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blunthead

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What amazes me about Ka-incidence is not that it happens but that it happens frequently. Things like the following can in fact be expected to happen...

A couple months ago I had the basement waterproofed. At a certain point the lead worker came upstairs to tell me their machines had thrown a breaker, that they no longer had power, and asked if they could run an extension cord from upstairs. Further he said something about the central air conditioner breaker; that he thought that one had been destroyed. The waterproofers went on to complete the job, part of which involved working in the crawl space around the air conditioner.

Afterward I noticed that my tankless water heater was not working. I bought and installed a new breaker for the AC, hoping that the tankless water heater shared it - that that breaker was the water heater's problem, also. It wasn't.

I called an electrician to look at the water heater, expecting him to narrow down which breaker(s) needed to be replaced. He discovered that the water heater was not connected to a breaker at all; had years ago somehow instead been very incorrectly hooked up to the AC, and that that connection needed to be changed to include a breaker. So he fixed that.

Not long after that it was finally hot enough in GA for my cheap a$$ to decide to turn on the AC. It didn't come on. I wasn't sure who to call, so called the electrician, and then the waterproofers, scheduling appointments. A whole 24 hrs later I realized that if the AC guy came here he could fix the AC as well as tell me if someone damaged it, so scheduled an appointment with him. He found out what was wrong with the AC.

Here's where the Ka-incidence, and my original point (thanx for reading thus far), comes in: the problem with the AC had not been due to either the waterproofers - despite the worker's mentioning the AC breaker - nor the electrician - despite the water heater's incorrect AC hookup. The AC problem was a fuse associated with the furnace; a fuse which finally quit because it was just plain 30 years old.

This is just one example of such ka-incidental madness - with machines or electronics, in this case - which I've personally experienced. I can't think of any others right now; don't want to.

Now, I know people will decide that what happened was because everything in the basement's electrical system is connected somehow, and so the waterproofers blew the furnace fuse. I say there's a demon in my basement, and that there may be others in other areas of my life. No wonder I don't want to remember other ka-incidences right now.
 
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Neesy

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May 24, 2012
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What amazes me about Ka-incidence is not that it happens but that it happens frequently. Things like the following can in fact be expected to happen...

A couple months ago I had the basement waterproofed. At a certain point the lead worker came upstairs to tell me their machines had thrown a breaker, that they no longer had power, and asked if they could run an extension cord from upstairs. Further he said something about the central air conditioner breaker; that he thought that one had been destroyed. The waterproofers went on to complete the job, part of which involved working in the crawl space around the air conditioner.

Afterward I noticed that my tankless water heater was not working. I bought and installed a new breaker for the AC, hoping that the tankless water heater shared it - that that breaker was the water heater's problem, also. It wasn't.

I called an electrician to look at the water heater, expecting him to narrow down which breaker(s) needed to be replaced. He discovered that the water heater was not connected to a breaker at all; had years ago somehow instead been very incorrectly hooked up to the AC, and that that connection needed to be changed to include a breaker. So he fixed that.

Not long after that it was finally hot enough in GA for my cheap a$$ to decide to turn on the AC. It didn't come on. I wasn't sure who to call, so called the electrician, and then the waterproofers, scheduling appointments. A whole 24 hrs later I realized that if the AC guy came here he could fix the AC as well as tell me if someone damaged it, so scheduled an appointment with him. He found out what was wrong with the AC.

Here's where the Ka-incidence, and my original point (thanx for reading thus far), comes in: the problem with the AC had not been due to either the waterproofers - despite the worker's mentioning the AC breaker - nor the electrician - despite the water heater's incorrect AC hookup. The AC problem was a fuse associated with the furnace; a fuse which finally quit because it was just plain 30 years old.

This is just one example of such ka-incidental madness - with machines or electronics, in this case - which I've personally experienced. I can't think of any others right now; don't want to.

Now, I know people will decide that what happened was because everything in the basement's electrical system is connected somehow, and so the waterproofers blew the furnace fuse. I say there's a demon in my basement, and that there may be others in other areas of my life. No wonder I don't want to remember other ka-incidences right now.

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You may be right - don't go down there late at night :ghostface:
 

blunthead

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After decades I’ve come to realize it’s seemingly impossible for engineers to design a non-spill coffee pot, and just pour my coffee over the sink.
Yes, I'm amazed that after all the problem continues to exist. Of course, since there are those who find pouring from a coffee carafe no problem (I think these are the women, or at least a few of them; just, it's only a woman who can do it), I wonder if the problem exists where I've assumed it is.
 

blunthead

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...if it's anything like what I feel, it's the letdown from being away and having to go back, and the stress that accompanies it...my last couple of days are like that....
I believe that some individuals find some common chores or responsibilities much more difficult to deal with than most other people do. I identify with what Claire and Scott have said. I tend to always get a little anxious before going to work. I've been this way for a long time, and the degree of discomfort is proportional to the job and it's content of stress. Sometimes the same job can be expected to be more stressful on a given day. Returning to work from vacation has usually been a drag for me, especially since I've grown old enough to value by far my leisure time over the benefits from performing work responsibilities, whatever they might be.
 
