Is This A Hypocrite?

[MadamMack]

There's a term for a certain brand of sex-life detriment caused by watching porn, Porn Creep...

A condition that results from the constant or excessive watching of pornographic material.It is characterised by an inability to get an erection under circumstances that do not involve the watching of pornographic material, due to the lack of psychologial connection between other human contact and sex. One treatment involves watchin porn until the erection is achieved then having sex, this re-establishes the connection between other people and sex. This condition is more frequent in virgins as the initial connection has not been made.

Urban Dictionary: porn creep

I've heard of that . . .

 

[blunthead]

I've heard of that . . .

I first hear of it on an episode of CSI: Miami.

 

[MadamMack]

I first hear of it on an episode of CSI: Miami.

Same here . . .

 

[blunthead]

Same here . . .

Ha! Excellent! That episode where the guy who's addicted to pornography is gonna lose his GF, and he has porn creep and can't perform sexually except when viewing porn, stalks a porn star, murders her, and places her strategically so that when he's making love to his GF in apart he can keep his eye on the dead porn star.

 

[MadamMack]

Ha! Excellent! That episode where the guy who's addicted to pornography is gonna lose his GF, and he has porn creep and can't perform sexually except when viewing porn, stalks a porn star, murders her, and places her strategically so that when he's making love to his GF in apart he can keep his eye on the dead porn star.

Yep . . .I remember it well because I thought to myself . . .WTF!

 

[blunthead]

Yep . . .I remember it well because I thought to myself . . .WTF!

Yeah, me too. Kinda scary 'cause it's for real.

 

[carrie's younger brother]

We ain't got no porn, nary alcohol, here in Kaintuck. (Just trying to lighten things up; no offense, Pegasus.)
Seriously, if she gives up on him, any new one she finds may have those same problems, and worse.
If she's getting it every night, doesn't sound as if the porn is a substitute for anything.
If the alcohol causes problems, or it's in excess every day, then that's another story.

Every night!?!

 

[GNTLGNT]

Yer welcome. Just concurring.

...as long as your not sullying...

 

[pegasus216]

I agree with many people here.

I would pray for him and his wife. That they be able to reach a compromise with which they are both comfortable. (Personally, I don't think there is anything particularly wrong or *sinful* to watch porn. NOT kiddie porn! Or to drink alcohol unless, like someone posted, he behaves badly when drinking.)

In addition, if he has problems then church might help him get his poop in a group.

Until I get me, mine and our house/home in order (which will never happen because people are fallible) I prefer not to meddle in others peoples lives. Or judge.

I bolded and italicized your post above. May I ask...what did you say to the wife?

I told her that since he keeps doing the same things over, and over, he will probably never change. I told her she has to find a way to deal with it, or seek some kind of counseling.
When he drinks he does get mean. Once he threatened to burn the hous down, and he keeps bringing up the past, and thinks his wife has cheated on him. All kinds of crap.

Peace.

 

[HollyGolightly]

Oh man, Mary - sounds like there's a little bit of crazy in him - and that's more likely the issue that he needs help with.

 

[danie]

He gets plenty, almost every night for years.

Every night!?!

Just goin by what pegasus said earlier!

 

[mal]

I think the venal and capillarian sins are okay but the cardinal and oriole sins are much worse.

 

[KingAHolic]

 

[TheRedQueen]

I know someone who drinks a lot, and got caught watching porn twice by his wife within the last month. Then has the nerve to go to church!
What do you all think of this?

I think churches are full of hypocrites. But that's just me.

Personally, I wouldn't care if my husband went to church three times a week; if he was a constant drunk, and constantly going behind my back to look at filth, I'd divorce his ass in a heart beat. Actions speak louder than words, and if his actions say he wants to be a single man, then a single man he will be.

Life is too short to put up with juvenile Bulls***.

 

[pegasus216]

I think churches are full of hypocrites. But that's just me.

Personally, I wouldn't care if my husband went to church three times a week; if he was a constant drunk, and constantly going behind my back to look at filth, I'd divorce his ass in a heart beat. Actions speak louder than words, and if his actions say he wants to be a single man, then a single man he will be.

Life is too short to put up with juvenile Bulls***.

I agree

 

[KingAHolic]

I just don't understand why someone would go to church if they are not even TRYING to live a godly life.

Some people treat church like a "social club" - it's unfortunate but people do "use" the church for "something to do" because they can't make friends otherwise.... or are not part of any "social scene"

The are many also who go because they think if they go enough, they'll get to heaven no matter what they do. Kind of like going to confession, live like hell, confess your sins, reset. Christianity the way I was taught it doesn't work like that.