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FlakeNoir

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Spideyman said:
@Flake--- never could I be upset at your honesty. You spoke the truth.

I hope I have not been misunderstood/misinterpreted in my reply post to OoO question regarding Sig. I, too, have had dealings with Siggy-- her making contact, conveying her thoughts, a reply is sent and then nothing more. Yes one becomes tired of that behavior. There are many things I find negative about Siggy.

I was only being courteous to OoO in stating I would pass the message on to Sig, if and when she made contact with me in the future. The same with any others that requested it. This is no way means I condone Siggy's behavior in the past. Please do not think that I do. I find what she did to fellow Tet-Mates and the SKMB unacceptable.

I am thankful that both Flake and Scott have also stated their disapproval of Siggy's behavior and attitude toward the SKMB family. Please do not feel that I condoned nor accept what Siggy has done. I was simply responding to OoO and others.
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No, I understand completely where you're coming from. You have and always will be the person on this MB that provides support when asked and even preemptively... so being the conduit here is completely understandable.
I'd also like to think that all of this perhaps happened for a reason. Maybe Sigs will see these messages and have a good think about some of the choices she has made. I am a firm believer that it is never too late to take stock in your own behaviour and attitudes when they're pointed out... and to see if any changes are needed.
I have been taught many, many valuable lessons here on the message board. Some lessons were hard learned, but I'm hoping they're making me into a more well-rounded person.
 
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kingricefan

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GNTLGNT said:
....there was a slice of nasty I hope to never see repeated and shortly after she went Todash...her psychological gamesmanship back fired on her....
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I'm glad that I wasn't around and/or involved in it. I don't like nastiness, Scott, you know that. Never have, never will. Can't abide it when someone (whether it's an established member or a newbie) is hurtful to my family here. I don't want any details either, I'll just be better off not knowing anything then. I hurt for Siggy as she was a friend to me, but I won't abide nastiness to me friends.
 
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GNTLGNT

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kingricefan said:
I'm glad that I wasn't around and/or involved in it. I don't like nastiness, Scott, you know that. Never have, never will. Can't abide it when someone (whether it's an established member or a newbie) is hurtful to my family here. I don't want any details either, I'll just be better off not knowing anything then. I hurt for Siggy as she was a friend to me, but I won't abide nastiness to me friends.
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...you speak true dearheart...best we all just move on...and with love...always with love....
 
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Neesy

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.....and Daisies! Don't forget the Daisies!!
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not_nadine

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Spideyman said:
@Flake--- never could I be upset at your honesty. You spoke the truth.

I hope I have not been misunderstood/misinterpreted in my reply post to OoO question regarding Sig. I, too, have had dealings with Siggy-- her making contact, conveying her thoughts, a reply is sent and then nothing more. Yes one becomes tired of that behavior. There are many things I find negative about Siggy.

I was only being courteous to OoO in stating I would pass the message on to Sig, if and when she made contact with me in the future. The same with any others that requested it. This is no way means I condone Siggy's behavior in the past. Please do not think that I do. I find what she did to fellow Tet-Mates and the SKMB unacceptable.

I am thankful that both Flake and Scott have also stated their disapproval of Siggy's behavior and attitude toward the SKMB family. Please do not feel that I condoned nor accept what Siggy has done. I was simply responding to OoO and others.
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I have to respond. First, thank you Spidey and all responses. I now know that I am not alone in feeling this way.
Sigs and I were in touch. She would call, no Pms. Gosh we would laugh.
Then just stopped after I disagreed with her. No response. I thought I did something wrong. I did not. I was defending a board member, and would not hear bad made up things.

Sigs, if you are reading this.. I hope that that was just a lapse in posting judgement and if you will come back with the Tet as a family that we are.

I was just cut off just like that. She was done with me.

Hope you are well.


I really do.
 
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