Just a few thoughts from a regular Jen

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Well, when people think of me they often think immediately of Hot Topics. I don’t understand why if the Hot Topics area makes people uncomfortable, or certain people do, it isn’t just avoided and the people just ignored. I tired to find out if I was part of the problem. Maybe those people I communicated with are just too kind, because I still see posts like this keep coming up, and I can’t help but think some of it is directed at me. I know there are times a post I make causes things to spiral downward and out of control. I might not be the problem, but I obviously contribute to it. Perhaps I should take a time out from the SKMB and see if things cool off. I don’t want to be the cause of people leaving. And I do feel sorry for the mods being forced to read what transpires from my posts. If nothing else, taking some time off would be an affirmation one way or the other to see if it’s me that's the problem.
No need to leave as far as I'm concerned.
 

Spideyman

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Well, when people think of me they often think immediately of Hot Topics. I don’t understand why if the Hot Topics area makes people uncomfortable, or certain people do, it isn’t just avoided and the people just ignored. I tired to find out if I was part of the problem. Maybe those people I communicated with are just too kind, because I still see posts like this keep coming up, and I can’t help but think some of it is directed at me. I know there are times a post I make causes things to spiral downward and out of control. I might not be the problem, but I obviously contribute to it. Perhaps I should take a time out from the SKMB and see if things cool off. I don’t want to be the cause of people leaving. And I do feel sorry for the mods being forced to read what transpires from my posts. If nothing else, taking some time off would be an affirmation one way or the other to see if it’s me that's the problem.

Hot Topics are like the flame to the moth. People just can't resist reading- whether they participate or not. Sometimes they allow some negative vibes in those topics to influence their posting in other areas.
 

niro

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Am I naive? Or just clueless? I honestly have no idea what hipmamajen is referring to. The rest of you seem to though.

On the other hand, I try not to read/get involved in political or religious posts, so maybe that's why. I do agree that the 3 Graces (otherwise known as mods) do an amazing job. I can only just imagine (and shudder at) what goes on behind the scenes! Thanks ladies!

I had seen a post from Flake about this theme. But I avoid the Hot Topics section mostly so I hadn't had a clue either.
I think the moderators have to make a decision if the Hot Topics section gonne be closed or not.
Maybe our moderators need a vacay it's a lot of work to moderate here I guess.

You are doing a great job here!
 

fljoe0

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Am I naive? Or just clueless? I honestly have no idea what hipmamajen is referring to. The rest of you seem to though.

On the other hand, I try not to read/get involved in political or religious posts, so maybe that's why. I do agree that the 3 Graces (otherwise known as mods) do an amazing job. I can only just imagine (and shudder at) what goes on behind the scenes! Thanks ladies!

I haven't noticed anything unusual either. The Hot Topics get a little contentious at times but I haven't noticed anything horrible.

Anyway, thank you mods, all of you do a great job.
 

fljoe0

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Well, when people think of me they often think immediately of Hot Topics. I don’t understand why if the Hot Topics area makes people uncomfortable, or certain people do, it isn’t just avoided and the people just ignored. I tired to find out if I was part of the problem. Maybe those people I communicated with are just too kind, because I still see posts like this keep coming up, and I can’t help but think some of it is directed at me. I know there are times a post I make causes things to spiral downward and out of control. I might not be the problem, but I obviously contribute to it. Perhaps I should take a time out from the SKMB and see if things cool off. I don’t want to be the cause of people leaving. And I do feel sorry for the mods being forced to read what transpires from my posts. If nothing else, taking some time off would be an affirmation one way or the other to see if it’s me that's the problem.

I don't see how you could be considered a problem. You give your opinions and are respectful to others (except to Hoss - but you guys are just having fun with each other) when you disagree.
 

Dana Jean

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Well, when people think of me they often think immediately of Hot Topics. I don’t understand why if the Hot Topics area makes people uncomfortable, or certain people do, it isn’t just avoided and the people just ignored. I tired to find out if I was part of the problem. Maybe those people I communicated with are just too kind, because I still see posts like this keep coming up, and I can’t help but think some of it is directed at me. I know there are times a post I make causes things to spiral downward and out of control. I might not be the problem, but I obviously contribute to it. Perhaps I should take a time out from the SKMB and see if things cool off. I don’t want to be the cause of people leaving. And I do feel sorry for the mods being forced to read what transpires from my posts. If nothing else, taking some time off would be an affirmation one way or the other to see if it’s me that's the problem.
DIO! No! You must stay. The hot topics are for that. I see the problem as when feelings and attitudes FROM the hot topics spill over to the main part of the board, that's where the problem is. I expect lots of heat in the Hot Topics, but the rest of the board is for other things.
 

danie

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I don't see how you could be considered a problem. You give your opinions and are respectful to others (except to Hoss - but you guys are just having fun with each other) when you disagree.
I was just getting ready to post this almost word for word. Thanks, Joe.
And DiO'Bolic , I learn so much from reading your posts, and as fljoe0 stated, you always seem respectful, knowledgeable and happy (with your little :) ).
 

Out of Order

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Wanted to get one thing in... Thanks for the kind words everyone, but it’s only a break. You can’t get rid of me that easily. Think of it as a vacation for everyone. :)

(And OoO, i think I’ll be dead before either of those happen. :()

Oh man, I didn't want to make you feel bad. You know me.....

Besides you can't leave, even a for a little while. You have to help Ms. Mod battle all the Mr. Aces.......
 

PatInTheHat

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Wanted to get one thing in... Thanks for the kind words everyone, but it’s only a break. You can’t get rid of me that easily. Think of it as a vacation for everyone. :)

(And OoO, i think I’ll be dead before either of those happen. :()

:glare:
Oh sure, so like what, ya got another board on the sideo_O???
Philanderer:oops:!
(hey man, I don't even have a real keyboard, so how bad could it be:laugh:...gee whiz do ya have any idea how long and much effort this is takin', how hard it is to hit those teeny tiny faces starin' at me, they taunt me ya know:rolleyes:)
Yeah just run off with your little chippy board, butt know this, I'ma have a real keyboard again one day, then you'll be sorry you will you will:drool:...ya see ya see, that was supposed to be a sad face and I ain't gonna fix it, you deal with the drool
 

Out of Order

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:glare:
Oh sure, so like what, ya got another board on the sideo_O???
Philanderer:oops:!
(hey man, I don't even have a real keyboard, so how bad could it be:laugh:...gee whiz do ya have any idea how long and much effort this is takin', how hard it is to hit those teeny tiny faces starin' at me, they taunt me ya know:rolleyes:)
Yeah just run off with your little chippy board, butt know this, I'ma have a real keyboard again one day, then you'll be sorry you will you will:drool:...ya see ya see, that was supposed to be a sad face and I ain't gonna fix it, you deal with the drool

Try a magnifying glass, PITH. Just be careful not to set fire to your phone if it happens to be Sunny out......
 

PatInTheHat

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Try a magnifying glass, PITH. Just be careful not to set fire to your phone if it happens to be Sunny out......
Oh I can sees 'em, just can't hit 'em worth a crap, hell don't even have to hit a key, just get near one, but pencils and stuff doesn't work...I'm bein' punished is what it is!
But hey thankz for the magnifying glass tip, it most certainly IS a sunny day...well, high velocity chuckin' is so yesterday:a28: