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MadamMack

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Kingunlucky

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So, I got this crush.

I was wondering if maybe anyone could maybe a good way to get her number? We work at the same place, but different sections. I'm in the back of the store and she's in the front. Not sure how she feels about me. We haven't talked EXTREMELY a lot. I usually get a smile from her when we talk but she's a smiley type. I know dating or going for someone who I work in the store as might be dumb, but I like the cut of her jib. I'd like to know more about her.

So, yeah.

I know most of the time its good to be confident. I can do that. I gotta build it up first, though as I'm not naturally very smooth in that way. What are the best options? Just ask directly, slip her my number in a sort of smooth but not pressure way...or something else? I can only manage to see her either on a break by chance, when I go up front to buy something (which means I'm sort of rushed) or when she's walking around in my section of the store.

Any suggestions?

Sorry if sounded creepy. Trust me, if she's not at all interested in that matter or already has a boyfriend - that's it. I can totally respect that and never wanna be one of them idiots who can't take a NO. Plenty of other fish in the sea.

BUT for now she's the one I'm thinking about.
 

Hill lover35

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So, I got this crush.

I was wondering if maybe anyone could maybe a good way to get her number? We work at the same place, but different sections. I'm in the back of the store and she's in the front. Not sure how she feels about me. We haven't talked EXTREMELY a lot. I usually get a smile from her when we talk but she's a smiley type. I know dating or going for someone who I work in the store as might be dumb, but I like the cut of her jib. I'd like to know more about her.

So, yeah.

I know most of the time its good to be confident. I can do that. I gotta build it up first, though as I'm not naturally very smooth in that way. What are the best options? Just ask directly, slip her my number in a sort of smooth but not pressure way...or something else? I can only manage to see her either on a break by chance, when I go up front to buy something (which means I'm sort of rushed) or when she's walking around in my section of the store.

Any suggestions?

Sorry if sounded creepy. Trust me, if she's not at all interested in that matter or already has a boyfriend - that's it. I can totally respect that and never wanna be one of them idiots who can't take a NO. Plenty of other fish in the sea.

BUT for now she's the one I'm thinking about.


Gee this sounds like me and joe hill. Lol. No try to talk to her more, can you ask a co-worker for more info or to find out when her lunch time is?
 

Hill lover35

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So, I got this crush.

I was wondering if maybe anyone could maybe a good way to get her number? We work at the same place, but different sections. I'm in the back of the store and she's in the front. Not sure how she feels about me. We haven't talked EXTREMELY a lot. I usually get a smile from her when we talk but she's a smiley type. I know dating or going for someone who I work in the store as might be dumb, but I like the cut of her jib. I'd like to know more about her.

So, yeah.

I know most of the time its good to be confident. I can do that. I gotta build it up first, though as I'm not naturally very smooth in that way. What are the best options? Just ask directly, slip her my number in a sort of smooth but not pressure way...or something else? I can only manage to see her either on a break by chance, when I go up front to buy something (which means I'm sort of rushed) or when she's walking around in my section of the store.

Any suggestions?

Sorry if sounded creepy. Trust me, if she's not at all interested in that matter or already has a boyfriend - that's it. I can totally respect that and never wanna be one of them idiots who can't take a NO. Plenty of other fish in the sea.

BUT for now she's the one I'm thinking about.


Find out what her schedule is and go in on your own time like after work or your day off, when you have more time, amd talk to her a bit more

Try and friend her on Facebook
 

FlakeNoir

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So, I got this crush.

I was wondering if maybe anyone could maybe a good way to get her number? We work at the same place, but different sections. I'm in the back of the store and she's in the front. Not sure how she feels about me. We haven't talked EXTREMELY a lot. I usually get a smile from her when we talk but she's a smiley type. I know dating or going for someone who I work in the store as might be dumb, but I like the cut of her jib. I'd like to know more about her.

So, yeah.

I know most of the time its good to be confident. I can do that. I gotta build it up first, though as I'm not naturally very smooth in that way. What are the best options? Just ask directly, slip her my number in a sort of smooth but not pressure way...or something else? I can only manage to see her either on a break by chance, when I go up front to buy something (which means I'm sort of rushed) or when she's walking around in my section of the store.

Any suggestions?

Sorry if sounded creepy. Trust me, if she's not at all interested in that matter or already has a boyfriend - that's it. I can totally respect that and never wanna be one of them idiots who can't take a NO. Plenty of other fish in the sea.

BUT for now she's the one I'm thinking about.
I really don't know how to date, I've never actually done it in the way folks in America seem to do. I just kind of stumbled into every relationship I've had.
Hmm... is she a down to earth kind of girl? I think I would appreciate a guy that used a bit of humour, but was clear about what he wanted. Find one thing you have in common and build on it, be confident enough to actually ask her out... something simple like a cup of coffee on the way home from work, maybe?

I dunno sorry... others with more experience also need to jump in here. :biggrin2:
 

HollyGolightly

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So, I got this crush.

I was wondering if maybe anyone could maybe a good way to get her number? We work at the same place, but different sections. I'm in the back of the store and she's in the front. Not sure how she feels about me. We haven't talked EXTREMELY a lot. I usually get a smile from her when we talk but she's a smiley type. I know dating or going for someone who I work in the store as might be dumb, but I like the cut of her jib. I'd like to know more about her.

So, yeah.

I know most of the time its good to be confident. I can do that. I gotta build it up first, though as I'm not naturally very smooth in that way. What are the best options? Just ask directly, slip her my number in a sort of smooth but not pressure way...or something else? I can only manage to see her either on a break by chance, when I go up front to buy something (which means I'm sort of rushed) or when she's walking around in my section of the store.

Any suggestions?

Sorry if sounded creepy. Trust me, if she's not at all interested in that matter or already has a boyfriend - that's it. I can totally respect that and never wanna be one of them idiots who can't take a NO. Plenty of other fish in the sea.

BUT for now she's the one I'm thinking about.
How exciting! New romance on the horizon - possibly.

I would ask her to lunch. That's how my husband and I got started. He had a 2 for 1 meal at a local Mexican restaurant and invited me to split the cost of the 1 meal - we were 21 and broke. After that we went to lunch and shared the cost often. Is your work place social? There was a bunch of us who would go out to eat and drink together every Friday night, so we would see each other in a group and it didn't feel like we were putting the moves on each other (but we kind of were). But if you start it as a friendship, then it won't be difficult to move forward, or stay put if the situation warrants. Good luck to you!
 

rockerchick

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This is actually more of a confession. I have forgotten how to love and be empathetic. Years of abuse and neglect and just being single for too long. Sorry.
 
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