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DiO'Bolic

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I miss not feeling my lifestyle and freedom threatened by political correctness. I miss not having to watch American society melting down.

I also miss growing up in a neighborhood where your friends' moms were kind of surrogate moms for all the kids. In most ways I miss my childhood in general; especially my teen years and being 18 and knowing that I was very alive, full of something which included the concept of energy but which was much more.

You can say that again!

From some of the kids I see I wish their parents would act like parents. Some of these kids seem almost on their own. Having to take care of themselves and feeding themselves while their parents are out doing who knows what.

When my daughter's friends are around they are treated like my own kids. Some ar so happy to get a home cooked meal and dessert, and seem surprised when an adult makes sure they are happy and cares what they say and think

They call me either dad or coach.
 

blunthead

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:rofl::rofl:

My mother is Mestizo. She could throw a chancla (slipper or flip flop) and hit anyone she wanted no matter what room in the house we were in. I swear she could make that chancla turn corners and open doors. You ever get a chancla upside your head you will remember it.
And the fly swatter! Funny how she could miss a fly by inches but that freaking flay swatter would elongate four feet so she could swat us with it. :laugh:

Peace.

Cool thread, DiO! :love:
I totally understand why you loved her.
 

Grandpa

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Running across people's yards in the neighborhood when playing. No one seemed to mind. Some house had rhubarb patches, and we'd sometimes chew on the rhubarb after brushing the dirt off, and make faces at its tartness. When the parents wanted us to come back, they'd hang out the back door and yell for us.

Parents would send me to bed, and I was reading. I'd ask to leave the hall light on, although I've never been scared of the dark, but they didn't know that. I'd sit up in bed and read by that light. Parents might try to sneak up the stairs to check on me, but I knew each creak by their weight, and they'd always find me "asleep." If they'd checked under my pillow, they would've found the book.

Etch-a-Sketch.
Kaleidoscope.
Chinese checkers with the old lady next door.
Chess with my dad. He usually won, but not always.
Board games at home. We had our favorites. "Sorry" for a quick, easy game, and "Monopoly" to kill more time. Also card games; usually gin rummy, although they taught me hearts and spades.
Always a jigsaw puzzle in progress on a card table somewhere.
Riding a bike all over town without a helmet, away from home for hours at a time, just like everyone else.
Finding my dad's "secret" stash of Playboys. I think that brought me into puberty.
 

danie

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I remember when I could play outside all day and my mom never knew where I was. I would check in around lunch time and be gone again. The kids in my neighborhood had a nature club and we would be out in the woods identifying tree and shrub species, flowers, animals, tending our own pet cemetery (not Sematary) of personal pet family members and animals we found deceased out in the woods, getting a baseball game together, or kickball in the cul-de-sac. We would ride our bikes everywhere! Come home for dinner and back out again! When the streetlights came on, I was to be home, but even then I would be on my driveway catching the frogs that ventured out. I had a great childhood.
This was my childhood, exactly. Everything you wrote is precisely how I spent my days...especially being out in the woods and riding bikes. Plus, in the summer, we went barefoot everywhere. I remember playing Barbies until I was quite old! Also, I clearly see myself waiting patiently by my radio for my favorite song to come on, then pressing record and play on my Panasonic cassette recorder that was right next to the speaker. I would hold my breath, hoping no one would make any noise in the background that might ruin my recording. When I got a stereo, my friends and I would put on headphones, sing (without being able to hear yourself--it was so loud), and record what we thought was a beautiful rendition of the song. Then we'd laugh so hard because it sounded soooooo bad!
 

Dana Jean

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This was my childhood, exactly. Everything you wrote is precisely how I spent my days...especially being out in the woods and riding bikes. Plus, in the summer, we went barefoot everywhere. I remember playing Barbies until I was quite old! Also, I clearly see myself waiting patiently by my radio for my favorite song to come on, then pressing record and play on my Panasonic cassette recorder that was right next to the speaker. I would hold my breath, hoping no one would make any noise in the background that might ruin my recording. When I got a stereo, my friends and I would put on headphones, sing (without being able to hear yourself--it was so loud), and record what we thought was a beautiful rendition of the song. Then we'd laugh so hard because it sounded soooooo bad!
Oh. My. God. I had a little gold panasonic that I would do that with too! And barefoot. And barbies! I mentioned somewhere else that my friends and I would bring all our Barbie paraphernalia to each other's houses and set up a whole Desperate Housewife neighborhood.

And I remember when it was cool to be a Brownie and then a girl Scout. I was so into this, I was ready to be a cadet, but moved to a state that didn't have the organizations!
 

mstay

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This was my childhood, exactly. Everything you wrote is precisely how I spent my days...especially being out in the woods and riding bikes. Plus, in the summer, we went barefoot everywhere. I remember playing Barbies until I was quite old! Also, I clearly see myself waiting patiently by my radio for my favorite song to come on, then pressing record and play on my Panasonic cassette recorder that was right next to the speaker. I would hold my breath, hoping no one would make any noise in the background that might ruin my recording. When I got a stereo, my friends and I would put on headphones, sing (without being able to hear yourself--it was so loud), and record what we thought was a beautiful rendition of the song. Then we'd laugh so hard because it sounded soooooo bad!

