Hi everyone! I haven't been around here lately... Since the beginning of January things started falling apart for me. So I just did not have time and mental strength to come here or anywhere else. And I am really missing you all! I'll try and come here now and then...
Just to say a few words, I am still having problems at work, the economical situation here is very unstable and everyone is going through a very hard time. So, each day is very stressful and it's very, very hard. The situation at home is also not easy. What made it even worse, things are falling apart in my private life, too. I thing I could use some piece of advice, as you all here are more experienced in life.
Many of you remember how happy I was half a year ago, when I started dating the guy I am with now. Two things are making it complicated now. First, he has to move back to his native town, it is not far away from mine, but still we'll be able to meet only at weekends. What is even worse is that my family are finishing constructions works of our new appartment that is meant for me and in a month or so I can easily move there and I have to decide if I will be moving alone or ith my boyfriend. The problem is my family is very traditional and they don't want me to live with a guy without getting married first. And my boyfriend is not ready to make this step, he wants to live together with me for some period of time first... And I just don't know what to do. On one had, I understand him and it would be great to finally live together, but on the other hand, if he really wants to be with me he has to make some choice and do what's best for me... Again, I know he loves me, I am sure he will never hurt me. But something tells me something's not right. I don't want to push him into anything, and I woudn't be able to even if I wanted to. I am so afraid to make a mistake... Let alone there is nothing good that could make me go through all this.
I would appreciate your opinions, maybe some of you would tell me something from your experience. What is the best option here, what could I do?
Just to say a few words, I am still having problems at work, the economical situation here is very unstable and everyone is going through a very hard time. So, each day is very stressful and it's very, very hard. The situation at home is also not easy. What made it even worse, things are falling apart in my private life, too. I thing I could use some piece of advice, as you all here are more experienced in life.
Many of you remember how happy I was half a year ago, when I started dating the guy I am with now. Two things are making it complicated now. First, he has to move back to his native town, it is not far away from mine, but still we'll be able to meet only at weekends. What is even worse is that my family are finishing constructions works of our new appartment that is meant for me and in a month or so I can easily move there and I have to decide if I will be moving alone or ith my boyfriend. The problem is my family is very traditional and they don't want me to live with a guy without getting married first. And my boyfriend is not ready to make this step, he wants to live together with me for some period of time first... And I just don't know what to do. On one had, I understand him and it would be great to finally live together, but on the other hand, if he really wants to be with me he has to make some choice and do what's best for me... Again, I know he loves me, I am sure he will never hurt me. But something tells me something's not right. I don't want to push him into anything, and I woudn't be able to even if I wanted to. I am so afraid to make a mistake... Let alone there is nothing good that could make me go through all this.
I would appreciate your opinions, maybe some of you would tell me something from your experience. What is the best option here, what could I do?