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Doc Creed

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Am I the only one who is bombarded with old memories throughout the day? It's been said that a person whose conversations are dominated by the past is over the hill. I hope not. I like hearing about how people grew up and even tidbits in recent memory. Share them here, please. It can be about anything...well, no politics. :)

Here's one I had this morning:

My grandparents’ brick house was built in the ‘60s and it had a basement, half of which housed an Oldsmobile and pickup truck. It was cold and dark and wet year round and smelled of weedkiller, sawdust and fabric softener, cast iron elbows of plumbing low enough to touch. From one window stretched the gentle curve of the earth, the milky glass ticking with long grass. It was above this window where a bedroom window allowed for a loftier view: a moss-covered hill bursting with roots that unraveled like a rumpled carpet to a gravel driveway, perpetual shadows from hickory trees whose wooden nuts littered the dirt floor, and a rusty washing machine tub from which sprang fake tulips. I liked to lean toward the screen and breathe in the rain and black walnut trees as soft fingers tapped the roof and bowery of leaves.
It was in this bedroom, on a bed where my own father once slept, where my grandmother rubbed Vicks VapoRub on my bony chest and brought me Coca-Cola over crushed ice. The blue medicine bottle had a green metal lid like a tiny fruit jar, the red print two decades old. She’d shut off the light and in a menthol cloud I’d steal long wintry breaths until, dizzy from a revolving door of thoughts, I was overtaken by sleep.


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GNTLGNT

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...I can't beat that for sheer artistry, but to answer your question-yeah, I do find myself looking back-quite a bit these days....to the foolish young man that I was and the adult that I have become.....so many things bound forward to beg for my attention...."what if you had done this ?", "why did you do that?".....tons of regrets that pile up in the dustbin of my consciousness.....I am not happy with who I am, never have been-and coming to peace with this dilemma makes me yearn for acceptance of what I cannot undo.....once in a while, my inevitable meeting with the Reaper takes over my thoughts and I must admit-the eternal darkness feels likes a welcoming respite of forever.....not looking for pity or uplifting thoughts, just putting out there, that at times-the mask of good cheer slips and a darker face peers out......
 

mal

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I was just thinking the other day about how, when I was a lad, the tire track filled with water in my alley, had green scum all over it. As kids we were told not to touch it or you would get very itchy. I was thinking about how I never see that anymore. Upon further consideration, I remembered that the "Honey-man" still cleaned out some folks' outhouses and he would come down our alley from time to time. It now makes sense to me that there was probably fecal matter on the ground that would start churning away when it was very hot after a rain. I think this is different from pond scum.
 

Doc Creed

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...I can't beat that for sheer artistry, but to answer your question-yeah, I do find myself looking back-quite a bit these days....to the foolish young man that I was and the adult that I have become.....so many things bound forward to beg for my attention...."what if you had done this ?", "why did you do that?".....tons of regrets that pile up in the dustbin of my consciousness.....I am not happy with who I am, never have been-and coming to peace with this dilemma makes me yearn for acceptance of what I cannot undo.....once in a while, my inevitable meeting with the Reaper takes over my thoughts and I must admit-the eternal darkness feels likes a welcoming respite of forever.....not looking for pity or uplifting thoughts, just putting out there, that at times-the mask of good cheer slips and a darker face peers out......
Man, I certainly empathize. We have probably traveled two drastically different roads but what you are experiencing is an affliction that haunts us all. Regret is my middle name. If I order a chicken fried steak at a restaurant, I immediately wonder if I should have ordered the pork chop, LOL. Not to demean or trivialize your comment, but I really do think many of us here have likely struggled with what-ifs. My personal beliefs (which often sustain my troubled mind) is to ask God's forgiveness and accept his mercy that He delights to give. I hate to imagine anyone suffering under a heavy load of guilt and dread. I care about all you guys. I know you weren't seeking uplifting thoughts but I offer my prayers. We are all in it together.
 

