I’m not at all ready either. My fiancée was quick to tell me this was not something she was looking for me to do with her or because she was quitting. I was free to keep smoking but she’s just done. But, imho, she was never a hard core smoker more of just an occasional one and did it more as a social thing or a break thing. I, on the other hand, smoked since I was 17 around a pack of day, more thru college peaking at around a pack and a half a day give or take until 2003 when I found out I was going to be a Dad, BAM! Quit cold turkey never looked back until 2015 when everything got FUBAR with my ex wife. Right back on them like I never quit and, if I’m being honest, I welcomed it. They always calmed me down and gave me a few minutes of peace. All thru my divorce, the aftermath, the really crappy days afterwards, I could always go out and have a smoke you know? It was lucky that my fiancée smoked when I met her this time and that made my smoking more accepted but now she wants to be all healthy and stuff...lol