Cary Grant says to Leslie Caron, "Same ol' loosy goosy"... every time!...hey high and dry!Yes you piddled during Father Goose when a character said...what was it, damn now I can't remember.
This message board permanently closed on June 30th, 2020 at 4PM EDT and is no longer accepting new members.
Cary Grant says to Leslie Caron, "Same ol' loosy goosy"... every time!...hey high and dry!Yes you piddled during Father Goose when a character said...what was it, damn now I can't remember.
Not to be all existential or anything, but everything that happens in childhood relates to who we are as adults. Every single minute we've lived has led us to become who we are today. What happened at six, ten, twenty, whatever age. It all adds up.
My childhood was unpleasant. I won't bore you with the details. Lots of kids have it bad. Sometimes that cycle continues, and sometimes kids are able to use that as a blueprint of what NOT to do. I hope I'm the latter. I don't drink or abuse drugs, and I try to be a good mom and gramma.
Such a good post Lepp. True in all regards ma'am. Kudos.One thing that has stuck with me throughout, though, is art. I've been drawing since before I could walk. I know, all kids dig crayons and sidewalk chalk, but I've been the artsy type all through school and ever since. I wish I'd gone to college for it, but there wasn't the money and I NEEDED to get away from home. So I joined the Army, hit the ground running, and here I am today, still painting, still drawing. Still being artsy.
Sorry my story isn't more entertaining.
There was this once, down in North Florida, Joe and I were at Melvin’s place, place in the country. Melvin is an old man, losing his sight, same as Joe. Maybe that’s it, maybe that’s why, but Melvin’s kids focused on me for whatever reason. Melvin is standing in the pecan orchard, I hear him say something like, well I was using the Little Boys’ Room, sitting there doing my duty…and Melvin’s kids are head-butting me. Cute little devils, all soft and furry. I got two or three they’re standing there, regarding me, I’m trying to listen to Melvin…this old boy stuck his root through a hole in the wall, right about eye level. Bam! From one direction, little kid, lowers his head and rams me in the leg. Heh!
Joe saw it happening and he chuckled. Melvin, he’s saying something like I took out my knife, pulled the blade open, demonstrates what he….BAM! From another direction, another cute little kid, taking aim at my other leg. I’m dancing back and forth, kinda bent over, trying to hold onto their horns. Goats got horns? Or they call them something else? Joe’s eyes are watering, ‘cause we’re all religious folk here…Melvin’s doing something with his pocketknife, demonstrating…BAM! I’m holding one and the other little snapper rams my leg.
You boys pick all the pecans you want, Margaret and me we got all we need. So…we do…I got a couple little goats following me around, about knee-high or less. I figure, why me? Why me? Story of my life. Time it was through, every little kid there was head-butting me.
I'm just afraid I'll share something idiotic and people will collectively think "Yep, sounds like him".
You don't know that.Well.... you didn't try to spell "pharmacy" in the regional spelling bee with an f.
Also, the fire.
Brick wall first. 6-ish I guess, growing up in Jacksonville Florida, I had two good friends, Bruce and Paul. Mom liked when I spent time with Paul who was the son of her friend from church. He was good and saintly. She didn't like Bruce, though, who gave her reason. I always got into some kind of often serious trouble with Bruce. He was an influence on my bad. One day he and I decided to go exploring, most likely somewhere we'd recently been told never to, and came upon a brick wall which we must have decided was not in the way of our goal but was the goal itself; why else must we, instead of just walk around it (it was about six feet long), need to climb it?
It was bricks, but wasn't a wall, just a large pile of bricks cleverly organized to fool the unsuspecting. It was a brick trap for children to die in.
When we realized we'd been killed Bruce and I panicked and ran (but not before making note that I'd taken two to the head; him three) straight for our homes where dead children go when they don't know where else to go. I walked into the kitchen, up behind Mom who was washing dishes or peeling potatoes or washing potatoes, and I cried "Mom!!!". She said, "Just a second, what is it..." and turned around to see blood gushing down my face like lava on a volcano. This was the first time I caused my mom to turn (actual) white.
Hence, Mom's whiteness.Reminds me of a time we were playing in deserted structures by a railroad. I heard one of the kids yell my name and scream, "Come quick!" I ran around, and there was little Mikey, covered in blood. He'd fallen down one of the derelict walls to riprap at the bottom and busted his head open. Blood was streaming down, and he had his mouth opening, screaming and crying, and blood had gathered in his mouth. That's one vivid memory that I had, I figured he'd gotten his mouth bashed in too.
I yelled for someone to give me a shirt or something, and Mikey's brother whipped off his shirt, and I wiped blood away to find the wound - just above his eye, as it turned out - and then wrapped and tied it up, stopped the bleeding. We carried him out to the street, to a local grocery store, where they called the ambulance. Later, little Mikey was grateful, thanked me, and my parents took me out for a treat. Turned out the hospital said I probably saved him from more dramatic blood loss and a transfusion.
That felt good. I found out later that the scalp is highly vascularized, and head wounds can be real bleeders.
Good for you, probably this, among other things, gave you such a high sense of duty that I get from your posts. It must have felt great to be told you did such a heroic thing and I bet it stuck with you to want to always be that way. Just guessing. Armchair analyzing. hahaha.Reminds me of a time we were playing in deserted structures by a railroad. I heard one of the kids yell my name and scream, "Come quick!" I ran around, and there was little Mikey, covered in blood. He'd fallen down one of the derelict walls to riprap at the bottom and busted his head open. Blood was streaming down, and he had his mouth open, screaming and crying, and blood had gathered in his mouth. That's one vivid memory that I had, I figured he'd gotten his mouth bashed in too.
