Oh, this is tough. That hurts. I would always give my MIL big pictures of my kids and I would buy super nice frames to put them in. The next time we would visit, the frames would be off the pictures and the pictures sort of shoved behind stuff on her bookcase. My kids faces would be peeking out from behind chachkies. I have no idea what happened to the frames.Nothing like a visit to the in-laws house to remind you how little they think of your family. Pictures of SIL & BIL's kids everywhere, absolutely none of ours anywhere. After 25 years it shouldn't surprise me, but… yeah. *sigh*