Dana Jean

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Am I the only one who is bombarded with old memories throughout the day? It's been said that a person whose conversations are dominated by the past is over the hill. I hope not. I like hearing about how people grew up and even tidbits in recent memory. Share them here, please. It can be about anything...well, no politics. :)

Here's one I had this morning:

My grandparents’ brick house was built in the ‘60s and it had a basement, half of which housed an Oldsmobile and pickup truck. It was cold and dark and wet year round and smelled of weedkiller, sawdust and fabric softener, cast iron elbows of plumbing low enough to touch. From one window stretched the gentle curve of the earth, the milky glass ticking with long grass. It was above this window where a bedroom window allowed for a loftier view: a moss-covered hill bursting with roots that unraveled like a rumpled carpet to a gravel driveway, perpetual shadows from hickory trees whose wooden nuts littered the dirt floor, and a rusty washing machine tub from which sprang fake tulips. I liked to lean toward the screen and breathe in the rain and black walnut trees as soft fingers tapped the roof and bowery of leaves.
It was in this bedroom, on a bed where my own father once slept, where my grandmother rubbed Vicks VapoRub on my bony chest and brought me Coca-Cola over crushed ice. The blue medicine bottle had a green metal lid like a tiny fruit jar, the red print two decades old. She’d shut off the light and in a menthol cloud I’d steal long wintry breaths until, dizzy from a revolving door of thoughts, I was overtaken by sleep.


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GNTLGNT

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Man, I certainly empathize. We have probably traveled two drastically different roads but what you are experiencing is an affliction that haunts us all. Regret is my middle name. If I order a chicken fried steak at a restaurant, I immediately wonder if I should have ordered the pork chop, LOL. Not to demean or trivialize your comment, but I really do think many of us here have likely struggled with what-ifs. My personal beliefs (which often sustain my troubled mind) is to ask God's forgiveness and accept his mercy that He delights to give. I hate to imagine anyone suffering under a heavy load of guilt and dread. I care about all you guys. I know you weren't seeking uplifting thoughts but I offer my prayers. We are all in it together.
...thank you man, this is just one of those bad days when the monkey won't go back in it's cage.....
 

Doc Creed

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I was just thinking the other day about how, when I was a lad, the tire track filled with water in my alley, had green scum all over it. As kids we were told not to touch it or you would get very itchy. I was thinking about how I never see that anymore. Upon further consideration, I remembered that the "Honey-man" still cleaned out some folks' outhouses and he would come down our alley from time to time. It now makes sense to me that there was probably fecal matter on the ground that would start churning away when it was very hot after a rain. I think this is different from pond scum.
Mal, this is so interesting. Gross, but interesting. :glee:
 

Doc Creed

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Have you tried submitting stories?
Funny you should ask. Someone else made a comment that some of my Facebook posts read like prose and I guess I didn't realize it. I have completed two short stories (one of which a few members here have read) and I'm working on three more. I'm working on sending one to some regional literary magazines. My greatest desire is to write, not to be published, necessarily.
 

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Some Facebook friend said the other day, "Post something memorable your grandfather told you."

I replied, "Gin." Because we played cards many, many times, and I can't remember beating him once.

But then I started thinking, gosh, what was something memorable he said? Can't think of a blessed one. He was a strong, quiet guy. I never remember him raising his voice or seeing him angry or upset. And other than just truncated casual conversation or the clever little one-liner quip, I don't really remember him talking.

Does thinking about the absence of something memorable count as a random memory?
 

Dana Jean

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Are bookmobiles still in operation?

I remember as a kid being so excited for the bookmobile to come to our neighborhood school during the summer months. The main library was far away and I needed mom to drive me there. But the bookmobile! I could go every Saturday and get new books because I lived within walking distance.

I can remember those doors making that shush noise and stepping onto the air conditioned bus and looking at all those stories! At that moment in time, there was nothing better.
 

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Not exactly what you started this thread for, but this kinda fits. Hope it’s OK to share here.

Yesterday my son and the lead singer of his band were here and as they were leaving they were talking about needing a container for the drummer to keep his sticks in. I don’t remember what they first mentioned, but my husband suggested a Pringles can. They thought it wasn’t a bad idea. And I said....hold my beer!

I went upstairs and came down with a black tube. It originally held a bottle of Black Velvet whiskey. They laughed and thought it was a GREAT idea. Took the tube and left.