I remember recording songs off the radio like that too! You would aim for that perfect spot between when the DJ's would stop talking and the singing would start. :biggrin2:
 

Dana Jean

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I remember recording songs off the radio like that too! You would aim for that perfect spot between when the DJ's would stop talking and the singing would start. :biggrin2:
And back then, it was like they had some disc jockey code that if they played a song once, they weren't allowed to play it for hours! I would wait and wait and wait for my favorite songs.
 

mstay

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Oh. My. God. I had a little gold panasonic that I would do that with too! And barefoot. And barbies! I mentioned somewhere else that my friends and I would bring all our Barbie paraphernalia to each other's houses and set up a whole Desperate Housewife neighborhood.

And I remember when it was cool to be a Brownie and then a girl Scout. I was so into this, I was ready to be a cadet, but moved to a state that didn't have the organizations!

We would do this with Barbies too. My friend had a big green shaggy rug in her living room and it would become our Barbie mansion. I had a Barbie cleaning set that had a vacuum, a broom, a mob and some other cleaning stuff. My friend and I still talk about the time I asked her to "throw me the vacuum!" And we laugh and laugh...even though it was 30+ years ago.
 

Dana Jean

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We would do this with Barbies too. My friend had a big green shaggy rug in her living room and it would become our Barbie mansion. I had a Barbie cleaning set that had a vacuum, a broom, a mob and some other cleaning stuff. My friend and I still talk about the time I asked her to "throw me the vacuum!" And we laugh and laugh...even though it was 30+ years ago.
hahahha! My friend and I were doing our own melodrama where Skipper was jumping on the bed and fell off and broke the TV set. Ken came into the room and told her, "No big deal." My mom was in the kitchen listening to us play that day and I heard this really loud laugh when I had Ken say that.
 

mstay

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Ooo! Me, too! Me, too!

Did you ever get to watch, "Yes, Virginia, there is a Santa Claus" ? That was so cool. (They don't show the original one any more. :()

When our kids were growing up and started asking about whether Santa was real we would read them the article.

Yes, Virginia ... - The New York Sun

Thank you!

Peace.

I do remember watching that one. I'm pretty sure we have it on DVD somewhere too. I'll have to watch it for sure this year.
 

Dana Jean

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hahahha! My friend and I were doing our own melodrama where Skipper was jumping on the bed and fell off and broke the TV set. Ken came into the room and told her, "No big deal." My mom was in the kitchen listening to us play that day and I heard this really loud laugh when I had Ken say that.
And just as an added , "the rest of the story," this little girl, (who was a couple years older than me at the time) I just recently discovered, died on Christmas night. Her son was driving and turned in front of a car. I was googling her as I had lost touch and pulled up her obituary and the article on the wreck and her picture. She looked just the same as that little girl I played with. Broke my heart.
 

Chelle71

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I love this thread!
As a kid we lived in Papua New Guinea for 3 years, I was 9 when we left (best time of my life living there). Dad had to stay behind for work for 6 months after we got back to Australia. He wrote me about 30 letters during that time.
I kept every letter and last year I re read them...wow talk about flooded with memories! When I finished I wrote him a letter to thank him, I had forgotten so much of PNG and that brought it all back...
As much as he drives me crazy in his old age, I can never thank him enough for those letters:D
 

blunthead

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I love this thread!
As a kid we lived in Papua New Guinea for 3 years, I was 9 when we left (best time of my life living there). Dad had to stay behind for work for 6 months after we got back to Australia. He wrote me about 30 letters during that time.
I kept every letter and last year I re read them...wow talk about flooded with memories! When I finished I wrote him a letter to thank him, I had forgotten so much of PNG and that brought it all back...
As much as he drives me crazy in his old age, I can never thank him enough for those letters:D
Good for you, Chelle. What means "PNG"?
 

fushingfeef

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Believing in the Tooth Fairy, the Easter Bunny, and Santa Claus.

When everything seemed possible.

Peace.
I remember one night as a child staring and staring out the window into the darkness on Christmas Eve, just hoping to catch a glimpse of Santa on his sleigh...I wanted to see him so badly. Ironically I didn't notice my own reflection in the glass, and now as a parent I get to play Santa!
 

blunthead

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One of my favorite memories, which coincidentally happens to be a Christmas-time one, is when, after I'd since moved away, I would return on vacation to visit my parents', who still lived in the house in which I'd grown up. In it's reserved location there'd always be the family-perfectly trimmed Christmas tree at the living room's picture window; the room itself lit only by the tree's lights, and I'd sit on the couch across from the tree. Handel's Messiah would be playing due to the family tradition to listen to it at least once at Christmas, while I would drink red wine from Dad's (cheap) collection.