I know how important your family is to you, Sig. Rely on them for your immediate needs and come back here next time you want to talk about your hoo hoo.
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Oh Siggy, I am pouring out so much love to you right now. You will always be his "Little Girl."
Promise?
זכרונו לברכה
May his memory be a blessing.
Every loss is different, because every individual is different.
But I remember how I felt when my dad (z'l) died.
I thought I would die of a broken heart, but I didn't.
Don't try to be strong, it's not necessary (unless that's your usual default setting).
Some days will be better than others.
You may never "get over" this, but you will learn to live with it.
Don't expect too much of yourself or other people.
Some people don't know how to deal with death.
Be prepared for surprises - sometimes the people you expect to support you are gone with the wind.
But you'll also find friends that you never knew you had.
You might feel that the world is spinning and whirling around you,
You're standing still.
Sometimes you might feel why is the world still turning when your daddy isn't here.
Beautiful... very comforting.
Reach out and someone will be there.
Always.
It's only natural girl... feel what you feel, when you feel it.Good evening.
I have to say....
I was having a hard time. I couldn't seem to cry. I know I should cry. Wanted to cry. NEEDED to cry...but I could not.
Then, I came here and read your posts. I read the Personal Profile posts and all the PM's.
I'm gonna cry tonight. Y'all gave me permission to cry and throw up my pain and sorrow.
I thank each and everyone of you.
I offer you PEACE.
Cry and cry some more.....Good evening.
I have to say....
I was having a hard time. I couldn't seem to cry. I know I should cry. Wanted to cry. NEEDED to cry...but I could not.
Then, I came here and read your posts. I read the Personal Profile posts and all the PM's.
I'm gonna cry tonight. Y'all gave me permission to cry and throw up my pain and sorrow.
I thank each and everyone of you.
I offer you PEACE.
Cry and cry some more.....
Peace
Care
Love
'A year of firsts', that wisdom is so unbelievably true, I had no idea, no real concept of that idea, it just becomes real, incrementaly, I guess as it should be, supposed to be, until it is.This is a year of firsts. Some of them will be more difficult than others.
I'm glad you will be with family.