I Am Angry Today Because . . .

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skimom2

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No, he still hasn't told me. He acted a little funny last week when I asked him if he had gotten married yet.....we always ask each other that question......it's a long running joke with us. He didn't reply in the usual way. I had also mentioned to him that my BF and I might be in Los Angeles for New Year's Eve, and he said that he would probably be in the Philippines. I didn't think anything of that, his girlfriend is from there.....but when he started acting weird, I searched face book using his girlfriend's first name and his last name. They were married on May 4,.2013.....I saw the wedding photos...... Baby is due this month.
I asked him why he didn't tell me......I haven't received a reply.
Maybe he's harbored a crush for all these years and wanted to keep a window of possibility open. Or maybe he thought YOU had a crush and thought his marriage would devastate you. Or maybe he's just a dick who thought, "Yeah, maybe one day I'll make my move." You'll never know until you talk to him. Sounds like a relationship killer, any way you go. I'm sorry you have to go through this, Sunny.
 

PatInTheHat

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Maybe he's harbored a crush for all these years and wanted to keep a window of possibility open. Or maybe he thought YOU had a crush and thought his marriage would devastate you. Or maybe he's just a dick who thought, "Yeah, maybe one day I'll make my move." You'll never know until you talk to him. Sounds like a relationship killer, any way you go. I'm sorry you have to go through this, Sunny.
I'm goin' with dick...hey I'm a dude, know the secret handshake and everything.
 

lowman

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Im angry because im sick of being sick,its always something,one thing gets better something else shows up,its constant cycle if i were somone else looking at me id swear i was a hypochondriac ive got a list of health problems as it is.IT NEVER FREAKING CHANGES GRRRRRRR!!
 

FlakeNoir

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Im angry because im sick of being sick,its always something,one thing gets better something else shows up,its constant cycle if i were somone else looking at me id swear i was a hypochondriac ive got a list of health problems as it is.IT NEVER FREAKING CHANGES GRRRRRRR!!
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CoriSCapnSkip

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It's a really big thing to be able to recognise in ourselves when things are slipping... and it happens to us all at different times. Being able to choose the things that we want to spend a lot of time thinking about is hugely empowering... letting go of the stuff that can only harm us without any (or very little) benefit, is even more special.

Sending you a hug... ((( CoriSCapnSkip ))) please don't give up, there is still so much good in the world, sometimes it's just a little bit hidden.

She is now back, but the post is gone for good. Not rewriting until I feel like! At least it doesn't seem to have been intentional or the result of any smear against me.
 

Dana Jean

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Apr 11, 2006
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A friend of our family died from cancer this morning at the age of 46 and in the block round the corner from my house there are assorted wastes of space who don't work, sell drugs and generally mess up the neighbourhood who will probably live into their 80's.
I'm so sorry, and I understand.