What it means to be British.

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Shasta

On his shell he holds the earth.
But that's rude and may lead to unnecessary conflict. One must always retain the pretence of acceptance and respect, don't'cha know? Manners maketh man, and all that. ;)
I'd so much rather someone just know I hate them. It doesn't seem to lead to that much conflict. In my life, respect is honesty. But that's just me!
 

Neesy

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I'd so much rather someone just know I hate them. It doesn't seem to lead to that much conflict. In my life, respect is honesty. But that's just me!
I found that perhaps the British could be a bit too reserved (and I was in Scotland) when I thought that. According to the English, I think they regard the Irish and the Scots as the "wild bunch" or the hooligans of the UK ;):smile:
 

Neesy

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What is Marmite?
It is a weird substance that smells funny and is apparently quite good for you - it is dark brown and sticky and people spread it on toast! :O_O:

From Wikipedia:
The British version of the product is a sticky, dark brown food paste with a distinctive, powerful flavour, which is extremely salty. This distinctive taste is reflected in the British company's marketing slogan: "Love it or hate it."
 

Mr Nobody

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I'd so much rather someone just know I hate them. It doesn't seem to lead to that much conflict. In my life, respect is honesty. But that's just me!

That's fair enough. Except, here, if you say to someone "I don't like you" (and mean it/see it as being honest and courteous in it's way - which, tbh, it is), you'll get some pithy/sarcastic response, a fair dollop of ridicule (e.g. 'you still in the f****** playground or something?', or, for the toffee-nosed 'Oh dear. Whatever will I do? But such openness does you no credit, you know...')...and that's really just for starters.
Your way's arguably the best and easiest...but it just doesn't fly over here (at least, not where I am; might be different 'dahn saahf', but I doubt it).
We learn "better" early on. Just one of the differences between the cousins.

@Neesy: They were just being polite. There's not much 'reserved' about a proper Glasgow Kiss. :D

@Autumnlyn: Marmite's this thick, sticky, dark-coloured yeast spread that you either love or loathe and could probably fix roads with. I can't stand it, personally. Awful stuff.
 

MadamMack

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My uncle told me that Australians are just Americans with British accents :dunno::face:

:rofl:

I want to reply, but
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HollyGolightly

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I think so . . .whenever I say "Bless your heart . . ."

I'm really saying something mean about you to myself.
Are you a southern girl too? You know what we say: If you don't have anything nice to say about anyone, come sit by me. (Says Weezer).

And saying "Oh honey, bless your heart" can be sincere or it can mean "it must suck to be gettin' what you deserve, honey".
 

MadamMack

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Are you a southern girl too? You know what we say: If you don't have anything nice to say about anyone, come sit by me. (Says Weezer).

And saying "Oh honey, bless your heart" can be sincere or it can mean "it must suck to be gettin' what you deserve, honey".

If I put 'Oh honey' in the front of it, then I am being nice . . .haven't done that in YEARS!

I am very Southern. Bless my heart!
 

Neesy

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