and just remember that how it was written really threw me for a loop. I had, up til that point, never read a story told in that way- told from the form of journals, letters, etc. (I forget the term for this) Just blew me away.
 

Sundrop

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I'm not really sure that a book actually has the power to change a person, especially a work of fiction.
Sure, there are books that have shown me all kinds of things, and made me think in a broader spectrum.
My personal belief is that a thing is either in us, or it isn't....books, along with life experiences, and other stimuli are able to enhance whatever is already there, but I don't think these things really change us.
 

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a Book that really shocked me was 'In Cold Blood' By Truman Capote. I read it at 14(I don#t recommend teens unti 18/19 to read this. it was graphic and the main culprits were absolutely inhumane. I read it and was shocked at how an ordinary family of 4 could be slaughterd by two psychopaths. there was a film made of it and then a remake, reading the book(at 14) was enough. as far as i can remember nothing was spared in this book.
 

booklover72

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For me books are like music, they have the power to change moods, i.e have a favourite character, be rooting for the underdog, you can express feelings in a 3 minute song. but a story we will develop along with the story, read what was in the author's mind, have mixed feelings about situations the characters get into. as for Stephen King, he has the power to develop bad/good guys and make you love them. A stephen king book is like a rollacoaster, fast, full of ups and down and leaves you wanting more. I think certain books can change people or their opinions. steve is one of these writers. in the same class as Charles dickens and a very funny Samuel Langonhorn clemens(MArk twain)
 

VultureLvr45

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I need to think about this for a while; so far, here goes:
Siddhartha by Hermann Hess - Like for both the growth and spirituality aspects.

Man's Search For Meaning - Viktor E. Frankl

Knots - RD Laing

On Writing- Stephen King

The Secret Life of Walter Mitty - James Thurber (This was THE short story that acknowledged my 'normalcy' of living in my 'imaginary' (yet safe) world. 'They' could do whatever they wanted, and I would 'slip away', and come back later.
 
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HPMcClendon

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No single sK story changed my life, but discovering him did.

Yes, discovering him is a life-changer. Absolutely.

I do have some additional answers to the question though. First, Misery. I was only a teenager but the way the pain is written, coming in waves like the tide, really spoke to me. I had never thought about pain in that way, or in any way that didn't include whatever injury or harm that had caused it. The pain read like a character and for whatever reason that did change my life. It changed the way I viewed pain, and it changed the way I reacted to it. Maybe not for the better, honestly, as it was almost as if pain would wash in and become the company that misery keeps - in my own life. I think I held on for too long many times, half lost in this odd interpretation of what pain is. I really can't explain it to any logical end. Better I just stop now and you know that book is one of my answers. Lol.

Another is Rose Madder. I just happened to read that book at the exact time in my life when I needed it most. And there were some coincidences that made me pay even closer attention to how the book related to my life at the time. Rose is a nickname I have been given on occasion (most likely in reference to 'rambling rose', go figure haha), not often used but enough for it to matter when I also noticed the shared surname: McClendon. Then there is the issue of streets. I lived on Trenton St while reading Rose Madder, and though the book went on to read "Tremont St" later on, it did also read "Trenton" street in the earlier pages. But the biggest likeness was just being in an unfortunate situation that involved a failed love that had turned ugly. Nothing at all to the extent of what Norman was capable of but certainly enough that a book like this was a much needed escape and ultimately a well-appreciated pep talk. All of these things only added to my love of this book. It was exactly what I needed to read and it came to me [a donation] at just the right time. Definitely changed me, helped me, inspired me.
 

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To Kill A Mockingbird taught me that it's best to see things beyond physical appearance. Oh, the book never said that, precisely. But I was wrapped up and outraged in the fate of Tom Robinson, and when I internally explored why it was because of the indignity and unfairness meted out to a human being. That's when I first realized in a very conscious way that if we assess those whom we meet on their individual qualities, period, there is no prejudice.

Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance opened my mind to giving in to being the best you can be with what you are, to strive in your endeavors to produce the best possible. From a life attitude standpoint, it sorta - sorta - became my bible.

Interestingly enough, both of those are from pretty much one-off authors. Yes, I know Robert Pirsig later wrote Lila, but after browsing through it, I decided to discount it.

In terms of Stephen King, none of his fiction works changed my life, although there are spots and vignettes that stick with me still (thank you, The Mangler). However, if I do get to the level of being a salable author, On Writing will be a large part of the reason why.
 

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To Kill A Mockingbird taught me that it's best to see things beyond physical appearance. Oh, the book never said that, precisely. But I was wrapped up and outraged in the fate of Tom Robinson, and when I internally explored why it was because of the indignity and unfairness meted out to a human being. That's when I first realized in a very conscious way that if we assess those whom we meet on their individual qualities, period, there is no prejudice.

Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance opened my mind to giving in to being the best you can be with what you are, to strive in your endeavors to produce the best possible. From a life attitude standpoint, it sorta - sorta - became my bible.

