SharonC

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gniknehpets

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Sharon my heart aches for you and your family. I hope when I am where you are I have the grace you are showing us.

The last day my mom was alive she asked me to bring her glasses to her so she could read the sign that told when the ship was coming. She said she missed it the first time. I asked her if she wanted to go on the ship and she said "Well of course! It's beautiful there!" When I'm having a bad day missing her I think of her sailing away with a huge and wonderful smile on her face and I know she's happy and loved where she is.

I hope that wasn't wrong of me to share that with you, I don't mean to cause you pain or discomfort, but it meant so much to me and comforts me so much I hope maybe it will do the same for you.
 

Sigmund

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In your mirror.
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mstay

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Oct 13, 2007
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...Darlin', this has rocked me hard....you have always been one of my dearest friends here, quick with a kind comment or encouragement and besides-we share a love of Koontz as well...nothing I could say will ease this diagnosis-no "happy words" to sweeten the grim reality...I have always been open and honest with you, so please know I am heartened by your acceptance of the inevitable and an end to your trials...palliative care personnel are The White's messengers and hands here on our plane of existence-and should you need ANYTHING, ask them. There should be little if any pain as you take the walk to your clearing. Please know that I am there step by step with you in my heart, and if there is a need-I will do my best to accomplish it for you or your family. Questions? I will do my best to answer. You have lived a good life, and nothing but joy awaits you...say hi to John D and the rest of our Board friends....you will never be forgotten, and as long as you are able-continue to join us here...I love you very much girl....and from our mutual friend, Mr. Koontz:

Some lives, conducted with grace, are beautiful arcs bridging this world to eternity.

DEAN KOONTZ, Odd Thomas

This made me cry and I couldn't have said it any better than GNT.

Sharon we love you! As others have said you are one of the sweetest souls here. My heart will be with you as you face this. I will pray for you every day.
 

SharonC

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Jul 9, 2007
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Sharon my heart aches for you and your family. I hope when I am where you are I have the grace you are showing us.

The last day my mom was alive she asked me to bring her glasses to her so she could read the sign that told when the ship was coming. She said she missed it the first time. I asked her if she wanted to go on the ship and she said "Well of course! It's beautiful there!" When I'm having a bad day missing her I think of her sailing away with a huge and wonderful smile on her face and I know she's happy and loved where she is.

I hope that wasn't wrong of me to share that with you, I don't mean to cause you pain or discomfort, but it meant so much to me and comforts me so much I hope maybe it will do the same for you.

That's a lovely memory to share
 

Rrty

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Jun 4, 2007
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I am so very sorry to have read this. I am in pain, and I mean that. When I see your picture and think about this, it's hard.

I would honestly suggest you keep exploring options. However, whatever your plans are, they are yours, and I support them. And obviously you're not going anywhere immediately. Enjoy the time you have left, my friend (and it hopefully will be longer than anyone thinks). Get outside if you can, maybe read a King story in some good weather.

God bless you.
 

Out of Order

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Feb 9, 2011
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Never had the way with words that some others do. It has always been a chore for me to convey how I feel about something as difficult as this. Just wanted to say that I think about you, Sharon, each and every day and how I enjoy seeing your smiling face on your Avatar when you post. A little bit of light in what can be a gloomy world at times. Thank you.
 

misery chastain loves co.

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I can't say anything any better than what everyone else has said. GNT made me tear up. What an out pouring of love for you. I know I haven't been here nearly as long as others but we've talked a few times and everytime I see your profile picture it makes me smile. You look so happy and dare I say adorable. Nameless was right on the money when he said Nan. My grandmother was a Nana and you remind me a little of her which is a wonderful thing.
I imagine you have had an incredible journey and will be taking another one. Stay strong. You have touched many lives and the best gift you can leave behind are memories and knowing that somewhere, always, someone will be thinking of you and give a little smile at that thought. (((sharon)))