Old Wives Tales. Do They Work?

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Sigmund

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Hi.

My culture has a gazillion *old wives tales*. Superstitions and tales. Or are they?

There is one that fascinated me.

If a person has had traumatic news or been badly scared the belief is they will suddenly fall to the ground, go to *sleep* (coma) or die because the trauma or scare makes their soul leave their body.

To avoid this, the person is given a spoonful of sugar in three steps. Get a glass of water, a spoonful of sugar and have them take three sips of the sugar. But the sugar is administered in the following manner: "In the name of the Father *sip sugar*, the Son *sip sugar* and the Holy Spirit *sip sugar*. Ta da! No coma or death.

I did some research. A lot of Hispanics suffer from undiagnosed diabetes. If a person with diabetes experiences something traumatic their sugar can drop to dangerous levels thus the coma or death. By giving sugar in small increments diabetic coma or or death can be averted. Yay!

My people had the *superstitious* belief of the soul leaving the body but there old wives tale remedy worked.

One more, please.

When children complain of nightmares and resist going to sleep because of the nightmares the belief is there are evil spirits about waiting for the child to go to sleep to harm them.

What we do:

Tell the child we are going to sweep the nightmares away. We move their bed and sweep under the bed and take away whatever is under there (dust, dust bunnies) while praying the Our Father out loud. We then position the broom on the floor where the child's head on the pillow would be. Put the bed back into position and again, ta da! No nightmares. (I think this one is pure psychology-power of suggestion.)

Thank you for your time and patience reading this long description.

Do you have any old wives tales? Do you have any *remedies*?

Peace.
 

HollyGolightly

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I love those Sig - never heard them.

I live by the itchy hands - if the left one itches, a visitor is coming. If the right one itches, money is coming - but don't scratch your hand or you will scare it away.

If you put someone's shoes on a table, they will be the next one in the family to die. I have discovered this isn't true, thank the Lord!

I wish I had some more interesting ones. I know my crazy hillbilly relatives have a bunch, I can't think of anymore right now.
 

Sigmund

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Interesting stories, Sigs. Never heard them. Like them.

I'd heard if the left hand itches, you're about to lose money. Right one itches, you're about to get some money. If your ear itches, someone's talking about you. If a small bump on your skin itches, you've had a mosquito bite.

:glee:

Leave me alone!

I'm not a well person.

Peace.
 

Kurben

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Never ever put your keys (to the door on the table! Brings bad luck.
If you live in a farm out in the country (not in a city) you should put out a plate with some porridge or some other simple foodstuff outside the door. The Farms Gnome would take it and eat it and in return he would protect the house and the farms animals from harm. If you don't then some animal would get sick or die or a small domestic catastrophe would occur. (personally i think many a cat have prospered thanks to this tale)
 

Walter Oobleck

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I've noted some curious things in some of the stories I've read, not sure how to classify them, old wives tales, folklore, superstition. In Our Daily Bread by Kalle Päätalo, there is described using a bat's skin under one's arm for good luck at cards. In another story...either from Elmore Leonard or Charles Willeford, a character gets up from the card table and moves around his chair a number of times and recites some line. Do either one have any basis in life or are they simply the product of the writer's imagination? My guess is the first one likely mirrors life in Finland at that time--1900-1930 or so...but the other? Could be either one.

In This Stubborn Soil by William A. Owens, a memoir of a frontier boy in Texas, cedars planted too close to the house is bad luck.

One that comes to mind from my life is from way back when...Mom pregnant...in the kitchen, immediate family gathered, perhaps others present, too. She gets a needle on a thread and either holds it by the thread, needle pointing at her wrist, or another holds it and the needle begins to move in an ellipse, clockwise or counter-clockwise I forget, but direction indicated sex of the baby she was growing in her womb.

I'm sure there are others and no doubt some of them I would not recognize them as old wives tales.
 

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If you are walking down a street with a friend or family member, and a pole is there, both persons should walk on one side or the other of it. Not one on one side, and the other person on the other side. If you 'split a pole' you will argue with that other person before the day is out.
 

GNTLGNT

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...old wive's tale/tail...the Gnt variety...
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blunthead

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Interesting stories, Sigs. Never heard them. Like them.

I'd heard if the left hand itches, you're about to lose money. Right one itches, you're about to get some money. If your ear itches, someone's talking about you. If a small bump on your skin itches, you've had a mosquito bite.
If your butt itches don't scratch it in front of the boss, especially if you're a waiter.
 

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There used to be something about if a bird hits a window and dies, it's an omen that someone in the house will die. If a dove comes to your house, someone will die.

When my mom was sick, I came one morning and she was upset. She told me a bird hit her back sliding glass door. It looked up at her and died. It was a dove. My mom was big into old wives tales, so we were both thinking the same thing, but neither of us said a word. I just took care of the bird and we moved on.
 

Kurben

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There used to be something about if a bird hits a window and dies, it's an omen that someone in the house will die. If a dove comes to your house, someone will die.

When my mom was sick, I came one morning and she was upset. She told me a bird hit her back sliding glass door. It looked up at her and died. It was a dove. My mom was big into old wives tales, so we were both thinking the same thing, but neither of us said a word. I just took care of the bird and we moved on.
Buzzards perhaps, not doves. Doves come bringing messages of love.
 

Spideyman

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I think it's an Amish thing. Can't remember the origin of that.
Doves

Doves have always been seen as significant religious and spiritual symbols, and it is believed that the dove is the one bird that the Devil cannot change himself into and the one bird that is immune to the Devil’s curses.

The dove is the Christian symbol for the Holy Spirit and nowadays is regarded as a symbol of international peace.

Doves are very much associated with lovers and some couples have white doves released when they celebrate their weddings. This maybe is because doves are supposed to mate for life and be devoted to each other.

Doves were regarded as the messengers of the Roman goddess of love Venus, and Indians regard killing a dove as unlucky, as doves are thought to hold within themselves the soul of a lover.

Having a dove flying around or tapping on the windows of a house that contains a sick person is seen as sign that the patient will shortly die, and miners regard seeing a dove near their mineshaft as an omen that there will be danger if they descend into the mine.

A dove was also the bird chosen by Noah to fly off from the ark and search for dry land, and legend has it that a kingfisher was also sent. The kingfisher flew so high into the sky that its feathers became coloured blue from the sky and vivid orange from the sun.