They just announced that they have found a body and the parents have been notified. Going to ME for positive identification.
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breathe with me Scott.
puff puff puff puff --- now deep cleansing breath until the next wave.
They just announced that they have found a body and the parents have been notified. Going to ME for positive identification.
The Medical Examiner? For a minute I thought you meant they were expecting you to identify the body which I thought was pretty harsh when such things should be left to family or close friends.
Oh my Lord. There's no "good" scenario, but I hope it was accidental and he didn't die at the hands of someone he trusted and loved. God bless.
Yes, remember that. Also, remember swearing like a construction worker at my husband in between those damn cleansing breaths.
....the Grim Reaper paid an unexpected and shocking visit to my Dad's house Saturday night....I was just getting ready for bed at about 8:30, when the phone rings and Dad says "There's something wrong with your Mother-you better get out here".....at this juncture, I was in the Jeep and out the door.....Tracy and I live less than 5 minutes away, but I'm pretty sure I made it in about two....even so, I was to late...............my Mom took her last breath as I got to her in the living room.....no matter how much CPR I did, or screaming at, and exhorting her to stay with me did any damn good.....I know I did all I could, but still feel that I failed her.....dammit, dammit, dammit!....only thing that gives us a little bit of peace is, that she went so quickly-and I imagine as she would have wanted-in her chair, across from my Dad-cat in her lap....she and Dad were just two weeks shy of their 64th wedding anniversary, and he simply told me-"Scott, I loved her and I'm going to miss her, if I could marry her all over again-I would"....for my part, I loved her too...she was wildly over protective and kept me from many things I wanted to experience as a child-but she did so out of an abundance of love....26 years she helped shape young lives a 4th grade teacher, and all her life-was iron willed, yet soft hearted....Mom?.....rest easy and know that I love you......RIP Kathleen Denny Roller 12-23-1930 to 9-29-2018.......
I'm so sorry, (((Scott))). My sincere condolences, thoughts, prayers, and love being sent to you and your family.....the Grim Reaper paid an unexpected and shocking visit to my Dad's house Saturday night....I was just getting ready for bed at about 8:30, when the phone rings and Dad says "There's something wrong with your Mother-you better get out here".....at this juncture, I was in the Jeep and out the door.....Tracy and I live less than 5 minutes away, but I'm pretty sure I made it in about two....even so, I was to late...............my Mom took her last breath as I got to her in the living room.....no matter how much CPR I did, or screaming at, and exhorting her to stay with me did any damn good.....I know I did all I could, but still feel that I failed her.....dammit, dammit, dammit!....only thing that gives us a little bit of peace is, that she went so quickly-and I imagine as she would have wanted-in her chair, across from my Dad-cat in her lap....she and Dad were just two weeks shy of their 64th wedding anniversary, and he simply told me-"Scott, I loved her and I'm going to miss her, if I could marry her all over again-I would"....for my part, I loved her too...she was wildly over protective and kept me from many things I wanted to experience as a child-but she did so out of an abundance of love....26 years she helped shape young lives a 4th grade teacher, and all her life-was iron willed, yet soft hearted....Mom?.....rest easy and know that I love you......RIP Kathleen Denny Roller 12-23-1930 to 9-29-2018.......
((((Scott, Tracy, your dad and family))))
I am so very sorry for your loss. Those words seem inadequate. I send love to all of you and will be praying for comfort and peace. May your mom rest in peace.
I am so very sorry for your loss. Those words seem inadequate. I send love to all of you and will be praying for comfort and peace. May your mom rest in peace.
Oh Scott,Iam so sorry. Know we are here for you. May she rest in peace. My thoughts and prayers to the family and friends. Keeping you and your dad in my heart.....the Grim Reaper paid an unexpected and shocking visit to my Dad's house Saturday night....I was just getting ready for bed at about 8:30, when the phone rings and Dad says "There's something wrong with your Mother-you better get out here".....at this juncture, I was in the Jeep and out the door.....Tracy and I live less than 5 minutes away, but I'm pretty sure I made it in about two....even so, I was to late...............my Mom took her last breath as I got to her in the living room.....no matter how much CPR I did, or screaming at, and exhorting her to stay with me did any damn good.....I know I did all I could, but still feel that I failed her.....dammit, dammit, dammit!....only thing that gives us a little bit of peace is, that she went so quickly-and I imagine as she would have wanted-in her chair, across from my Dad-cat in her lap....she and Dad were just two weeks shy of their 64th wedding anniversary, and he simply told me-"Scott, I loved her and I'm going to miss her, if I could marry her all over again-I would"....for my part, I loved her too...she was wildly over protective and kept me from many things I wanted to experience as a child-but she did so out of an abundance of love....26 years she helped shape young lives a 4th grade teacher, and all her life-was iron willed, yet soft hearted....Mom?.....rest easy and know that I love you......RIP Kathleen Denny Roller 12-23-1930 to 9-29-2018.......
