God Bomb--a Place For Prayers/positive Vibes

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Neesy

#1 fan (Annie Wilkes cousin) 1st cousin Mom's side
May 24, 2012
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239,271
Winnipeg, Manitoba, Canada
Everyone here seems to have such big and serious problems. But I have to ask. My son is going for surgery on Friday to create a controlled fistula. He was supposed to have it last month but it got cancelled at the last minute due to a shortage of beds. It's starting to look bigger and a bit scary. It's supposed to be a small procedure, but surgery is surgery and we are both worried about it. So, if you have a little time perhaps you toss in a couple extra prayers. Thanks.
Prayers that all goes well with his surgery :angel:
 

Becks19

Well-Known Member
Sep 28, 2009
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16,763
From the good ol Midwest
Don't want to be intrusive, but how are you and the girls, other family and friends doing?
It feels like a waking nightmare. It only felt final when I saw him. Now, I can only take it one day at a time and try to be strong for my girls. My family has been incredible, I could not have gotten through the past week if not for my own Mother. Sending my prayers to all Tet-Mates and their families who are in need. ( p.s. you could never be intrusive)
 

Spideyman

Uber Member
Jul 10, 2006
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Just north of Duma Key
It feels like a waking nightmare. It only felt final when I saw him. Now, I can only take it one day at a time and try to be strong for my girls. My family has been incredible, I could not have gotten through the past week if not for my own Mother. Sending my prayers to all Tet-Mates and their families who are in need.
Sending love and comfort. Thankful your mom has been there for you. Feel our love.
 

Moderator

Ms. Mod
Administrator
Jul 10, 2006
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157,324
Maine
It feels like a waking nightmare. It only felt final when I saw him. Now, I can only take it one day at a time and try to be strong for my girls. My family has been incredible, I could not have gotten through the past week if not for my own Mother. Sending my prayers to all Tet-Mates and their families who are in need. ( p.s. you could never be intrusive)
May it get easier for (((you and your girls))) as time has a chance to heal. I'm so glad to hear you have someone there for you who can support you while you do. :love:
 

Dana Jean

Dirty Pirate Hooker, The Return
Moderator
Apr 11, 2006
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236,697
The High Seas
It feels like a waking nightmare. It only felt final when I saw him. Now, I can only take it one day at a time and try to be strong for my girls. My family has been incredible, I could not have gotten through the past week if not for my own Mother. Sending my prayers to all Tet-Mates and their families who are in need. ( p.s. you could never be intrusive)
I am so sorry you are having to go through this. There will be a lot of difficult days ahead, but for your girls, you will lead by example, good job.
 

do1you9love?

Happy to be here!
Feb 18, 2012
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70,566
Virginia
It feels like a waking nightmare. It only felt final when I saw him. Now, I can only take it one day at a time and try to be strong for my girls. My family has been incredible, I could not have gotten through the past week if not for my own Mother. Sending my prayers to all Tet-Mates and their families who are in need. ( p.s. you could never be intrusive)
Continued prayers! You will be strong for your girls, but there will be times you need to just let it out. So glad your mom has been there for you. One day at a time is right!! (((Becks and girls)))
 

Ebdim9th

Dressing the Gothic interval in tritones
Jul 1, 2009
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22,104
Ok, everyone, I appreciate your concerns, and thoughts, but I have made my decision, and that is that.
When my doctor called the day before Thanksgiving with this news, I told her straight off 'no'. I am not depressed, or sad or anything to jump to that decision. It is MY choice.
Please respect that.
Karen said that she would have done the same thing.
She is being very strong, and finding out things she needs to do to make this go smoothly.
I have told her I don't want to be resuscitated, and she is going to get that order from my doctor. I also do not want life support, that is a total waste of time, and effort.
My husband will move back to the town he lived in before.
We have it all taken care of, and I am at peace with their decisions. A lot of it is my final wishes.

My hopes and prayers go with you that the all best possible ways could open for you, even stepping into what you might have spent your whole life getting ready for .... I know I was drawn to Stephen's work because he's always outright suggested more past this life, and other worlds than this, as an idea, not just a story, so find, pursue, and be at Peace Pegasus Mary .... I have no idea which way is truly the right way for you, I can only hope in good Faith that you find it ....
 

Out of Order

Sign of the Times
Feb 9, 2011
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New Hampster
It feels like a waking nightmare. It only felt final when I saw him. Now, I can only take it one day at a time and try to be strong for my girls. My family has been incredible, I could not have gotten through the past week if not for my own Mother. Sending my prayers to all Tet-Mates and their families who are in need. ( p.s. you could never be intrusive)

Breaking my heart, but you are strong!! Bless your Mother for being there for you and everyone. All the best as always.......
 

FlakeNoir

Original Kiwi© SKMB®
Moderator
Apr 11, 2006
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175,641
New Zealand
It feels like a waking nightmare. It only felt final when I saw him. Now, I can only take it one day at a time and try to be strong for my girls. My family has been incredible, I could not have gotten through the past week if not for my own Mother. Sending my prayers to all Tet-Mates and their families who are in need. ( p.s. you could never be intrusive)
I'm so sorry for you and the girls, you can never prepare for something like this and I'm just so sad that you're going through it. I'm wishing for strength for you, (((Becks))) and sending lots of love.