I yelled for someone to give me a shirt or something, and Mikey's brother whipped off his shirt, and I wiped blood away to find the wound - just above his eye, as it turned out - and then wrapped and tied it up, stopped the bleeding. We carried him out to the street, to a local grocery store, where they called the ambulance. Later, little Mikey was grateful, thanked me, and my parents took me out for a treat. Turned out the hospital said I probably saved him from more dramatic blood loss and a transfusion.
That felt good. I found out later that the scalp is highly vascularized, and head wounds can be real bleeders.
I was an only child for about 6 years and my parents juggled their jobs, probably because babysitters were expensive. Dad worked the night shift and Mom worked the day shift. So while my dad was there, he was mostly asleep. But I got along fine. He taught me to scramble my own eggs and make a grilled cheese by the time I was 5 - I was using the stove while he slept - can you imagine?! But I knew how to do it. I could make a pbj or a bologna and cheese - I could even fry the bologna if I wanted to. Being alone so much gave me an incredible imagination. The girl in the living room mirror was "Girlfriend" and I thought she lived somewhere that looked so much like my place, but wasn't - it was just on the other side of big piece of glass that I couldn't get through - I guess I didn't recognize she was ME. I talked to and played with her all day long. And we also had other playmates: Chu-Ong, Chu-Ni, and Remy (I had to guess on the spelling, but that's how I pronounced them - I suspect 2 were Asian and 1 was French - I don't remember their gender at all - except Girlfriend, she was a girl). I truly believed they were all there with me all day long - well Girlfriend was there all day long - the others just came when we needed more friends for whatever reason.
Between both of my parents, I had 16 aunts and uncles, all married, all with children - so the aunts took turns calling me and checking on me - . They all have great stories of the things I'd tell them - what me and my imaginary friends were doing. Once I told one of them my dad wasn't there and Aunt Ann came rushing across town to check on me. Dad was pretty mad, because he was there. I was just making up stories and adventures.
Anyhow, my mother ended up taking me to a child psychologist and he told her I was fine, just making some friends up in my head - very ingenious survival skills. He suggested Kindergarten - and once I started the imaginary friends went away, or at least my memory now doesn't remember interacting with them after I started K - but this was in 1974 when Kindergarten was more like "playschool", I think that's what they called it even.
My dad also taught me how to skate when I was very little - before playschool. He took me to the movies almost every weekend - to see things like The Lincoln Conspiracy, some movie about Noah's Ark (both documentaries), and every Disney movie ever made. I was a lucky little girl, really. My mom was and continues to be a little chilly.
Good for you, probably this, among other things, gave you such a high sense of duty that I get from your posts. It must have felt great to be told you did such a heroic thing and I bet it stuck with you to want to always be that way. Just guessing. Armchair analyzing. hahaha.
I never went to one school dance....not even senior prom. No one ever asked.The first time I was asked out on a date was my freshman year of high school. My yellow princess phone rang, and when I answered it was John Messman calling to ask me if I was going to the upcoming dance. I said no, that I wasn't going. He said, "Okay. I just wanted to know, because I've asked another girl and am waiting to hear if she can go with me. But if she can't, would you go with me?" I said "No," and hung up. Really - was this the way guys operated? I wouldn't have gone with him even if it was a proper invitation, but surely I deserved a better introduction into the dating world than this, I thought. Surely, I should be the first choice for someone calling to ask me to a dance, especially someone who washed his hair once a week, right? Or was this some kind of joke? A friend of mine was dating a guy in my homeroom, and one day this guy came up to me and said, "My friend Steve is very shy, and nervous about asking you to the dance because he's afraid you'll say no. If he asked, would you say yes?" Well, I'd fallen into this trap before and wasn't about to fall into it again. "No," I said. I was really proud of myself for not being gullible and saying yes. Surely, if this Steve wanted to ask me out, he would do it himself, like on television. He'd call me on my yellow phone, and I would smile and twirl my hair like Marsha Brady, and say, "Yes, Friday night sounds great! See you then!" My friend called me that night, surprised that I'd turned Steve down. Oh, I said, was that a real thing? Why didn't he ask me himself? "Because he's super shy, like you," she said. "He sits at home reading all the time, like you, listening to Beatles records and staring into space, like you." Oh, I said. Can you tell him I'd like to go with him? "He's already asked Laura, because they're friends, but he really wanted to go with you." Did I mention that Steve looked like a young Donald Sutherland?
This was the first of many things I have done/not done that caused me regret later in life. I have many regrets. Most of them about situations that didn't live up to my Brady Bunch expectations.
I'm not 'liking' this...I never went to one school dance....not even senior prom. No one ever asked.
I never went to one school dance....not even senior prom. No one ever asked.
I'm not 'liking' this either... aww Deej, this makes me really sad. Some kids can be such dickheads.Well, the first dance I ever went to was one of those where girls and guys just show up, no dates. 8th grade. Parents dumped off the kids for the dance.
I was the joke dance. Guys were dared to dance with me. For all the wrong reasons. Makes me a little nauseous even thinking about that.
And... I would dance with you both! At the same time.(((Dana Jean and Sunny)))-- kids can be so cruel to others. Both of you are so special to the SKMB. I am pleased to call you Tet-Mates and friends!