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kingzeppelin

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I don't know whether this annoying trait is universal or just confined to the UK, but over here we have a large group of drivers who on garage forecourts will only refuel their cars from fuel pumps that are on the same side as their fuel filler cap! (i.e. the drivers side)
Filling Stations display signs saying "Use Both Sides" & "Long Extending Hoses" but queues still form to use the "drivers" side pumps while "passenger" side pumps are often free? These queues sometimes tailing back
to block the forecourt entrance.
I always use the first pump available, usually on the passenger side, often getting dirty looks from drivers waiting to use the other side as though I've broken some unwritten law!
I've no idea why people do this, but can only surmise that it's drivers who don't have confidence in their ability to judge the width of their vehicle accurately and think they might hit the pump!
Anyone else noticed this habit?
 

blunthead

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I don't know whether this annoying trait is universal or just confined to the UK, but over here we have a large group of drivers who on garage forecourts will only refuel their cars from fuel pumps that are on the same side as their fuel filler cap! (i.e. the drivers side)
Filling Stations display signs saying "Use Both Sides" & "Long Extending Hoses" but queues still form to use the "drivers" side pumps while "passenger" side pumps are often free? These queues sometimes tailing back
to block the forecourt entrance.
I always use the first pump available, usually on the passenger side, often getting dirty looks from drivers waiting to use the other side as though I've broken some unwritten law!
I've no idea why people do this, but can only surmise that it's drivers who don't have confidence in their ability to judge the width of their vehicle accurately and think they might hit the pump!
Anyone else noticed this habit?
People behave as do sheep, who follow the leader without thinking. Or reading. We all know that, though they should, sheep don't read...but I digress.

Most of the people giving you the dirty eye are ignorant of the rules, due imho to their tendency not to want to live by rules but instead however the hell they want. So, most of them didn't read the signs. You are apparently unlike most (you godless bastard).

If they were to read the rules - which ironically do not impose restrictions but unleash freedoms! - then, not only would they not evil-eye you, they'd have time to think of doing so since they'd be too busy enjoying life. Except for the cost of gas. Or petrol.

BTW, wth is a "forecourt"? I'm just kidding. No, really...?
 

DiO'Bolic

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I don't know whether this annoying trait is universal or just confined to the UK, but over here we have a large group of drivers who on garage forecourts will only refuel their cars from fuel pumps that are on the same side as their fuel filler cap! (i.e. the drivers side)
Filling Stations display signs saying "Use Both Sides" & "Long Extending Hoses" but queues still form to use the "drivers" side pumps while "passenger" side pumps are often free? These queues sometimes tailing back
to block the forecourt entrance.
I always use the first pump available, usually on the passenger side, often getting dirty looks from drivers waiting to use the other side as though I've broken some unwritten law!
I've no idea why people do this, but can only surmise that it's drivers who don't have confidence in their ability to judge the width of their vehicle accurately and think they might hit the pump!
Anyone else noticed this habit?
"Long Extending Hoses" You must live in heaven. Over here in the US (at least where I'm at) the hoses barely extend to the fuel tank if you park directly in front of the pump -- on the side with the fuel cap. God forbid the person at the pump in front of you doesn't give you enough room to pull up directly next to the tank (you're pulling ahead in inches at a time in order to get as far forward as you can). And with caps on both sides of the cars, the pumps at smaller gas stations are like cluster fu** conventions. And then there is always the inevitable battle between cars with caps on both sides jockeying for position for when a car pulls out. Road rage is noting compared to pump rage some days (seems biggest ugliest car wins).
 

arista

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"Long Extending Hoses" You must live in heaven. Over here in the US (at least where I'm at) the hoses barely extend to the fuel tank if you park directly in front of the pump -- on the side with the fuel cap. God forbid the person at the pump in front of you doesn't give you enough room to pull up directly next to the tank (you're pulling ahead in inches at a time in order to get as far forward as you can). And with caps on both sides of the cars, the pumps at smaller gas stations are like cluster fu** conventions. And then there is always the inevitable battle between cars with caps on both sides jockeying for position for when a car pulls out. Road rage is noting compared to pump rage some days (seems biggest ugliest car wins).
AMEN!!! The pumps are barely long enough to reach to your car.
 

AnnaMarie

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I don't know whether this annoying trait is universal or just confined to the UK, but over here we have a large group of drivers who on garage forecourts will only refuel their cars from fuel pumps that are on the same side as their fuel filler cap! (i.e. the drivers side)
Filling Stations display signs saying "Use Both Sides" & "Long Extending Hoses" but queues still form to use the "drivers" side pumps while "passenger" side pumps are often free? These queues sometimes tailing back
to block the forecourt entrance.
I always use the first pump available, usually on the passenger side, often getting dirty looks from drivers waiting to use the other side as though I've broken some unwritten law!
I've no idea why people do this, but can only surmise that it's drivers who don't have confidence in their ability to judge the width of their vehicle accurately and think they might hit the pump!
Anyone else noticed this habit?

Hoses here are not long enough. However, we have two vehicles. One has the fuel filler cap on the drive's side and the other has it on the passenger side. So, different vehicles go on different sides.