My son's phone history....in the last two weeks it's something like 3 phone calls and around 650 texts....lolYour daughter sounds a lot like mine. I bet she'd could have got her own answers if she was able to text them (like mine would have)........
Off topic but this post reminded me of something. I look thru my son's phone occasionally just in case. He and all of his friends have Instagram accounts and I want to try and at least make an effort at keeping him honest. It's like looking into another universe. 12 year old girls and boys professing their undying love for one another. Girls posting things about killing other girls if they don't stop looking at their boyfriend. Is 12 the new 21 or something? I ask him about what goes on in his school and if Instagram is an accurate representation of how kids in his school act? He says it is. He told me he knows of at least 3 or 4 girls who have gotten into fights with weapons like nail files, one brought a knife apparently just for the purpose of getting to another girl who has been talking to her boyfriend. He said there are twice as many girls in ISS(In School Suspension) as there are guys. He said there was one girl who was taken out of school for cutting on herself during class. Apparently she just decided to pull out a knife and start cutting on herself. I listen to his "normal" day at school and I marvel at how he seems to be detached from most of it but it just seems like business as usual to him. I've asked him about what his teachers do or the principal and he immediately says the teachers are afraid to do anything to the kids and the kids know this. He shows me pics on Instagram that are taken and posted during the school day even though his school has a "no cell phones in class" policy. If it were one or two pics it would be more in line with that policy, but he said the teachers really won't do anything because most of the teachers have THEIR phones sitting right beside them on their desk also! He was showing me the other day there were something like 35-40 pics per day posted by people he is friends with on Instagram during the school day. Some of the pics were right from the classroom. It's a bit concerning thinking this has become the norm. Cell phones are useful but they can be so distracting, I would imagine ever more so in a learning environment. My son said it's become commonplace to hear text tones or phones just outright ringing right in the middle of class. The teacher will sometimes say something but most of the time they don't bother, they just wait for the phone to stop ringing...lol I don't get it. Back when I was in middle school, junior high, and even into high school there were teachers I was just outright afraid of because they would not put up with distractions in their classes. It kept everyone honest and anyone who didn't want to comply was made an example of. I've told my son this and he says it's not anything like that nowadays in his middle school The kids run the place and the teachers just try to get thru the class without enraging a student. Times change I suppose...but that "old man mentality" that used to seem so foggy and far into the future is much clearer now..lol