When people come to you with gossip...Do you ask...

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DiO'Bolic

Not completely obtuse
Nov 14, 2013
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I heard that Sunny
likes to braid daisies in her hair and then take moonlit boat rides on the viaduct....
It's true... I have pictures.

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Or was it this one...

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Sundrop

Sunny the Great & Wonderful
Jun 12, 2008
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Any side effects I should know about? Are things going to start growing on me? Are trumpet vines going to replace my ear and nose hair or something worse?
I'm not sure.....I have only tested it on plants. They grow especially tall, green, and leafy.....and when they bloom, the flower blossoms are vibrant and huge!!
You haven't noticed any new sprouts, have you?
 

Out of Order

Sign of the Times
Feb 9, 2011
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I'm not sure.....I have only tested it on plants. They grow especially tall, green, and leafy.....and when they bloom, the flower blossoms are vibrant and huge!!
You haven't noticed any new sprouts, have you?

Well, my No No has been working overtime lately and I had an urge to climb the trellis yesterday. Most troubling is the bees I keep finding in my pants. They don't sting they just look hopeful......

If people start calling you Jordy or Mr. Verrill, you might want to see someone about that. ;)

Oh Lord........I haven't seen any meteorites since the Perseid's.......
 

AnnaMarie

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They proceed to tell me all the dish and I listen. Intently. When they finish talking (doesn't matter what they said) I ask, "And what did YOU say?"

Just wondering.

What I said wasn't to the gossiper. there was a group of us in the school yard and this one person (and I use that term loosely) was telling them all that this other woman always wore sun glasses to cover the bruises because her husband beats her.

The sunglasses wearing woman had previously been a very close friend of mine, but she had kind of cooled towards me. She wasn't rude exactly....just avoided me. I had no idea why.

Anyway, I made a point of waiting for her to walk to school to pick up our kids. I told her what the other woman had said. And I told her if she wanted to charge her with defamation of character...I'm in. (I guess it would actually be the woman's husband...but anyway....)

So we get to the school yard and the gossipy crowd are all standing around and the woman I'm with walks right into the middle of them. Turns, looking at each person, making sure they are looking at her. Takes off her sun glasses and again turns, looking at each individual, and ends staring eye-to-eye with the one who had said it. Then without saying a word walked away.

Then we talked....and talked. It turned out the lieing gossiper had told her I had been saying nasty stuff about her daughter. Her daughter was pre-school and didn't speak clearly. One day I had been in a rush and didn't have time to walk slowly with my friend and her daughter. The other woman told her I was "always" complaining about how her daughter talks.

We instantly became best friends again. And I mean instantly. I totally understood why she had believed the gossiper. She was a very convincing liar.
 

Sundrop

Sunny the Great & Wonderful
Jun 12, 2008
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Well, my No No has been working overtime lately and I had an urge to climb the trellis yesterday. Most troubling is the bees I keep finding in my pants. They don't sting they just look hopeful......

If the humming birds show up, you might have a problem.....



Oh Lord........I haven't seen any meteorites since the Perseid's.......

Brace yourself......you may be in for a show!!!!!
 

Alexandra M

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Good hump evening! (Yay! The weekend is in sight.)

I'm one-hundred-seventy-nine (179) years old (ha) and it never ceases to amaze me ...

When a family member, co-worker etc, sidles up to me and says "Do you know what so-and-so said about you? "

They proceed to tell me all the dish and I listen. Intently. When they finish talking (doesn't matter what they said) I ask, "And what did YOU say?"

Just wondering.

Never was a fan of gossip.Won't even listen to it. My favourite line? "Tell someone that cares" and then I walk away. Must sound rude and I
guess it is but just don't have time for crap. IF it is about me; the same response. If the person cannot say it to my face, it and they lose
credibility with me.