INSOMNIAC CLUB A.K.A Day of the Night Owls

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Ashcrash

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Mr. Cranky as far as working with a bunch of male co workers. It does not mean they automatically try to get in your pants. if any tried they would fail because I do not date co workers. It is just bad business because to completely honest with you and as I explained to my boyfriend. This job is more important to me then any person (non family). This job is a perfect fit for me and I know if I do right I will have this job for years. People on the other hand come and go.
 

Ashcrash

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I'm not sexist. I'm just wondering. These days it doesn't matter if you're male or female in a typically gender stereotypical job, as long as you do your job well, that's all that matters. I wouldn't want to get on your bad side though, I think you have a nasty streak.

As with most people that are extra nice and extra funny and extra happy go lucky there is always a nasty side. I am a very horrendously loyal person when it comes to a job I love or people I love. I unlike a lot of the people I encounter I have a great understanding of human flaws. I am able to get a long with people other people find annoying or to be jerks because I tend to ignore the bad traits and get to know the person. I do not listen to peoples opinions of other people and let that affect my opinion. If I did every teacher I had would have been a stupid jerk. Every boss I had would have been SUPER STRICT AND MEAN or IGNORANT! For someone to get on my "Nasty List" they have to wrong me or my family personally. And it cant just be some little insult or argument it has to be something that I find to be crossing a line. And then you better watch out. At the same note I am very compassionate and always feel empathy towards people and there situations which will cause me to think why is this person acting the way they are instead of jumping to "oh heck no you didn't. if I see someone crying ESPECIALLY a guy I will instantly stop whatever the heck it is I am doing and move mountains to make them feel better. SO in conclusion do I have a nasty streak OH heck yeah I do but it takes a heck of a lot to draw it out of me.
 

Ashcrash

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OH and also I have three older brother and grew up loving toy cars and trucks and football. I never had an interest in anything girl what so ever. I played high school football. I have lived a life with guys. There are girls at my work that get crushes on the bosses and co workers and giggle like elementary school but for some reason I just have this filter. Like with my guy friends in football girls would always say "eeeeeew you are so lucky to be in the huddle with so and so" I just didnt feel that or see it they were like brothers to me. I have recently discovered that ALL these girls at my work are sweet on a certain boss and I thought WTF! literally just could not see it. Because my brain just shuts down on certain guys no matter how good looking they are I really just dont notice. Then when people point it out I will try to see what they are seeing and I can say sure they are good looking but I don't feel that crush feeling or goo goo ga ga feeling.
I go to work to do work and work harder then anyone else male or female. When guys hit on me am I flattered Sure. But that's it, no games no flirting no leading on, no go. I will shut down that little crusade as nicely as possible. I feel sorry for people that do get crushes at work. Date break up and then have to keep working together or have to quit. I feel real sorry for the bumbling girls that drool over bosses and cant make eye contact because they are so sweet on them. But that just aint me. I love two of my bosses to death but there is just no attraction there what so ever. I am not a normal girl/woman. never have been never will be.