Try to relax and just enjoy things as they happen, dear. Everything is still so new for you in your relationship that I think you're feeling a little insecure maybe? Don't be. So far, it sounds like a fairly normal progression of things.
Why I am still so afraid.......
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Looks like Jake after a four-day bender. LOLA Doom Crow
I have never heard this expression before
All was already said. Keep believing in yourself and enjoy every day you are together! (((Johanna)))
...nerves are good, it means you really do care-just don't let them rule you-go with each moment, and enjoy him for what and who he is...keep it light and loving, you're doing great...those butterflies and worries?...all part of a real relationship....one other thing, the smoking?...make him aware of the fact that you worry about his health, but whatever you do-don't harp on it...I smoke, it and cookies are my only vices ...I get very irritated when someone gets on me about either topic...my life, my lungs...short & sweet, it's touchy-so go easy sweetheart...
You smoke? (You just know I'm going to annoy the schnitzel out of you about this now, right?)
...go right on about it with yer bad self...I smoke approx. 5 a day...99% of the time-on my way to work and home...and my schnitzel was just operated on, so I'd appreciate if you could keep the annoying on the soft and gentle side....You smoke? (You just know I'm going to annoy the schnitzel out of you about this now, right?)
...go right on about it with yer bad self...I smoke approx. 5 a day...99% of the time-on my way to work and home...and my schnitzel was just operated on, so I'd appreciate if you could keep the annoying on the soft and gentle side....
Oh Jeez... I didn't think that one through, huh? 
Good luck Johanna, there's some really good advice here. I understand exactly where you're coming from, insecurities bred from past experiences are the reason I find it so hard to trust, and have created problems that didn't need to exist. Please don't make the same mistakes I have...it sounds like you have met a good man. I'm sure it will all work out fine if you relax a little and just enjoy living in the moment. 
Lol! Maybe I made it up. What I mean by doom crow is someone who stalks around like Poe's raven, looking for the worst (maybe cawing "It'll never work" instead of "nevermore"). Don't call the worst or imagine the best; just keep your eyes open for what IS.A Doom Crow
I have never heard this expression before
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You're afraid that your past experiences will repeat themselves which is a natural response but things can and do happen differently. Maybe think about being happy that those other relationships didn't work out because now you're with the "right" person. If you believe that what you put out into the world returns to you, try to make sure that you're thinking positive thoughts about the relationship continuing instead of the fearful ones.
Ditto . . .
Just go with it and appreciate the love.
Scott, have you thought about cutting back to, say, three cookies a week?
Oh thank you everyone so much. Maybe I can calm down someday, but still I am nervous that things not work out for us, even if everything
goes well in our relationship and we are doing things together everyday.
goes well in our relationship and we are doing things together everyday.
You're in that "honeymoon" phase right now where it's natural to want to be together more but even in long-term relationships, there are times when having a little break is a good thing. That saying absence makes the heart grow fonder isn't just a cliché. Or maybe that's just me.
Because you're a woman, and we all know women are weird. Plus they have cooties.
...as we say at work..."That's Dead!!!"......
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...as we say at work..."That's Dead!!!"......
Dammit, yer supposed to get very irritated! You promised!
