As for the lady with two death dates...I posted the link to show the notice really does say she died on both days, never mind what she was doing on the 8th...but sometimes even gravestones get dates wrong! Just thought it a bit weird. Regarding the lady with no funeral date...funeral could be private, or circumstances could be like those of my above-mentioned relative. He died in June, services were not till July, then were held out of state, so no announcement of time and place for services appeared in the obituary, but nothing suspicious about it. Same deal with a friend of mine, it took so long to arrange his funeral, the time and place were never published even online let alone in print, and another friend had to email us all...then the time was changed at the last minute due to another event in town. It could be none of the above is the actual victim...her obit, as I said, could have been removed. As for whether it's sicker to abuse a corpse which is old, but intact, or one which is young but has suffered trauma, I leave to others to debate....