I Am Angry Today Because . . .

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HollyGolightly

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I am irritated at the school. I got a message from Evan's teacher that they want him to go to an after school math class for 6 weeks, starting Monday.

Now, the reason this irritates me is because Evan has an A- in math. They are basing the need for this extra help on his MAP test scores, which is that test all the schools use now, you know, teach for the test. Well, my understanding of those tests is that each time they take them, the questions a student gets are based on the last round of scores. So in some cases, the questions are about things they haven't even covered in class yet. (This has happened to him before)

We just don't think he needs it. And there are other things going on that would be difficult to work around, like him being responsible for getting his brother and sister home in the afternoons, especially since I have little RJ here at least 3 afternoons a week...I still have no vehicle and will not drag the baby out in this cold. Evan is already signed up and paid up for hunter safety classes, they start later this month and would overlap. But the biggest reason is because he is an A student.

I don't know. Maybe I'm overreacting. Obviously we want him to succeed, but I would hardly count an A- a failure.
Can you decline this? Sounds like he's very bright and they are wasting his time with this. I'd tell them thanks, but no - your son has math under control.
Math here has gotten very hard in our state. We've just recently over the last 2 years joined the rest of the country with our math skills. But my husband works on it with both kids often. The school offers tutoring, but I feel like they are at school plenty enough already. Too much actually. We like our downtime.
 

HollyGolightly

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I spoke to Evan's teacher and it turns out she made a mistake in recommending this extra class for Evan. I told her Scott and I had discussed it but did not feel his grades warranted him staying after school. She said she didn't have his information in front of her and I said I do...and read off what she had put on his report card in the comment section for math testing. She was really taken aback and she said she must have made a mistake in reading the lines on her master result chart. She apologized several times and I said it was ok that I was glad it was a mistake.

Then we spent a little time just talking about the mechanics of the test and how it worked, just to make sure I understood correctly about not every student necessarily taking the same test because it adjusts to past scores. She said yes, and not only that but it also adjusts while they're taking the test, if they continually get answers right, the questions keep getting more difficult (which often results in material they haven't covered yet and if they get a few in a row wrong, the test will take them down yet another path, with easier questions. So what Evan had on his test was not necessarily anything like what the kid next to him had on his test.

All is well though, she was embarrassed and apologetic about making the mistake and said Evan is doing very well. :)
Well, yay! I didn't read everything before I replied.
 

Dr. Fudd

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Thanks, Flake, I'd rather you not move it if that's okay.

What if the most amazing thing in my life personally is that I like to shoot up heroin? Or have crazy, illicit sex with lots of people? Or talk constantly about myself?
Just because I think it's great doesn't mean SKMBers want to hear it UNLESS it's in a forum where, when they click on it, they know they're going to hear about it.
ToLeRaNcE. Hey, you guys that read my post about tattoos: maybe I should get "Tolerance" tattooed on me somewhere. I think I've found the one thing that I'll always want!!!!!
Those things sound bad for you. The thing I'm talking about frees you from those things. I said if that thing you were sharing saved your life, do the things you're talking about there save lives?
 
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danie

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Those things sound bad for you. The thing I'm talking about frees you from those things. I said if that thing you were sharing saved your life, do the things you're talking about there save lives?
No, of course not.
But being tolerant means you realize that not everyone believes the way you do, and you ACCEPT that.
What you think is most wonderful and saves people's lives may NOT be what others want to hear or believe.
The mods, again, are just doing their jobs. (And they are great at it, I might add.)
 

Dr. Fudd

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No, of course not.
But being tolerant means you realize that not everyone believes the way you do, and you ACCEPT that.
What you think is most wonderful and saves people's lives may NOT be what others want to hear or believe.
The mods, again, are just doing their jobs. (And they are great at it, I might add.)
That's the absolute truth, "What you think is most wonderful and saves people's lives may NOT be what others want to hear or believe." Whoever that's gotten a report from their doctor that they have cancer and they're going to have to have surgery and or chemo to deal with it has wanted to hear or believe that? But it's still necessary to tell them isn't it? They can choose to refuse treatment, but they still have to be given the information.
 
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Sundrop

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I'm not angry today.....I just liked this
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BeverleyMarsh

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That's the absolute truth, "What you think is most wonderful and saves people's lives may NOT be what others want to hear or believe." Whoever that's gotten a report from their doctor that they have cancer and they're going to have to have surgery and or chemo to deal with it has wanted to hear or believe that? But it's still necessary to tell them isn't it? They can choose to refuse treatment, but they still have to be given the information.
I'm getting a headache...
 

FlakeNoir

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Today (and yesterday) I am rather upset at those #%@&ing a$$wipes that phone you to "fix" your computer. Now normally I will have a little bit of fun with them, but they have taken to phoning at night--late at night.
Yesterday it was 11:00pm and tonight, it was midnight. I have kids you jerks and if you wake them up.... I will reach through the phone and 'fix' your computer for you... or something.

To be honest, I have (very) elderly grandparents and a parent that recently had surgery, so when my phone rings late at night... it always scares the crap out of me because normally it heralds bad news.
Leave us alone... get a real job, you know... one where you don't try to take advantage of somebody else. Grrrr. :glare:
 

Neesy

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Today (and yesterday) I am rather upset at those #%@&ing a$$wipes that phone you to "fix" your computer. Now normally I will have a little bit of fun with them, but they have taken to phoning at night--late at night.
Yesterday it was 11:00pm and tonight, it was midnight. I have kids you jerks and if you wake them up.... I will reach through the phone and 'fix' your computer for you... or something.

To be honest, I have (very) elderly grandparents and a parent that recently had surgery, so when my phone rings late at night... it always scares the crap out of me because normally it heralds bad news.
Leave us alone... get a real job, you know... one where you don't try to take advantage of somebody else. Grrrr. :glare:

It is better to let it bubble over than hold it in. :)
I agree with Spidey, Flake - damn those telemarketers - sometimes you just have to vent!
(((Flake))) :biglove:
 

AnnaMarie

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That's the absolute truth, "What you think is most wonderful and saves people's lives may NOT be what others want to hear or believe." Whoever that's gotten a report from their doctor that they have cancer and they're going to have to have surgery and or chemo to deal with it has wanted to hear or believe that? But it's still necessary to tell them isn't it? They can choose to refuse treatment, but they still have to be given the information.

Actually, no. My grandmother fought cancer, but it was a hard battle. Ten years later she had emergency surgery to clear a blockage in her bowel. The doctors also discovered cancer. They left it alone, and told her kids but didn't tell her. Twenty years later she died of old age. (She was over 100 when she died.)

As for religion jamming it down someone's throat is not the way to save them. It has the exact opposite effect. I had a friend who was adopted by a Christian minister. Whenever he did anything bad (and so many many things were considered bad by this minister) he would be beaten with a bible. Literally smacked in the head with a bible. As soon as he was able to get out of that house he never set foot in a church again. But sometimes the beating with a bible isn't physical. But if you are constantly trying to force it on people it feels just like a beating and the end result is the opposite of what you are aiming for. You will turn people away from God and church.