I'm so sorry. (((((Scott, Tracy & Family))))) ♥....the Grim Reaper paid an unexpected and shocking visit to my Dad's house Saturday night....I was just getting ready for bed at about 8:30, when the phone rings and Dad says "There's something wrong with your Mother-you better get out here".....at this juncture, I was in the Jeep and out the door.....Tracy and I live less than 5 minutes away, but I'm pretty sure I made it in about two....even so, I was to late...............my Mom took her last breath as I got to her in the living room.....no matter how much CPR I did, or screaming at, and exhorting her to stay with me did any damn good.....I know I did all I could, but still feel that I failed her.....dammit, dammit, dammit!....only thing that gives us a little bit of peace is, that she went so quickly-and I imagine as she would have wanted-in her chair, across from my Dad-cat in her lap....she and Dad were just two weeks shy of their 64th wedding anniversary, and he simply told me-"Scott, I loved her and I'm going to miss her, if I could marry her all over again-I would"....for my part, I loved her too...she was wildly over protective and kept me from many things I wanted to experience as a child-but she did so out of an abundance of love....26 years she helped shape young lives a 4th grade teacher, and all her life-was iron willed, yet soft hearted....Mom?.....rest easy and know that I love you......RIP Kathleen Denny Roller 12-23-1930 to 9-29-2018.......
....the Grim Reaper paid an unexpected and shocking visit to my Dad's house Saturday night....I was just getting ready for bed at about 8:30, when the phone rings and Dad says "There's something wrong with your Mother-you better get out here".....at this juncture, I was in the Jeep and out the door.....Tracy and I live less than 5 minutes away, but I'm pretty sure I made it in about two....even so, I was to late...............my Mom took her last breath as I got to her in the living room.....no matter how much CPR I did, or screaming at, and exhorting her to stay with me did any damn good.....I know I did all I could, but still feel that I failed her.....dammit, dammit, dammit!....only thing that gives us a little bit of peace is, that she went so quickly-and I imagine as she would have wanted-in her chair, across from my Dad-cat in her lap....she and Dad were just two weeks shy of their 64th wedding anniversary, and he simply told me-"Scott, I loved her and I'm going to miss her, if I could marry her all over again-I would"....for my part, I loved her too...she was wildly over protective and kept me from many things I wanted to experience as a child-but she did so out of an abundance of love....26 years she helped shape young lives a 4th grade teacher, and all her life-was iron willed, yet soft hearted....Mom?.....rest easy and know that I love you......RIP Kathleen Denny Roller 12-23-1930 to 9-29-2018.......
My sincere condolences, Scott. My prayers and thoughts are with you and yours. A candle will be lit in her honor. (((Scott, Tracy, dad, and family)))
Oh boy...that is really tough on you guys! So sorry..holding you and family in thoughts and prayers of condolence..know she will find that clearing at the end of the path that awaits us all,big guy..
I am so very sorry for your loss.....the Grim Reaper paid an unexpected and shocking visit to my Dad's house Saturday night....I was just getting ready for bed at about 8:30, when the phone rings and Dad says "There's something wrong with your Mother-you better get out here".....at this juncture, I was in the Jeep and out the door.....Tracy and I live less than 5 minutes away, but I'm pretty sure I made it in about two....even so, I was to late...............my Mom took her last breath as I got to her in the living room.....no matter how much CPR I did, or screaming at, and exhorting her to stay with me did any damn good.....I know I did all I could, but still feel that I failed her.....dammit, dammit, dammit!....only thing that gives us a little bit of peace is, that she went so quickly-and I imagine as she would have wanted-in her chair, across from my Dad-cat in her lap....she and Dad were just two weeks shy of their 64th wedding anniversary, and he simply told me-"Scott, I loved her and I'm going to miss her, if I could marry her all over again-I would"....for my part, I loved her too...she was wildly over protective and kept me from many things I wanted to experience as a child-but she did so out of an abundance of love....26 years she helped shape young lives a 4th grade teacher, and all her life-was iron willed, yet soft hearted....Mom?.....rest easy and know that I love you......RIP Kathleen Denny Roller 12-23-1930 to 9-29-2018.......