Interestingly enough, both of those are from pretty much one-off authors. Yes, I know Robert Pirsig later wrote Lila, but after browsing through it, I decided to discount it.

In terms of Stephen King, none of his fiction works changed my life, although there are spots and vignettes that stick with me still (thank you, The Mangler). However, if I do get to the level of being a salable author, On Writing will be a large part of the reason why.
I loved Mockingbird because it was so well-written, capturing and holding my interest, and causing me to appreciate humanity's need to get over and above bias. Motorcycle Maintenance I loved because of it's utter uniqueness, and the author's ability to build up a thread of suspense and action the likes of which I haven't encountered since (I concur per Lila).

CSLewis' The Great Divorce was a true life changer for me. The idea that we humans are held back from happiness and controlled by our preconceived notions, biases, and fears was shown to me irresistibly true. The Catcher in the Rye caused me to think, and I think I read it at the ideal time a male person should.
 

BrookeAmber

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For me, I think the books that changed me have to be The Dark Tower series, Bag of Bones and Rose Madder.
The Dark Tower saved me from myself, while Bag of Bones and Rose Madder were just incredible and magnificent books.
Spent a summer in my room reading Stephen King. Bag of Bones and Rose Madder were among those books, and it was the best summer of my life.
 

Kurben

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Now that I've got that Newbie post out of the way, I can get down to business.

I don't figure I was too young when I started reading King's books (and the ones I started with weren't Eyes of the Dragon or Tom Gordon, or anything namby-pamby like that. I think Salem's Lot may have been the first. I have a distinct memory of finishing it very late at night, or more accurately, early in the morning. It was summer. It was hot and humid. I had that sticky, exhausted, dry-eyed, bedworn thing going on that we probably all get from reading too late at night. I promptly went into the bathroom and made a cross out of Q-Tips and dental floss. Back in my room, I smoothed out the sheets, turned out the lights, and tried to get myself to bed.

One of those fat, ****ing June bugs slammed into the screen.

For those of you who haven't read the book, there's that part where a vampire is tapping at the second story window of a boy (it must be Mark Petrie- I haven't actually re-read that one, so it's been a few years.) and I thought I was about to die. I aimed my cross at the window with arms that were tight with fear. I thought I was a goner. I probably haven't been as scared since (at least not for myself. I have kids now and when you turn your back for a second in a parking lot, or a store, and they're just gone when you turn around again, that's much scarier. But maybe I can blame King for that? Probably not), but how do you really know?

Anyway, I digress.

I started youngish, maybe 12 or so. I've read most of King's books, probably all, and many of my favorites have been read and re-read a handful of times. However, there were two that really changed me. They happen to be two of my favorites, but there are others I like more. The Stand, IT and Dark Tower stuff. But, after reading The Long Walk and The Talisman, I started viewing the world differently. The huge thing that changed in me (and lasted for years. I didn't start moving on and growing up, Constant Reader, I wasn't the same for four years of my early teens) was the realization that like Travelin' Jack, I had a mission. I was needed, maybe not at twelve, but certainly by 16. I was going to save the world, or die trying. Everyday I woke up and wondered if that was the day I was going to be called. If it would happen before lunch. If I was going to become aware of what was necessary, or if I would be able to trade my cheese and mustard sandwich for a PB and J.

By 16 I had decided it wasn't going to happen. Not that I had missed my chance (was it some other 12 year old boy? Somewhat tall for his age with his fine brown hair maybe a bit too long?), but that I was stupid for ever thinking it. It had to happen when I was a kid. That's just the way the world would be saved. Although, at 39, there are still some moments that I think I might still get my chance.

Anyway, anyone else have a life-changing event?

Start stockpiling food and guns for Tube Neck or alien brats who like to watch?

Did you buy haz-mat suits for byrus?

IInstall cameras in your house to determine if your kids are becoming Carrie or Charlie McGee?
Right on.

I think it's easy for us to say that King's books changed us as readers, maybe as observers of life in general.

But that's a gimme.

I'm more curious about books that were actually life-changing for you- you stopped going down cellar or began walking around storm drains.

Although, maybe I should retract that. As I mentioned above, The Talisman did that for me. I was Jack Sawyer; I was needed to save something or someone important. I was sure that the people in my life were not actually human, were not actually alive, and were only there to help me grow into the boy that I needed to be. I really believed that as soon as they left my sight they just turned off until they were needed again. That can really mess people up! However, I also feel like The Long Walk changed me, but now that I really dwell on it, I'm not sure how. I could connect with Ray Garraty, but I never wanted to participate in anything like that. I had nothing to prove in my life, I had no chip on my shoulder that helped me get from day to day. But it was an important story- I know it helped shape me somehow. maybe I didn't worry about the small things so much? Maybe getting bullied didn't scare me as much?
Don't know that i would say changed. But IT is a given among Kings books, as is Rage because they both, in very different ways, had scenes about kids that were maltreated in school. Thats a thing I can relate to myself. Bullies and their victims is also a topic in The Body thats also an important King-book for me. The real knockout book i have read must be Goldings The Lord of the flies. Fantastic!!!