It can get discouraging, and frankly, I sometimes get a little (well, more than a little) ticked off at the whole situation. But, I strongly feel that my stories are good, and refuse to stop beating on doors until I get someone to at least look at them.I admire your determination OP.
Fourteen years is one hell of a long time. Lesser mortals like me would have thrown in the towel by now.
I tell friends that perhaps I should walk down Santa Monica Blvd., naked, carrying only my script, to get some attention. However, I would probably just blend in with all of the other writers seeking a reading...
I am not alone in this struggle. Many authors have spent years trying to get published. While some luck out and make a connection quickly, a long, uphill fight seems to be more the norm.
I think you should give yourself some credit, though. I believe you would not give up, either. The human spirit is a powerful thing.