I wish you peace and send you love for the difficult days ahead.
I am so sorry for your loss. I wish I had all the right words to make you feel better. Still sending every good vibe to you and the family. I love you, my friend!....the Grim Reaper paid an unexpected and shocking visit to my Dad's house Saturday night....I was just getting ready for bed at about 8:30, when the phone rings and Dad says "There's something wrong with your Mother-you better get out here".....at this juncture, I was in the Jeep and out the door.....Tracy and I live less than 5 minutes away, but I'm pretty sure I made it in about two....even so, I was to late...............my Mom took her last breath as I got to her in the living room.....no matter how much CPR I did, or screaming at, and exhorting her to stay with me did any damn good.....I know I did all I could, but still feel that I failed her.....dammit, dammit, dammit!....only thing that gives us a little bit of peace is, that she went so quickly-and I imagine as she would have wanted-in her chair, across from my Dad-cat in her lap....she and Dad were just two weeks shy of their 64th wedding anniversary, and he simply told me-"Scott, I loved her and I'm going to miss her, if I could marry her all over again-I would"....for my part, I loved her too...she was wildly over protective and kept me from many things I wanted to experience as a child-but she did so out of an abundance of love....26 years she helped shape young lives a 4th grade teacher, and all her life-was iron willed, yet soft hearted....Mom?.....rest easy and know that I love you......RIP Kathleen Denny Roller 12-23-1930 to 9-29-2018.......
((...and big, huge hugs! (((((Scott, Tracy, and family)))))...))
(((Scott, Tracy & family)))) - I'm sorry to hear of the loss of your mom, Scott. Sending you all lots of love and prayers. Peace be with you all during this sad time.....the Grim Reaper paid an unexpected and shocking visit to my Dad's house Saturday night....I was just getting ready for bed at about 8:30, when the phone rings and Dad says "There's something wrong with your Mother-you better get out here".....at this juncture, I was in the Jeep and out the door.....Tracy and I live less than 5 minutes away, but I'm pretty sure I made it in about two....even so, I was to late...............my Mom took her last breath as I got to her in the living room.....no matter how much CPR I did, or screaming at, and exhorting her to stay with me did any damn good.....I know I did all I could, but still feel that I failed her.....dammit, dammit, dammit!....only thing that gives us a little bit of peace is, that she went so quickly-and I imagine as she would have wanted-in her chair, across from my Dad-cat in her lap....she and Dad were just two weeks shy of their 64th wedding anniversary, and he simply told me-"Scott, I loved her and I'm going to miss her, if I could marry her all over again-I would"....for my part, I loved her too...she was wildly over protective and kept me from many things I wanted to experience as a child-but she did so out of an abundance of love....26 years she helped shape young lives a 4th grade teacher, and all her life-was iron willed, yet soft hearted....Mom?.....rest easy and know that I love you......RIP Kathleen Denny Roller 12-23-1930 to 9-29-2018.......
I am so very sorry for your loss GNTLGNT. I hope you have the support you need and that peace comes knocking very soon. mal
My sincere condolences on your loss.....the Grim Reaper paid an unexpected and shocking visit to my Dad's house Saturday night....I was just getting ready for bed at about 8:30, when the phone rings and Dad says "There's something wrong with your Mother-you better get out here".....at this juncture, I was in the Jeep and out the door.....Tracy and I live less than 5 minutes away, but I'm pretty sure I made it in about two....even so, I was to late...............my Mom took her last breath as I got to her in the living room.....no matter how much CPR I did, or screaming at, and exhorting her to stay with me did any damn good.....I know I did all I could, but still feel that I failed her.....dammit, dammit, dammit!....only thing that gives us a little bit of peace is, that she went so quickly-and I imagine as she would have wanted-in her chair, across from my Dad-cat in her lap....she and Dad were just two weeks shy of their 64th wedding anniversary, and he simply told me-"Scott, I loved her and I'm going to miss her, if I could marry her all over again-I would"....for my part, I loved her too...she was wildly over protective and kept me from many things I wanted to experience as a child-but she did so out of an abundance of love....26 years she helped shape young lives a 4th grade teacher, and all her life-was iron willed, yet soft hearted....Mom?.....rest easy and know that I love you......RIP Kathleen Denny Roller 12-23-1930 to 9-29-2018.......
...thanks all.....at one moment I'm numb, another moment-I feel like myself-then wham!...here come the tears.....I know it will be this way for a while, but your kind words help more than you know....