And I totally understand and respect that. Nobody has walked one step in your mom's shoes but your mom. So all the "I would've's," "she should've's" mean jack squat.When my Mom and dad divorced, dad was supposed to pay something like a hundred dollars a month in child support. He never paid a dime. I told her to have him thrown in jail....they do that in NC and the bail includes the back support owed. Mom wouldn't do it because she said it would only hurt my brother to see his dad laying in jail.
In the case I mentioned above, they would've loved to have seen this guy in jail.