My Big Secret..

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Out of Order

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Great advice has been given and I certainly wish you both all the best. Happiness is what's most important.

I haven't seen anyone suggest that perhaps a period of living together might be in order before the re-exchange of vows? To be certain? Not sure how you feel about that, but I thought I'd mention it.

Best of luck in whatever you both decide on.
 

pegasus216

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I had to go get blood tests done first thing this morning. I got a call from him, like I do every morning, and he told me to look on the sun porch when I got home. He wouldn't tell me what that was all about!
So when I got home, there were 12 red roses waiting for me! The card said it was for the 'ouchy' I had got! That was the sweetest thing ever!

OoO, I have thought of just living together for awhile. I'm not giving him any kind of answer until next month. He has been very understanding about my wants, and needs, so we shall see how it goes.
 

Out of Order

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I had to go get blood tests done first thing this morning. I got a call from him, like I do every morning, and he told me to look on the sun porch when I got home. He wouldn't tell me what that was all about!
So when I got home, there were 12 red roses waiting for me! The card said it was for the 'ouchy' I had got! That was the sweetest thing ever!

OoO, I have thought of just living together for awhile. I'm not giving him any kind of answer until next month. He has been very understanding about my wants, and needs, so we shall see how it goes.

I think you are very wise for giving it some time.:D

And don't forget to put your beautiful flowers in some water.......;)
 

pegasus216

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They are in a vase on the dining room table. I think he is really trying to make up for what happened in our marriage.
I know I enjoy having him call, and just hanging out together . This weekend, he has asked me to go to his place, so he can cook me a dinner! He is an excellent cook, so of course I said yes!
 

HollyGolightly

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Peg -I've heard you mention him and how your heart was broken without him. I didn't realize you'd only been divorced for 2 years. I'm with OoO - I was going to suggest shacking up for a while, see how it goes. See if you can live together again. No need to rush into marriage -you're both consenting adults. In my opinion, in agreement with a few others - there are some deal breakers: adultery, abuse and addiction. Those are hard to live with and hard to get over.

Having said all that - my heart absolutely soared for you when I read your news. It's really precious and I know you're crazy in love with him, so he couldn't have been all that bad. Best wishes to you both!

True Love
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pegasus216

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He is in the process of getting a really big tattoo done on his back, and one on his arm. It won't be finished until late spring.

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This is a Samurai sitting in a tree.


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This dragon will be his 3rd. He has smaller one on his other shoulder, and one on his outside left thigh. He loves dragons!
 

GNTLGNT

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He is in the process of getting a really big tattoo done on his back, and one on his arm. It won't be finished until late spring.

back_2.jpg


This is a Samurai sitting in a tree.


arm_1.jpg
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This dragon will be his 3rd. He has smaller one on his other shoulder, and one on his outside left thigh. He loves dragons!
....look at this woudja!!!...a few days back together and she's already taking nudies......