At that moment I had second thoughts. As weird as this may sound, it’s one of the last things I have from my mom. When she died my dad told my sister and I to go through her craft stuff and divide it between us. One of the things I took was that tube which was full of knitting needles and for the last 30 years it is what I keep my knitting needles in. So, I wondered if offering it was the right thing to do....

And then....I swear.....

I heard her laugh. And I knew she would love being a part of his band like that. She was very proud of my musician brother and l know she would love having a musician grandson.

It put me back in the basement with my sister, going through the craft cupboard. Laughing and crying and deciding who got what. Not one single argument. Most things as soon as one of us said we wanted it, the other said OK. A few things we discussed and always ended with both of us happy with the end result.
 

Doc Creed

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Not exactly what you started this thread for, but this kinda fits. Hope it’s OK to share here.

Yesterday my son and the lead singer of his band were here and as they were leaving they were talking about needing a container for the drummer to keep his sticks in. I don’t remember what they first mentioned, but my husband suggested a Pringles can. They thought it wasn’t a bad idea. And I said....hold my beer!

I went upstairs and came down with a black tube. It originally held a bottle of Black Velvet whiskey. They laughed and thought it was a GREAT idea. Took the tube and left.

At that moment I had second thoughts. As weird as this may sound, it’s one of the last things I have from my mom. When she died my dad told my sister and I to go through her craft stuff and divide it between us. One of the things I took was that tube which was full of knitting needles and for the last 30 years it is what I keep my knitting needles in. So, I wondered if offering it was the right thing to do....

And then....I swear.....

I heard her laugh. And I knew she would love being a part of his band like that. She was very proud of my musician brother and l know she would love having a musician grandson.

It put me back in the basement with my sister, going through the craft cupboard. Laughing and crying and deciding who got what. Not one single argument. Most things as soon as one of us said we wanted it, the other said OK. A few things we discussed and always ended with both of us happy with the end result.
This is exactly why I created this thread, thank you. We keep memories alive by sharing them. There's a quote from a book I'm reading that has a character wondering if her existence, or at least her reality, is only validated when she is in the presence of other people. This thread is loosely based on that idea. When we share personal memories, no matter how trivial they may seem, we validate ourselves and others because others see themselves in us. Now, how's that for reflection. Ha.
 

Dana Jean

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This is exactly why I created this thread, thank you. We keep memories alive by sharing them. There's a quote from a book I'm reading that has a character wondering if her existence, or at least her reality, is only validated when she is in the presence of other people. This thread is loosely based on that idea. When we share personal memories, no matter how trivial they may seem, we validate ourselves and others because others see themselves in us. Now, how's that for reflection. Ha.
Sort of like if a tree falls in the forest and no one is around to hear it, does it make a sound?
 

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Am I the only one who is bombarded with old memories throughout the day? It's been said that a person whose conversations are dominated by the past is over the hill. I hope not. I like hearing about how people grew up and even tidbits in recent memory. Share them here, please. It can be about anything...well, no politics. :)

Here's one I had this morning:

My grandparents’ brick house was built in the ‘60s and it had a basement, half of which housed an Oldsmobile and pickup truck. It was cold and dark and wet year round and smelled of weedkiller, sawdust and fabric softener, cast iron elbows of plumbing low enough to touch. From one window stretched the gentle curve of the earth, the milky glass ticking with long grass. It was above this window where a bedroom window allowed for a loftier view: a moss-covered hill bursting with roots that unraveled like a rumpled carpet to a gravel driveway, perpetual shadows from hickory trees whose wooden nuts littered the dirt floor, and a rusty washing machine tub from which sprang fake tulips. I liked to lean toward the screen and breathe in the rain and black walnut trees as soft fingers tapped the roof and bowery of leaves.
It was in this bedroom, on a bed where my own father once slept, where my grandmother rubbed Vicks VapoRub on my bony chest and brought me Coca-Cola over crushed ice. The blue medicine bottle had a green metal lid like a tiny fruit jar, the red print two decades old. She’d shut off the light and in a menthol cloud I’d steal long wintry breaths until, dizzy from a revolving door of thoughts, I was overtaken by sleep.


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